What to do if there is friction between good friends

This kind of thing is unavoidable, if it is really a friend worth making then you will definitely get through this difficult time and make each other's friendship stronger.

Explain it well, explain it with sincerity, and don't be in a hurry

Take a step back and open the sky

To two people as long as they understand each other. Mutual respect. Help each other. Of course, there will be pure friendship. o(∩_o...

First of all, you should reflect on whether you are at fault and why your friends quarreled with you. If it's your fault, you must let go of your self-esteem.

And face took the initiative to apologize to each other. If it's your friend's fault, then you can put the other party aside, don't think about anything about him, and let the other party take the initiative to apologize to you. If the other party's apology is sincere, then don't be too careful; If the other person apologizes reluctantly, then you may want to deliberately make things difficult for your friend to realize your mistake and then reconcile with him.

Sometimes, two people who are close to each other will also be inexplicably estranged for some reason. At this time, we should look for the reason from ourselves, think about whether we have done something unfair to him recently, or whether our attitude in front of our friends is a little arrogant, or whether what we said hurt our friends' self-esteem. When you find out why the other person is estranged from you, sincerely apologize to the other person and ask for forgiveness.

If the explanation is useless to him, the other party has been disappointed in you, and concluded that you have no possibility of changing, then you should deeply reflect on your mistakes, and change yourself, so that the other party can see your sincerity, then maybe one day the other party will still become close friends with you.

Of course, not all estrangement is due to some conflict between friends, it can also be the distance between you, which causes the estrangement of friendship. For example, if one party moves, the relationship may naturally become estranged. Faced with this situation, look for opportunities to spend more time with friends.

For example, you can go out with friends on weekends or holidays. In addition, you can also keep in touch with the other person, such as calling, emailing, texting, etc. Be willing to share interesting things in your life with the other person, so that the other party can perceive your sincerity.

Summary: Small friction is nothing at all, there is no problem that cannot be solved by apology, don't be too entangled in right and wrong, tolerance and understanding apply to all feelings, including friendship, if you are embarrassed to meet, then chat, it is natural to chat.

I will first let both of you calm down, and then communicate when you come back to your senses, or talk through some social software, so that you can reconcile.

We will choose to reconcile the next day, and we generally do not quarrel, and even if we quarrel, it is only due to disagreement.

1.You can invite your friend to dinner privately and talk about it with an attitude of admitting mistakes and reconciling. A person should be broad-minded, and taking the initiative to reconcile does not mean that you lost or that you were wrong, but that you are more tolerant than the other party and cherish this friendship more.

2.Yes** or text message, sometimes, some problems cannot be solved, at this time we can use our instant messenger to express our thoughts.

I will seriously analyze some reasons and communicate with him, he is also a very reasonable person, and he can be reconciled.

This Wednesday, half of us stayed in the classroom and half went to class. I am one of the people in the classroom. Recently, I don't know why, but it became popular to write a classmate, and I helped a boy in our class write a classmate list and handed it to him.

But later, I found out that the list I wrote to his classmates had been torn up by other boys. I was very angry and chased after me and asked my table mate to come back, but my table mate refused to do so! I also read all my information with another boy.

At that time, I was really angry, if you want me to write a classmate, tell me, I will definitely write it, why tear up the classmate record that I wrote to other Feng: so loud! And, did I say I was going to show them? They still haven't paid me back!

I was so angry that I went back to my seat and shouted, "I don't want it anymore!" Then he sat down angrily and wrote.

I was in a bad mood when suddenly the guy who had been at the same table with me to get my stuff came up and got the colored pencils of "Grandma" (as my friends call them to play games) on the floor, and I became more and more angry, plus they had just taken my paper ......I couldn't hold back anymore and cried while picking up the pencil. You could see that the boy was surprised, but more of a panic. My good friend Xiao Dai, Sister Bingbing (Bingxin), took me out of the classroom and into the side hallway (because there was no one there, so it was best to stay there and cry), and she said a lot of things to me, all of which were sincere.

From her words, I understood one thing. Some friends make friends with you for a complete purpose, in fact, there will not be many of your real good friends, but I know that Sister Bingbing must be my bosom friend, because we can speak our hearts and never leak it.

Summary. Hello dear, 1 Be open-minded When you have a disagreement, don't always think that you are right, and when you calm down, think about it carefully, your friend's point of view is also right. 2. Find a good opportunity to resolve differences, wait until both parties have enough time, be able to sit down calmly to resolve differences, and use enough time and energy to solve the problem well.

3. Appropriate language: Before communicating with friends, carefully organize your own words; Whether your words will help solve the problem or deepen the differences between the two parties requires you to prepare your words in advance. 4. Pay attention to your own toneYou may be right when you say something, but because your tone is inappropriate, your words are sarcastic or even critical to your friend's voice, even if he feels that he is wrong, he will still be stubborn.

Hello dear, 1 Be open-minded When you have a disagreement, don't always think that you are right, and when you calm down, think about it carefully, your friend's point of view is also right. 2. Find a good opportunity to resolve differences, and wait until both parties have enough time to sit down calmly to resolve differences, and use enough time and energy to solve the problem well. 3. Appropriate language: Before communicating with friends, carefully organize your own words; Whether your words will help solve the problem or deepen the differences between the two sides requires you to be prepared in advance.

4. Pay attention to your own toneYou may be right when you say something, but because your tone is inappropriate, your words are sarcastic or even critical to your friend's voice, even if he feels that he is wrong, he will still be stubborn.

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5. Listen carefully to every word your friend says when he speaks, think about everything he says from his point of view, and understand how these words come about. 6. Find out what the problem is, find out the main problem that caused the conflict by the attack, maybe you talked to him about this issue for a long time, and finally he said what kind of problem it was, and you suddenly realized that it was caused by this problem. 7. Solve the problemAfter finding out the problem, find out the best way to solve the problem, and strive to solve the problem satisfactorily; In the end, in order to make fun of the trouble, to avoid similar things to Brother Fa Kai, the two sides also had to explain clearly how to deal with such problems in the future.

Hug the subject. I would like to share my experience with the subject.

I have a conflict with a good friend, at this time, if I encounter a conflict, I will first reflect on myself, why is this situation happening?

Am I at fault in the first place? I didn't consider the other person's feelings, I said something wrong that shouldn't have been said.

Or is it because the other party is too sensitive and emotionally unstable, just wait for her to be emotionally stable. And so on......

Then, if I feel that it is still necessary to maintain the relationship between two people, at this time, I will take the initiative to ask the other person to solve the problem. But if you feel that there may still be a lot of friction and unhappiness between the two people after they are together, you will choose to give up maintaining this relationship.

If the subject is very concerned about why the other party will block himself, you can try to find a suitable time, ask the other party by text message or other means, I found that you blocked me, this is why He Li. Let the other person feel that you actually care about him (she is like a feast).

In addition to the first time, if the subject still wants to maintain the relationship between two people, the subject can take the initiative to ask what the other party thinks.

But if you find that the relationship between two people is also better, don't get too entangled.

I hope it will be helpful to the slag silver subject.