Is it necessary to go with children to a relative s house in the countryside to visit the New Year?

Relatives and friends are indispensable to walk back and forth during the New Year, relatives are indispensable during the New Year, for adults may not have a great impact, but for babies it is different, adults with babies may also be more worried about taking the baby to relatives will encounter some problems, so, what are the precautions for the baby to go to relatives, especially when encountering different relatives, how to deal with it?

1. Pay attention to politeness, language expression problems and taboos of relatives

For some older babies, politeness is an important issue. No matter where we go, politeness should always be paid attention to, adults should tell the baby how to call each other, teach the baby some polite questions, polite babies are more popular with everyone, and the language expression is also worth paying attention to, in the house of relatives, whether the baby is talking to adults, or children are playing, dialogue.

We need to pay attention to the language expression, tell the baby civilized language, express it in appropriate language, such as relatives to snacks do not want to say thank you, in addition to politeness, language expression problems, there is a taboo of relatives, everyone has their own likes and hates, so we adults need to pay attention to the taboo of relatives, but also to properly tell the taboo of the baby's relatives, to avoid touching these problems, causing misunderstandings, it is still very important to properly tell the baby to pay attention to these problems.

2. Security issues

Safety has always been an issue that cannot be ignored, and parents should always pay attention to the safety of their babies. When taking the baby to relatives, the baby came to someone else's house, you may feel that everything is very fresh, there are a lot of things want to move, touch, curiosity is the baby's nature, the baby is not wrong to be curious, but to let the child know what is dangerous can not move, especially some things related to electricity are best not to move at will, there may be some babies in the relatives' house, and you should pay attention when playing with other babies.

Avoid falling, bumping heads and other problems, and pay attention when playing with other people's toys to avoid damaging other people's toys. When you go to relatives during the New Year, you must tell the baby not to go with people you don't know, parents and friends must pay attention to the child's movements when entertaining and chatting, always pay attention to the baby, and ensure the baby's safety.

3. Problems at the table

Take the baby away relatives sometimes need to eat together, there are also some problems at the table to pay attention to, the baby is best not to occupy when he encounters his favorite food, tell the baby to take into account other people. There are many kinds of food on the table, parents and friends must pay attention to what food the baby is allergic to, what food the baby can eat, what food the baby can not eat, and pay attention to the baby's gastrointestinal health.

It's not necessary, because I think it's too noisy for children to go to other people's houses.

It is necessary to bring the child with you, firstly, to let the child get to know these elders and siblings, and secondly, to make the relatives feel that the child is very polite.

I think it's still very necessary, after all, with children, I think it's more lively and interesting to go to relatives.

Generally speaking, it is best to choose to visit relatives after the second day of the Lunar New Year, which will be better and better express your feelings of missing and blessings to your relatives.

Therefore, when greeting the New Year, pay attention to politeness, the use of language is a very important point, polite language, precautions have the following different aspects.

First, there is measure.

This is the first issue of proper language and politeness. In order to achieve a sense of proportion in language, it is necessary to cooperate with non-verbal elements, to know oneself and the other in terms of background knowledge, to clarify the purpose of communication, to choose a good communicative style, and at the same time, to pay attention to how to use words and actions to properly express, of course, proportionality also includes specific words and proportions.

The second is courtesy.

The etiquette of language is greetings. There are five most common forms of etiquette language, which express the five types of politeness in people's communication: greeting, thanking, apologizing, farewell, and returning. The greeting is "Hello", the farewell is "Goodbye", the thank you is "Thank you", and the apology is "I'm sorry".

A return is a thank you or an apology, such as "it's okay", "it's okay", "it's not in the way", etc.

The third is to be educated.

Speaking in a measured and polite manner, the content is full of knowledge, and the words are elegant, which is a manifestation of language education. Respect and understanding of others are important manifestations of a cultured person.

Respect others' private lives, clothing, furnishings, and hobbies that are in line with ethics and regulations, and tactfully and kindly point out when others do have shortcomings.

To be forgiving means to deal with others when they are not polite.

The fourth is to be knowledgeable.

In the current era, we must attach great importance to knowledge and respect talents, so it is very important to have knowledge.

There may be some changes this year, let's talk about it leisurely, wait for the New Year, after all, the epidemic is not over yet, and it is not clear whether China may need to stay for the New Year now. (Chinese New Year in place).

This is possible in most cases, but the customs and habits vary from place to place, so it is better to consult before you go.

Naturally, this is okay.

Why is this the fact that more and more children are reluctant to go with their parents to visit relatives for the New Year? Whenever the Spring Festival comes, relatives and friends will always greet each other, say hello to each other, in the process of talking with relatives and friends, it is inevitable to mention children, parents always want their children to be generous in front of relatives, but now there are more and more children who are unwilling to go to their relatives' homes with their parents to pay New Year's greetings, why is this so? I think there are two main reasons for this.

First, the child is not very familiar with his relatives and feels too embarrassed to go to the New Year. With the development of society, more and more people have left their hometowns to work. Whenever the Chinese New Year, many people who work outside will put down their work and return to their hometown to accompany their parents to celebrate the Spring Festival, during the Spring Festival, everyone will give each other gifts, invite guests to dinner, and when relatives from all walks of life get together again, it is inevitable that there will be a little embarrassment, because everyone is usually busy with work, there is no time to contact, and there is no common topic.

Children are also not familiar with these relatives, and they will feel embarrassed by the cold and warm greetings from their relatives, so more and more children are reluctant to go to relatives' homes with their parents to pay New Year's greetings. In addition, children will always be asked about their academic performance when they go to their parents' homes with their parents, and adults always like to compare children's grades, and those children who are not very good in the grades are not willing to go to their relatives' houses with their parents to visit the New Year.

Second, when you go to a relative's house to pay New Year's greetings, you will always be urged to get married, so more and more children are reluctant to go with their parents to pay New Year's greetings. Urging marriage is a problem that every marriageable young man and woman has to face during the Chinese New Year, and your parents will urge you to marry at family gatherings, and they hope that you will find a suitable partner to marry as soon as possible, so they don't have to worry about your life's events. When you go to a relative's house with your parents to pay New Year's greetings, your relatives will also ask you about your lifelong events, they will ask you if you have a partner, when you are going to get married, and even some relatives will urge you to marry with your parents, so more and more children are reluctant to go to relatives' homes with their parents to practice New Year's greetings.

Other than that. As the children grow older, they are reluctant to pay New Year's greetings to their elders, because they feel that they have grown up and do not want to collect the New Year's money, which is one of the reasons why more and more children are unwilling to go to relatives' houses with their parents.

To sum up, this is my opinion on the issue of the increasing number of children who are reluctant to go with their parents to visit relatives for the New Year.

This is because the taste of the New Year is getting weaker and weaker now, and many children feel that it is very embarrassing to visit relatives for the New Year, and the movement between relatives is not very close, so children are reluctant to go to relatives' houses with their parents to miss the New Year.

Today's children lack communication, they don't like to socialize, they like to play quietly by themselves, they generally don't like to go out to visit relatives, they are such children. Tease.

The main reason is that going to a relative's house to pay New Year's greetings will be pulled and asked long and short, which is very disgusting, so people don't like to go to relatives' houses to pay New Year's greetings.

The Spring Festival should be the most important festival in the hearts of our Chinese, as the saying goes, there is no money to go home for the New Year.

It is because of the Spring Festival that we can all get together, and the family can be harmonious and beautiful, reunited, visiting relatives and friends, and spending the festival together. My parents are both working outside the home, and the tickets to come back have been booked, but because of the epidemic, it broke out early. So I can only respond to the call and celebrate the New Year on the spot.

My sister also couldn't come back for the New Year because she was in a high-risk area, so she said that I was the only one in the family this year, and it was lonely and miserable. Although I am alone at home for the New Year, I must have a sense of ritual, and it is indispensable to visit relatives and friends. Do you know what you should pay attention to when you go to a relative's house alone for the Chinese New Year?

Let's talk about it.

First, help the family bring blessings to them.

Mom and sister five, dad and sister six. They have a very good relationship with their siblings, and they will have dinner together every year and travel a little, so when my parents can't come back for the New Year, it's not me who worries about it, but my uncle, aunt, uncle, and aunt. He also told me to visit the elders' homes, and although they couldn't come back, I had to help them bring blessings to the elders.

Second, gifts are indispensable for visiting friends.

It should be explained, and after the explanation, there is one of the most important things, that is, I must bring them gifts, but I am also an adult, this point does not need to be explained by my parents, and I know in my heart that it is indispensable to bring gifts when visiting relatives and friends. So I also used part of my salary early to buy gifts for the elders. I think this is how it should be, they are elders themselves, and as juniors, when they visit them during the New Year, they should bring some gifts.

Secondly, people are sophisticated, and there are always contacts. If you want to have a good relationship, you must move around more, go to other people's homes for the New Year, and be really embarrassed to go over without gifts. Fruits, milk, and supplements are ready and ready to go.

Third, bring some red envelopes and give the children New Year's money.

In addition to bringing some nutritious products to the elders, you should also take care of the children in the relatives family, such as cousins and cousins, when they have children at home to pay New Year's greetings, they should prepare some snacks that children like to eat. I also have to prepare some red envelopes in advance, although I am not married yet, but after all, I am an elder, and those are my little nephews and nieces. Seeing that the child must send some New Year's money, this is also our custom, no matter how many red envelopes, it is their own mind, to press the child for the New Year, this is also a good idea, I hope the child can grow better.

As the year draws to a close, many people may have already returned home or are still on their way home. Chinese New Year, especially in rural areas, the procedure of visiting relatives after the New Year is definitely indispensable. Sometimes family members may not accompany you to visit the New Year due to some other factors, but you can't help but pay New Year's greetings to your relatives, so you need to go alone.

So what do you need to pay attention to when you go to a relative's house alone to pay New Year's greetings? In my opinion, the main aspects are the following:

01. Pay attention to the gifts you bring when you go to your relatives' house to pay New Year's greetings, not the most expensive but enough to express your sincerity

Under normal circumstances, the gifts that everyone brings are basically cigarettes, alcohol, drinks, milk, etc. You don't have to buy the most expensive of these items, but you have to have a similar one, not too cheap, otherwise you may not be able to get it. And when buying items, you must go through formal channels, and you must not buy "fakes".

Otherwise, you "can't wash yourself by jumping into the Yellow River", and no one knows whether you are deliberate or unintentional.

Before, my cousin went to my aunt's house to pay New Year's greetings, but the gift I sent was a fake (I bought it at a cigarette shop on the side of the road, and I was deceived by the merchant), which made my aunt very unhappy. Later, my cousin went to argue with the cigarette hotel, but the other party refused to admit it anyway. In the end, he had no choice but to make it clear to his aunt in private and apologize.

02. Pay attention to the time when you go to a relative's house to pay New Year's greetings, and don't go too late or too early

New Year's greetings are generally to go to each other's house in the morning, not too late and not too early. Because if it's too late, at 10 o'clock or 11 o'clock, the other party may not have time to cook, and if it's too early, at 7 or 8 o'clock, the other party may not get up yet. Therefore, it is generally recommended to go to the other party's house around 9:30 to pay New Year's greetings, so that the other party has time to prepare meals and you will not disturb the other party.

Last year, when my cousin came to my house to pay New Year's greetings, they came too early, and they came before 8 o'clock, but everyone had just gotten up, and they didn't have time to wash, and the scene was a little embarrassing. Although he may not have thought about it that much, such behavior is indeed not so polite.

03. Pay attention to your words, deeds and dress

Chinese New Year is generally more festive, so be sure not to say anything unlucky. Especially in the countryside, there are still some customs in many places, and the older generation is relatively traditional, so you must not say things like "dead", "poor", "ugly" or anything like that.

And when you go to someone's house to pay New Year's greetings, you should dress appropriately and cleanly, which is also to show your importance to this New Year's greeting trip and respect for each other.

As the saying goes, "details determine success or failure", when you go to someone else's house to pay New Year's greetings, you must grasp some details and strive to leave a good impression on the other party.