Why is Chinese culture not too prominent?

Confucianism has a great influence on traditional Chinese culture, and the ethical and moral code of Confucianism is moderation, that is, to be impartial, to do everything without fault, and to do things in accordance with common sense. Therefore, traditional Chinese culture pays attention to not being too prominent.

I'll ask you this question, why is Chinese culture not too prominent. The old man said that if you want to come out, you should not be too prominent, if you want to come out, you will be the first bird, and you will be the first bird, which means that if you want to come out, you will be the first to be killed. You solve it.

It's not good for me to come out first, it's not good to come out first. Being a human being will definitely hurt.

As the saying goes: "The tree is a big wind", "The gun shoots the first bird", we often hear words like this, these are the wisdom left by the ancestors.

These two sentences tell us that we should not compete for the limelight in everything, too sharp may bring us some unnecessary trouble, and we must learn to restrain our edge. As the saying goes: "Mu Xiu will be destroyed by the forest wind" is the same reason, when you are too eye-catching, it is likely to attract the jealousy of some unscrupulous people, and it will bring you some troubles that could have been avoided.

Therefore, don't be too prominent, it's better to keep a low profile, low-key people, the general right and wrong are relatively few, and life is relatively peaceful.

There are many such sayings in China that are called shooting a bird in the head, and there are also sayings that if Mu Xiu seems to be particularly good in the case of Lin Feng, he will be envied and framed. This may have something to do with the golden mean that China has always inherited.

The gun shoots the first bird, and the rafters rot first.

Bowing one's head means admitting one's mistakes and defeating, and there is an old Chinese saying that the winner is king, and the loser is the loser. If there is no very special stake in the handling of a matter, it is okay to bow your head a little and admit your mistake, take a step forward to the cliff, take a step back to open the sea and the sky, and a cloud is scattered. But sometimes in some things, it is difficult to grasp the aspect of temperament, so you need to figure it out yourself.

In Chinese culture, early people took food as the sky, and now contemporary people are proud of their wealth. Life as a first coincidence, believe in yourself, and then act.

Failure is the mother of success, pay attention to the unexpected, and if you fall, you must get up. Giving up is the end of failure, losing or making mistakes, you must bow your head and continue to be out of control. It is not wrong to make mistakes, but it is not wrong to make mistakes in the course of the policy.

Bow your head to admit your mistake and admit defeat, do you know it?

It's not that you can't bow your head easily, but if you can fight harder, then don't give up easily, because if you release yourself, they will admit that they have failed.

Influenced by traditional Chinese culture, Chinese culture is broad and profound, and since ancient times, it has paid attention to the appearance and face, and it is necessary to do everything beautifully.

Because the Chinese have been wearing makeup since ancient times, they have a face worth thousands of dollars. Because the ancients knew that the face was good-looking. People are honored.

20 years old (male) - weak crown.

20 years old (female) - Tao Li Nianhua;

30 years old (male) - the year of standing.

30 years old (female) - half-aged.

40 years old (male) - the year of not being confused, the year of strength.

50 years old - more than half a hundred years old, the year of knowing wrong, the year of knowing fate, the year of Dayan, and the year of the cane.

The point is not here, the essence of traditional culture is to reveal the general or objective laws of life in the universe, people can only understand and grasp (cultivate the mind and pursue enlightenment) and use (use is to move according to the law, not to move) this objective law of life can achieve stability and happiness, otherwise life will fall into crisis and even self-destruction.

Zhuge said: If you are not indifferent, you will not have a clear ambition, and if you are not quiet, you will not be far-reaching. Mr. Yang Ming said:

It is easy to destroy thieves in the mountains, but it is difficult to destroy thieves in the heart. Zeng Wenzheng said: If you are not a sage, you are a beast.

So as soon as you say this, you will understand that it is not to suppress individuality, but to remind future generations to overcome selfishness, greed, lust, arrogance, narrow-mindedness, hatred, laziness and other evil thoughts in their hearts, only in this way can they make their lives brilliant and live an excellent and great life, otherwise they can only disappear in the vast sea of people and be with the eternal mediocrity.

Maybe that's called collective consciousness.

In China, it is believed that people lose their temper is wrong, there should be emotions that should not be had, and there should be no bad people. The disadvantage is that if the combat effectiveness is ruin, once a war breaks out, the consequences will be very miserable.

In fact, people have emotions and tempers, and they should be sent when they should be sent, others bully you, you should not endure humiliation, you should fight back, forbearance will only make others think that you are easy to bully, and the same is true for magnifying the relationship between countries.

It's a very clear reality that everyone has good and bad. A lot of text on the Internet will be blocked, which is a false cultural expression.

In traditional Chinese culture, Confucianism occupies a very important position, and for thousands of years, it has been respected by scholars, and traditional culture is not all dross, but also has many essences.

In Confucianism, what is advocated is the golden mean, the so-called moderation, which is about being neutral and peaceful, not going to extremes, pursuing the cultivation of the mind, and the unity of nature and man, but in the understanding of many people, the mean is not to be the last, nor to be the sharp, just to be the middle, and follow the trend.

First of all, if people are too sharp, they are easy to become rafters, and they are always the first to withstand the blow of wind and rain and be the first to rot.

For example, if others take a wait-and-see strategy and want to know what rights protection measures others will take, only you are stupid and rush up to reason with others, everyone's emotional restraint is not good, and it is easy to have disputes.

People who are impostors are the most likely to be envied by everyone and become the target of people's attacks. Think about every exam, the first in the class always attracts everyone's attention, everyone takes him as the object of catching up, and regards him as their opponent, although it will not make any tricks, that is because this is the school, everyone is still very simple, there are not so many twists and turns, but in society, the environment will not be so harmonious.

That's why we say we have to do things in a high-profile manner and be a low-key person.

When doing things, we must strive to do things well and do our best, only in this way can we get the attention of the leaders and get the affirmation of others, but in dealing with people, we must be gentle and polite, and we can't look complacent because we have the ability and achievements, and we don't put others in our eyes.

Actually, I don't agree with this question, and I don't think there's anything that should be too presumptuous. Because everyone wants to go to the highest level that they can achieve. If a person's ability is really strong, then if he can't be too aggressive, but he buries himself, and his ability cannot be fully exerted, then not only does he lose the opportunity to become stronger, but also the society loses a talent with strong ability, which is a loss to the society and a limitation of personal development, which is not a very good thing.

Of course, if you look at this problem from another angle, because after all, everyone pursues different ways of life, and the ideal life they yearn for is not the same, some people like to live an ordinary life, while some people prefer to pursue a better life and a high-quality life. Therefore, not being too aggressive is a kind of life and attitude of the first kind of people.

In fact, going too aggressive does require a lot of pressure. I've seen a ** I'm an orator before, a girl because her appearance and appearance don't meet the requirements of beauty, he thinks he is a very ugly person, he has lost confidence in life, and he always feels that he is always looked down upon by others because of his appearance and appearance during school, and others don't like him, from childhood to his twenties, he has been in such a living environment, which has led to a lot of psychological pressure on him, and even sometimes has the idea of suicide. In fact, I think it's a terrible thing to love you at this point.

After he was a little older, he started plastic surgery, for plastic surgery thirteen times, which is also difficult for ordinary people to accept, but when he became beautiful, he was excluded and jealous of others, so whether it was good or bad, it was the object of hatred of many people, so why not make yourself better, that is, to be a little sharper, maybe you will have a clear conscience after this, rather than saying that you are not doing anything and saying that you are not working hard, or you are afraid of being sharp, it may be really ridiculous to think about it.

The Chinese are humble and humble. In the face of praise, you should also arch your hand and say "**, **, false praise".

So some people say that this characteristic is very hypocritical, and some people even rise to the point of "ugly". Now we also have a well-known truth that "the gun shoots the first bird".

However, there is an essential difference between the rising tip and the "emerging bird".

Doing something to make him the ultimate is a kind of respect for the cause and self-esteem for himself. We do our best and let ourselves be at the top of our own strength.

No one said that it can't be sharpened. Only one said, don't be proud. There is a saying called "do things in a high-profile manner and be a low-key person". It's another explanation that "being a man" can't be sharp.

People always like to put themselves in a high position after they have achievements. Distance yourself from others, but once you put yourself on the high ground, what else do you have in your eyes?

People don't take the lead, they must know how to be humble. The result of pride and conceit is often to let yourself fall from a height. Learning to be humble is a respect for your career, when you always believe that you can still improve, can be better, your mentality will naturally be lowered, and your posture will no longer be a peacock with no one in your eyes.

Humility is not hypocrisy, it is not ugliness, it is a spur to oneself. From the heart, you must know that your future has no end, and when you have to climb the peak of your career, you will naturally be calm and naturally able to be down-to-earth.

A life without prescency is a life without brilliance. People always have to enjoy the aura at some point in their lives, and after the halo, they must learn to see the dark side, and what awaits this darkness is their own efforts.

The darkness illuminated through one's own efforts, this halo, is the crowning of life.

People's abilities cannot be equal in all fields, and their contributions to society cannot be the same, so the treatment cannot be the same, but as long as people who contribute to society with honest labor are equal people, they will not do things that are inferior or feel inferior.

Because of the different areas where they live, the cultures formed are different. Chinese pay attention to the unity of nature and man, but Westerners believe more in their own beliefs and believe in divine culture.

The culture is different, the ancient Chinese culture is more introverted, like to pay attention to practical things, about the culture of people themselves, the West longs for the culture of God, and believes in God.

Because of the different cultural backgrounds, China has a long history and has produced many cultures, while Western countries do not have a long history, and they do not have their own human culture, so they trust God culture.

This is a typical difference between Chinese and Western cultures, China pays attention to people-oriented, pays attention to the victory of man over heaven, and the unity of heaven and man, which has the participation of people, while the West has always believed in God, and religion has a great influence on their lives.

The differences in traditional culture are also caused by different beliefs. The Chinese think that Nuwa created man, while the West made it by Adam and Eve.

Because of the cultural differences between China and the West, this phenomenon has been led to a long period of Chinese culture, and the study of many myths will be restricted, which is not the case in Western countries.

Because of cultural differences, this difference has arisen, and from the very beginning of ancient China's human culture, it paid attention to people-oriented, and the unity of nature and man.

There are differences between Chinese and Western cultures, Chinese believe in Confucianism, while the West believes in Jesus, and traditional thinking is different.