What was your husband s reaction when he knew you were pregnant?

Updated on society 2024-04-29
24 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    My husband and I both belong to late marriage and late childbearing, and having children is a planned thing, so when my husband learned that I was pregnant, I was not surprised, but I couldn't help but have some small surprises in my heart and gave me a big hug. I myself was quite excited, although this was expected, but after a long period of preparation for pregnancy, the joy was self-evident, and I didn't believe it yet, so I tested it twice with a test strip.

    It was so important to us that we had to be cautious, and we went for a check-up that Sunday that week, and after confirming that we were pregnant, the tension in our hearts eased a little. After I confirmed it, my husband took care of me as if I was a national treasure, and my temper became much gentler, and I felt happier than ever. However, things did not go as smoothly as we imagined, and when we went for a pregnancy test two months ago, a thunderbolt shook us, the fetus was not developing normally, and the progesterone was low, and I was prescribed medication, and I had to go for a re-examination in a week.

    I went for a re-examination for a week, but the results were not satisfactory, so I continued to prescribe medication, and went for a re-examination after another week, and I was told that the fetus was stopped and I needed to have an abortion as soon as possible. This was too unexpected for us, completely unprepared, I really didn't expect us to be pregnant for so long, and finally got pregnant, it turned out to be such a result, and I cried out at that time. But there is no choice but to accept the reality and be hospitalized for surgery as soon as possible.

    After this time, I spent a year recuperating before deciding to have a child again, and this time I was more cautious. When I learned that I was pregnant again, my husband and I had mixed feelings, happy and apprehensive. This time, my husband held me in the palm of his hand, more nervous than me, and accompanied me every time he had a prenatal checkup, and he was very nervous when there was any trouble.

    Fortunately, I finally passed the dangerous period safely, and finally gave birth to my daughter by caesarean section, my husband was overjoyed, and I was also very pleased. Now my daughter is more than three years old, and the family is healthy and happy, grateful!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    My husband didn't react much when he knew I was pregnant, and he couldn't talk about being happy or unhappy, because it was within his expectations.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It's just ecstasy, because my husband is 40 years old, and he is so excited that he can't sleep all night.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    He was very excited, and he jumped up, he had been looking forward to being a father for a long time, and he was finally going to get his wish.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    My husband was very overwhelmed when he knew that I was pregnant, obviously not ready to be a father, and he didn't feel happy at all, as if he had made a mistake.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It looks particularly shocking, because I didn't expect him to become a father so soon, and I didn't react a little.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Happy, excited, overwhelmed. The moment I told my husband that I was pregnant, my husband was speechless with excitement, his eyes were wide open, and he didn't know where to put his hands. In short, I was very happy, very excited, and my heart was beating faster......

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    He was nervous, then overwhelmed, and excited, and hugged me all night without sleeping, saying that he wanted to give me and my baby a better future.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Seeing that her husband was confused, as if he was not ready to be a father at all, his expression was particularly funny.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    My husband was very excited in his heart, and he had a smile on his face at the time, gave himself a hug, and promised that he would do all the housework in the future.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    My husband knew that he was pregnant, and he was very calm, so he said that he really had it, but I was very excited and told my family as soon as possible.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    My husband's reaction was particularly excited. And I was very happy at the time, even so happy that I was a little overwhelmed.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    My husband and I have been married together for 10 years, but I have never conceived a child, and when I found out that I was pregnant, my husband was really stunned and very happy, and picked me up.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    They are usually pleasantly surprised and don't know what to say. Because my wife is pregnant, it means that a new life is coming, and I am naturally excited.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    The first reaction is to be very happy, because every man wants to be a father, of course, if a man has a lot of pressure, he will also be very unhappy, because the child may also be the last straw that breaks the camel's back for them.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    When a man learns that his wife is pregnant, his first reaction is very excited, very surprised, and very proud.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    The reaction is confused, thinking that such things are incredible, and will be in a daze, and will also think about these things, and then make other moves.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    What was your husband's mood when he first learned that he was pregnant? Many women say that when they learn that they are pregnant, their husbands seem calm, but in fact, they are ecstatic. To hide their joy.

    natural delight; But some couples, when there is no warning, accidents"Winning the lottery"At this moment, can their mood not be afraid? Excited? Still is.

    Of course, this must be a feeling that no one else can understand. Similarly, for men, the feeling of knowing that his wife is pregnant can be more complicated, and.

    For some men who are prone to flash marriages, finding out that their wives are pregnant may not be as happy as they think makes their wives angry. Each husband's reaction is different, but it is generally a happy reaction, and the unhappy reaction is very rare, of course, there are. If a couple does not go through the normal stages of pregnancy and wins the lottery, let alone a woman, even the husband will not think about it.

    But what we often say about maternal love can make pregnant mothers quickly enter the state of pregnancy. Be believing.

    When he knew we were going to have our first child, he giggled all night, a little cute, a little happy. But some couples, when there is no warning, accidents"Winning the lottery"At this moment, can their mood not be afraid? Excited?

    Still is. At that time, Huang Xiaoming was less than a year old. When a boy hears the news that his wife is pregnant, he becomes a different person.

    In life, many husbands are happy when they learn that their daughter-in-law is pregnant. After all, they're going to be fathers. The feeling is indescribable.

    My husband and I have been pregnant for a long time, and I told my husband that it might be, but I went to the hospital with my husband for a check-up. I remember that when I found out that I was pregnant, I was very happy and excited, and after waiting for so long, it finally came true, and my in-laws were also smiling from ear to ear. Only the husband was unhappy on his face, sitting alone in the room and not knowing what he was thinking.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Happy, surprised, unbelievable, indescribable, excited; After learning that his wife was pregnant, he was very happy, excited, excited and couldn't believe it, some would shed tears, and some would hurry up to his parents to **.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    I will be very surprised, very happy, very excited, will cry, and sometimes I will be afraid; Personally, I think that there will be tears, special happiness, special surprise, such a situation is the most real.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I think that after my husband learned that his wife was pregnant, first of all, their reaction was unbelievable, very happy, calm that it was none of their business, and thanked their wife; I think it's very real to be so happy that they can't control themselves, because they are also very emotional when they learn that their wives have a baby.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    After getting married, it is normal to get pregnant and have children. However, there are also some special circumstances, some couples do not plan to have children, but they are pregnant; Some couples are ready to have children very early, but they have not moved, and suddenly they become pregnant a few years later; There are also couples who are pregnant in the first month of marriage? In the face of different husbands, the wife is pregnant, is it a surprise or bad news?

    Today, let's analyze the various reactions of my husband after learning that his wife is pregnant:

    Type 1: Special surprises. When my husband knew that his wife was pregnant, he suddenly became very surprised, with a smile on his face, coupled with excitement, as if he had won the 5 million lottery.

    This kind of husband is especially worthy of trust, they are full of yearning for the future life, and they are willing to organize the family with their wives.

    Second: Notify relatives and friends immediately. When my husband found out that his wife was pregnant, he was pleasantly surprised, and immediately notified his relatives and friends, eager to let the world know that his wife was pregnant.

    This kind of man has a sense of responsibility, dares to show his feelings, and never hides them.

    The third type: unhappy. When the husband found out that his wife was pregnant, he suddenly became unhappy, as if all this was his wife's fault.

    It may be that the husband is not preparing for his wife's pregnancy, but in the face of what has happened, the husband's attitude is to refuse, not comfort and understanding, this kind of man is not responsible.

    Fourth: Plan for the future now. When the husband knows that his wife is pregnant, he immediately begins to plan for the future, such as who will take the child in the future, how to educate the child, what gifts need to be prepared for the baby, and the baby will go to school in the future, etc., such a man is very reliable.

    Fifth: calm and indifferent. When the husband knew that his wife was pregnant, he seemed very calm and indifferent, feeling that all this was as it should be, and it was normal, and it was no big deal. This kind of husband may not know much about romance, and his heart is very realistic, and his wife probably won't be able to enjoy any blessings.

    Sixth: complaining. When the husband found out that his wife was pregnant, he immediately began to complain, feeling that his wife did not take safety measures and was pregnant without preparation, and felt that all this was his wife's fault.

    Such a husband retreats in case of trouble, he can't resist things, he will only be responsible for others, and his wife will definitely be angry for the rest of his life.

    Seventh: Give your wife a hug. When the husband knew that his wife was pregnant, the husband first gave his wife a deep hug, and then told his wife that he might have to suffer some pain in the next ten months, hoping to face the feeling of pregnancy in October with his wife, and look forward to the birth of the baby together.

    This kind of husband is the most considerate and loved by all women.

    Type eight: Furious. When the husband found out that his wife was pregnant, the husband immediately became angry and told his wife that the child must be killed immediately and was not allowed to give birth. This kind of man has no love and no pity in his heart, which is what we often call "hard-hearted", and is not worth entrusting for life.

    A woman's pregnancy is a very important thing in the life of a couple, and from the husband's first reaction, it can be completely seen what his attitude is towards his wife and whether he will live a happy life in the future.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Two reactions.

    The first is not very responsible, thinking that if you are pregnant, you will directly say that you will beat it, although the woman may not want it, but the man said it directly, which is very hurtful, or some men run away directly, I have seen this kind of man, because it may just be talking and playing, I am afraid that you will say marriage or something, so I ran away.

    The second type, intimate, this kind of man has a strong sense of responsibility, first of all, he will ask for your opinion, but also respect your ideas, if it is during the university, then both parties will definitely not want it, but although it will not be, but your boyfriend will be very good to you, because he will feel that he can't live with you in this matter, and second, if he is already working outside, he will think about marriage and finally agree.

    So I hope girls should keep their eyes open when looking for a boyfriend.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    There are generally several reactions:

    1. The type of happiness

    When some husbands know that their wives are pregnant, they will jump up and hug their wives, not knowing what to say, like children, smirking excitedly, and looking at their wives with a smile from time to time, looking like a grown child. After a while, all the personal homepages such as Moments, Weibo, and QQ Space have been posted, and I want the world to know that I am about to become a father.

    2. Gentle and considerate type

    When this kind of husband knows that his wife is pregnant, he will not only be very happy, but he will also be more meticulous in taking care of his wife, and will gently hug his wife and say, "Thank you, wife!" "This practice will undoubtedly make pregnant mothers feel unprecedented warmth, and it is worth it to give birth to a baby for such a man.

    And this kind of husband will be very considerate and will also start a pregnancy test with his wife. If his wife wants to eat, he can find a way to buy it back and not let her do anything.

    3. Calm, indifferent type

    Some pregnant mothers usually say that they are pregnant at every turn, but when they are really pregnant, they tell their husbands, and their husbands have no expressions, and they let out a faint oh, and when they hand him their pregnancy test sticks excitedly, they still think that the pregnant mother is lying to themselves, so they behave very calmly, of course, this kind of behavior is rare, and women usually don't use pregnancy to scare their husbands, otherwise when they are really pregnant, they really have a feeling of loss. Of course, it is not excluded that some men who do not care about their wives are excluded.

    4. Pragmatic true love type

    Some husbands know that their wives are pregnant, and tears have already fallen at that time, for this woman who is pregnant with a baby, full of love, say thank you, the seven-foot man burst into tears, there is no doubt that everyone will be moved. Of course, the pregnant mother will definitely feel very warm when she sees such a big man behaving like such a small woman. This kind of husband will take on all the affairs during pregnancy, and the wife does not have to worry at all, and helps his wife solve all her troubles, because he knows how much his wife has worked hard for him, and the husband who behaves like this is undoubtedly the most loving to his wife.

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