obviously said that it was good to break up, but but?

Ask yourself, would you like to leave him?

After a long time of love, it will become a habit, and a person who accompanies you every day will leave suddenly, and everyone will be reluctant. There are also many people who do not know how to cherish and take care of others. Think about his goodness, does he love you?Do you love him?That's probably the most important thing.

Giving up a relationship will inevitably lead to nostalgia, and a woman will never understand a man's heart.

Why don't you care about his performance when it's over.

It's okay to be friends.

Girls should be good to themselves.

I don't think he would say that if he decided to break up with you.

Whether it's over or not depends on what you think, calm down and ask yourself if you still love him.

I wish you happiness

It doesn't matter how he thought about it now, what matters is whether you will still be interested in him?

Do you still remember your past from time to time?

If you can say to yourself with certainty that you don't feel anything for him anymore, then don't think about anything else, and if he talks to you, you talk to him the way you treat a friend

If you find that you still have feelings for him, and he can still affect your emotions, then you should think carefully about whether to get back together with him

If you think about it in a simple way, as long as you don't care about him anymore, you won't be bothered.

Was it the breakup he mentioned?

Of course, it's not interesting, because the person who talks about the breakup is not a person who can last forever

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I wake up every morning to myself handsomely.

He wants to redeem it, ignore him, and forget it.

Hello friend. People who like to talk about divorce belong to people who are particularly insecure, but also very strong. It's like a child who wants to eat candy and cries if he doesn't give it to him, maybe he can get candy.

When husband and wife quarrel, regardless of the man or woman, the person who likes to mention divorce generally wants the other party to listen to him, or do it according to his requirements, and once he is not satisfied, he will mention divorce and use it to blackmail the other party. This kind of behavior is not advisable, it will make people feel tired, you know, people who really want to divorce will not talk about it every day. When arguing, it is always said to break up, which may usually be out of threat or habit.

Of course, it is not ruled out that I want to break up, but I am reluctant, I am constantly testing the patience of the other party.

Threaten the other party, if you can threaten the other party with the first time you break up, then it's okay, and then as long as it doesn't go well, you will repeat the old tricks, in the eyes of these people, the so-called breakup is actually whether you listen to me or not, keep it, these people still don't want to break up in their hearts.

Like to joke, this kind of person said that the breakup is actually a half-joke type, you will ask, will you joke if you quarrel, in this kind of person to break up just blurted out, like a mantra, if you take it seriously, most of you will regret it.

Forced, every time you say something to break up, you are actually forced by reality, and the reason why you didn't break up successfully may be because you took the initiative to admit your mistakes after the quarrel, which made the other party soft-hearted. In fact, when quarreling, if the other party always talks about the breakup, it is a very bad phenomenon, first of all, it is not respectful of the feelings of two people, and secondly, there are too many words to break up, which may lay hidden dangers for the real breakup in the future.

I hope you understand the mentality of the person you broke up with, as long as it is not caused by yourself, there is still a lot of room for redemption, if it is caused by yourself, then you have to review yourself well, unless you don't want to cherish this relationship anymore. More importantly, it is necessary to solve the problem according to the problem. The other party always says to break up, it is not ruled out that he is insecure and wants to break up, but he is reluctant to appear in such a state.

Inappropriate is inappropriate, and you may be able to use it as an excuse, but how do you think it really makes sense? Actually, not at all.

Things between two people are very magical, if they are in love, there is nothing that is inappropriate, even if the other party is not excellent, how low the appearance is, or the conditions in all aspects are not too high, it will not cause any problems, the ancients said that "the lover's eyes are out of Xi Shi", it is the same reason. Perhaps it is love that makes people blind, and men and women who are immersed in love are often not as rational as they usually become, and they will not consider whether they are suitable or inappropriate between them. But feelings also have a shelf life, and some love can go to marriage and grow old.

And there are also some loves that often only end in a breakup. When men and women who once loved each other no longer love each other, the first thing they find is that the double hermit prescription is not suitable on various issues. only to find out that the two people may not be in the right household, and their income level and education level are not similar, so they are even more determined to break up.

Maybe sometimes it's not really how inappropriate, but a reason for breaking up between men and women always has to be given, especially the party who is broken up, and often gets entangled in the specific reason for the breakup, but what is the only reason for the breakup, many times there may not be any specific reason, that is, love is no longer there, and there is no initial feeling between two people. and inappropriate, it becomes a reason, or an excuse. The meaning of the existence of excuses is not for the other party to delve into, let alone a problem that does not need to be investigated.

It may be very painful to be broken up, but if you are unwilling to let go, then it actually hurts even more. On the contrary, it is better to be generous, just let it go, and the long pain is better than the short pain.

When a relationship can't go on, many people will propose to the other half to break up or divorce on the grounds of "we are not suitable", as if the two people who are not suitable are destined to not go to the end.

However, each of us is an individual, and there are too many differences between each other.

After all, twins who grew up in the same environment are still likely to develop different personalities and temperaments, not to mention two people with different living environments, different educational backgrounds, and different growth experiences?

Most couples are like tomatoes and potatoes together, originally two worlds of people, but potatoes can be turned into fries, and tomatoes can be trusted to become ketchup, so they can be a perfect match. The key lies only in whether both sides are willing to understand and tolerate each other.

Therefore, "we are not suitable" is actually a simple and perfunctory reason, and it is not the real cause of the breakdown of the relationship. The "inappropriate" in most people's mouths does not mean that the three views and personality are inappropriate, but that "they can't understand me, and we are not suitable".

It is not suitable to say that everyone can't get along, or there is no common hobby, etc., saying that it is not suitable is actually to tease Lakou, and the reason why true friends are slow is that they don't like it anymore, and it is a kind of euphemism to say that it is not suitable to break up.

When you break up, you always say that it is not appropriate, which is more tactful, leaving room and room for everyone.

What else can you say besides this excuse, you can't say that you are always snoring or something.

Couples quarrel and often talk about breaking up, in fact, they don't want to break up, they just want to use the breakup to scare each other and win each other back.

As a result, it often backfires, and often talks about breaking up, and if you hang it up, you will really break up. The ending is often unexpected.

It's like the kid who shouts "The wolf is coming." At first, he shouted "the wolf is coming" just to scare the villagers and see their reaction, but he didn't expect that the third time, the wolf really came.

People who often talk about breaking up often have these kinds of psychology:

01 wants to scare and scare the other party, and retreats as advances.

When a couple quarrels, if both parties insist on what they have seen, cannot tolerate and be considerate of each other, and have to compete with each other, then the other party will say "break up!" in disappointment or urgency! ”

At this time, if the other party does not give up, shouting, "Whoever is afraid of whom, divides it!" "Then, as soon as the two sides are angry, they may really be divided.

In fact, the party who says "break up" first just wants to use the breakup to scare off the other party, end the quarrel, and win a game. He didn't really want to break up.

If the other party does not know how to back down in anger, it may be self-defeating and really divided because of anger. After that, both parties will be mired in pain and regret.

So, don't make any decisions on the gas head. Couples should know how to tolerate and give in to each other, winning a quarrel, but losing the relationship, it is not worth it.

02 Test the other person's attitude towards you.

In order to test their position in each other's minds and see if the other party really cares about them, some couples will tentatively propose to "break up" when they quarrel to see the other party's reaction.

If the other party is mature and steady, and cares about the other half very much, then he will definitely stop arguing immediately, soften his tone, and turn the conflict into a jade silk.

If the other party doesn't care or already has an idea, then, when he hears the message of "breaking up", he will be silent for a while, and then agree. The relationship really ended.

This kind of person grasps the weakness of the other party's "reluctance to break up" and threatens the other party to "if you don't (how) satisfy me, I will break up with you" in order to achieve their own goals. This is also a coquettish approach.

No matter what kind of psychology it is based on, it is not advisable for couples or couples to often talk about "breaking up".

Once in a while, the other party may be really nervous and will really obey you and satisfy you, but if you talk too much, the other person will feel bored and distrustful. Once you lose trust, you will really have the idea of giving up.

No, emotional problems should be clearly explained face to face, and they should not be avoided when encountering any situation, which will lead to misunderstandings.

I would feel embarrassed to say that I would break up in person, because two people have been together for a long time, and it feels very sad to break up in person.

I don't feel embarrassed, because two people don't have feelings and don't care about each other's feelings.