What if someone else puts his fault on you?

Refusal to admit one's mistakes can be broken down into two levels:

One is ignorance.

Lack of experience, knowledge and vision will affect the logical judgment and way of thinking in the face of things, and thus make mistakes. And the limited cognition is convinced that their wrong choice is correct.

The family education that cultivates such people is a failure, and it must be caused by the fact that the parents themselves are not at a high level and do not pay attention to the cognitive growth of their children.

The other is self-centeredness.

There is a big difference between self-centeredness and selfishness, self-centered people, self-centered, not empathetic to the people around them, and do not understand or try to understand the thoughts and feelings of the people around them. Refusing to admit mistakes and listen to the opinions of others is a typical case of self.

Family education that nurtures such people is a failure, and the vast majority of anyone's foundation of empathy is built in childhood, and the period when empathy interaction is strongest is infancy. Failure to establish good empathy with parents will affect the growth of empathy later on, and the inability to understand the feelings and thoughts of others will lead to self-centeredness. Can parents try to establish good communication with their children?

Passing the blame on others is the result of a mental journey.

Running away from the fact that you are wrong will shirk responsibility.

There are "legitimate" reasons for not being responsible, and passing the buck.

In fact, it is an inferior quality of irresponsibility and inaction.

Family education should not be too responsible for this inferiority, only the role model, which will be born from the wrong idea of imitating the behavior of those around you and escapism, and it is mostly a personal problem.

I will not accept or tolerate others pushing their mistakes on me. I will definitely fight for my mistakes and get them to apologize for my wrongdoing. Don't be polite to this kind of person, and make him pay for his wrong actions.

Isn't there something wrong with you? Some habits are taken for granted in others.

It seems that it is easy to arouse suspicion, so you should be positive, ask more classmates, and don't want to suffer the most, and use the right way to clear your suspicions.

Everyone has their own friends, friends are easy to make mistakes, and they are also easy to make mistakes. So today, let's talk about what should I do if my friend sometimes makes mistakes and always doesn't admit them, and wants to blame me for the mistakes?

1.Clarify the facts face to face.

For example, the person who refuses to admit mistakes and pass the buck is a colleague of yours. After some work problems arise, it is clear that it is the responsibility of the other party, but the other party refuses to admit it, and tries their best to transfer the responsibility to you. At this time, you can't accept it honestly, but tell all the facts when the other party starts talking nonsense, and the facts speak louder than words.

2.Point out the vulnerabilities of the other party one by one.

When the other party finishes defending and feels that he will never admit his mistake and perfectly transfer the responsibility to others, you have to write down what the other party just said, at least remember the loopholes in those words, point them out one by one, and ask the other party how to explain this and that.

3.By the way, do not refute.

When you meet a colleague, you take the credit from us and blame us. From the side, it also shows that this colleague is not very good. If we hear this colleague's attack and blame us, shouldn't we hit him back on the spot?

I'm telling you, absolutely not. Because once we directly counterattack on the spot, the two sides will inevitably fall into a war of words. Even if the results are obvious, in the eyes of the leader, those colleagues who are fighting for jobs will definitely lose credibility, and we ourselves will be felt impatient, impulsive, and unbearable by the leader.

It can be said that turning the other cheek on the spot is a tactic of killing 1000 enemies and losing 800 enemies. And also offended the colleagues on the bright side. If this happens, all you have to do is not to refute it on the spot.

Instead, he followed what he said, saying that the other party did make a lot of mistakes in his work and gave him a lot of help. This will give the other party a face first, and it will also prevent things from going worse.

Friends are used to face problems together, not always shirk responsibility, let you stand up to such friends and don't get along, and you also need to make it clear to him directly that I am not responsible for your own wrongdoing.

You should tell your friends that it's not right for you to do this, and it will affect our relationship, so I hope you can correct it and don't break our relationship.

You can sit down and communicate with your friend, and tell him that even if he doesn't admit his mistakes, don't blame them on you, and this is a nuisance, and I hope he can correct them.

You should make it clear to your friends, don't blame all the mistakes on you, tell your friends, don't do it in the future, you are particularly disgusted.

You should try to reason with your friends, let them know that this is not the right thing to do, and you must have your own attitude and do not help your friends bear the mistakes.

I think even if this person you have a good relationship with likes to blame others for their mistakes, you still don't treat him as a good friend, because you don't know how much trouble you will have in the future.

If it doesn't matter beforehand, then it's okay to push it on you. Because that's fine, let him go to the next level. But I don't think we can let him do that all the time.

Because every human being is dignified. Once in a while, one or two is acceptable. But too many times, I don't think I can't.

This is not true for everyone, and not for every person. There is a selfish side to human nature. When you encounter someone who blames you for a mistake, you must first examine whether you are at fault, and if there is a mistake, you must have the courage to bear it, and if not, you must prove it.

Well, this is a problem of social life, people are the most complex of all living beings, in addition to people have the ability to think, but also related to the social attributes, it is undeniable that some people do think more weird, and the relationship with people is also more capricious, but you can try to communicate to solve, or just ignore it!

Maybe he thinks he is responsible, maybe he is in a different position, the leader has to take management responsibility, even if his subordinates do wrong, he should also take responsibility, and those who dare to take responsibility should be more responsible.

I feel that I have made mistakes, all the responsibilities and consequences are of course my own responsibility, and it is also an unshirkable responsibility, if an adult does not even dare to bear what he does, then is it still called a person?

This kind of person is not responsible, afraid of being responsible. It is impossible to achieve great things, and it is impossible to make close friends.

You should find the reason for your own mistakes, so that you can have a responsible and responsible person, unlike some people who put the responsibility on others as soon as they make a mistake.

There is no sense of responsibility and shirking responsibility.

Afraid of being scolded, having no sense of responsibility, and ruining the image.

This belongs to the realm of morality. In the beginning of man, there was no good or evil. The environment makes the character of a person.

If you have the ability, you will crack it, and if you don't have the ability, you will bear it. Just like the Galaxy cram school, Deng Chaoduo was unlucky, but he has been trying to rehabilitate.

Didn't he make mistakes because of himself? Then don't look for the reason in yourself, where to find it?

If you ask the wrong question, of course you are responsible for the mistakes you make. Isn't it a false accusation that you hold someone else responsible?

With my intelligence, I don't understand what you're saying.

I think that because people know that the result of making mistakes is always bad for themselves, and it is human instinct not to want to be bad.

It is necessary to treat it according to the reality of their specific relationship, for men who are really too dependent on pleasure and irresponsible, they must not continue to connive, they should clarify the boundaries of each other's responsibilities, do not bear the part that should not be borne, and promote each other to do things and take responsibility, if it is still fruitless, you can make your own choice and let go bravely, after all, you are going to be a wife and not the other party's mother.

This kind of man doesn't have the ability of you, so he will shirk the responsibility to you. If you don't have what he is capable of, he will prove to you that he is even less capable of being a person. Often this kind of man, he thinks you can do this responsibility, so he pushes you to do it.

If he doesn't recognize your ability, he won't push you to do it, because he's afraid that he won't be able to do it well. You are a family, and if you don't do this well, it will not be good for him.

But as a man, you have to be responsible and take on the responsibilities that men in the family should bear, which is what men should do. As the head of the family, you must be responsible. Women also have women's responsibilities to do, and if all the blame is put on the man, the man can't stand it.

When the child is still young, the woman is too busy with the child to have the heart to do more, so the man has to take on a little more. In the end, the best thing for a child to grow up is for two people to discuss and bear it together.

So does your boyfriend do this every time? It's just that you can communicate occasionally, and by the way, reflect on whether you are also at fault, and if you do this every time, you have to carefully consider whether your relationship can continue. He blames you for all the faults, which shows that he is not responsible, loves to evade responsibility, even if he gets married in the future, he is also an irresponsible man, and a man without a sense of responsibility cannot be married.

Such a boy is not good, and he is not suitable for life. Let's divide it early.

That's what he's wrong, break up with him!

If it's really your fault, it's just that you didn't find out for yourself.

Then you can examine yourself first.

But it's not your fault, so re-evaluate him as a person.

If it's just a joke, it doesn't matter, every time it's like this, it's time to talk about it. If you don't get married, you can endure it for the rest of your life?

The easiest thing to do is to give up on him.

If you do this every time, you can divide it early.

Are you sometimes wrong? Don't always blame others, think about yourself!

Deliberately or joking with you?

It depends on what is wrong, I am with our leaders every day, and we are leaders sometimes. But I have principles, as a matter of what I can bear, and if I can't, I will privately refuse. Dantan.

In the future, you will remind him when you find out that he is about to make a mistake.

Since you have no feelings, what else do you say that others sabotage? Divide it!

The person who shirks responsibility is generally the one who does not take responsibility, and it is best not to cooperate with such people.

Well, this is a problem of social life, people are the most complex of all living beings, in addition to people have the ability to think, but also related to the social attributes, it is undeniable that some people do think more weird, and the relationship with people is also more capricious, but you can try to communicate to solve, or just ignore it!