I m so tired of living and I care too much about what other people think of me

I'm also '89. But I'm a girl. I'm in a similar situation to you.

Probably worse than you. What to say. Let's take an analogy.

A lot of times when I walk down the road I feel like people are looking at me. At this time, I will become very emotionally busy. Therefore, it is clear and high, but it is not high.

The whole person's expressions, thoughts, and movements are messed up. For a long time. I almost went crazy.

Because this emotion of mine has developed to friends. Even the kind of friend who has been playing for a long time and is very good. Emotional tension is high.

People have also become very sensitive! In fact, the reason is just one point, always thinking about showing the best side of yourself to others (too much vanity)...But the result was the opposite.

Later, I often scolded myself and died in the face of sin. It wasn't until later that I slowly discovered that I went with the flow. The most authentic self may be more acceptable to others, and it is easier for you to live.

The key is not two words. Mentality.

In fact, the age of 19 has said so much, I guess you are a child who has been spoiled at home since childhood, and you don't have too much contact with society by yourself! In our Northeast dialect, be more affordable, don't care too much about what others think of you, if it's your fault, you can absorb it, humbly accept your own shortcomings, people are making progress little by little, cautious? Do you have to be cautious every day to face your friends, you have to be affordable-really, show your true self to others, so that others can really get along with you, if your friend knows that you are an open-minded person, he will definitely remind you when you make mistakes!

Want to save face? If you are a child of a rich family, it is okay to have face, if you are a child of an ordinary family, then face is the insole, the real face is your strength in all aspects, when you feel that your strength is higher than others, you will feel that you have face, otherwise how can you mention face?

Be a natural person so that you can be happy Some people say that you are very good, so believe in you Interpersonal relationships must also be great hahaha !~

On different occasions, you have to do your job well in each of your roles! ~

I can do without your points. I'm the same as you, I'm afraid of being talked about. But I'm still going to live!

I don't want to be looked down upon, I will try to create my own business。。 Don't care what other people think, just be yourself. The more you care about what others think of you, the harder it will be for you to get ahead!

You don't have low self-esteem! You have to believe in what you can do! Be confident!

I'm sticking with you!!!

I'm like that too, but I'm a girl, hehe. Now I'm trying to change.

Me too, 21 years old. I always care too much about what others think (I think being a man should be like this, since we can't help others, then at least don't trouble others), but unfortunately others are not like this, I am helpless, very helpless.

Even is the same age 19Maybe it's not confident enough!

In fact, no matter how you do it, success or failure, others will not agree with you. I don't think you should worry about hurting others. No matter how good you do, it will be the same.

You don't have to be responsible, and you don't have that reason to worry about anyone.

I'm a 19-year-old girl, so I've never been in a situation like this. I've always been quite happy.,I'm the kind of person with super "self-comfort ability", I don't hold grudges, and treat myself and others leniently.

I'm also 19 female.

Actually, I also care about what other people think of me, and everybody cares, but I don't know if it's you.

But you're just too concerned.

Of course, boys have to be open-minded.

Otherwise, how can you behave in the world?

In fact, one day you can try to be your true self.

Just for a day or half a day.

For a short period of time, you don't have to ask others what they think of you.

Be yourself and make bold jokes.

Let's see how everyone reacts. But don't be too deliberate.

Really, as long as you live a good life, it's okay.

Do you care what your parents think? If not, why do you care what other people think? Because it's not familiar? Since you are not familiar with it, you don't care what others say, a very classic saying: go your own way, let others say go!

If you care about what your parents say, then you are very remarkable, because if you care, you will get things done!

You're relatively vain, aren't you?

I'm afraid that others will look down on you.

I think in terms of charm, can you compare to Tony Leung?

In terms of appearance, are you better than those sought-after handsome guys?

Not to mention money, power, fame and fortune.

Even if it was the previous emperor, there was still a lot of scolding in the back.

You can't tolerate people thinking badly of you, so what about you?

Isn't it in your eyes that everyone is perfect?

Everyone will have flaws, flaws, and you shouldn't be so inferior.

I think when someone says you're bad, or has a bad opinion about something about you.

You should be happier and brave enough to face yourself, only then can you find the shortcomings that you have not discovered.

Isn't it great that you can correct it in time? Step by step, under the unintentional 'guidance' of others, I will improve myself better.

Since others say that you are excellent, but you are still so inferior, that is a sign of perfectionism. For fear of hurting others or influencing others or being said by others, it means that you are still very kind. What you lack is self-confidence.

You know, boys with assertiveness and personality are the cutest. Be open-minded!

Actually, I'm just like you. I care a lot about what others think of me.

For fear of hurting others or affecting others.

You should be a more considerate boy.

If you don't play basketball well, don't play it at all. Go and learn something that interests you.

Or enrich yourself with what you are doing, learn more knowledge, and learn everything you can.

Maybe you are a legendary death to save face, hey, the real life suffers.

Let's think about it, for example, if you're ugly, you always care about the way people look at you, but is it useful? What else is there besides going for a facelift? Be yourself, no one has their own strengths and weaknesses, their own personality, and what they are afraid of.

When you step into society, you will change.

As you grow older, your ideas will gradually mature.

Don't be too anxious.

Just be yourself.

It's you who live your life.

I'm just like you, but I'm 21

It's also a bit inferior.

A girl I like is afraid that others will say that it is ugly and that the name is dirty, and I dare not find a beautiful self together, but I don't feel anything.

I care a lot about other people's eyes and have a good face.

It's distressing

Little brother sends you a message: It's better to die than to live.

Don't ask for too much credit, no one is perfect!

In life, we can always meet some, especially care about the feelings of others, so that in the end life is not like themselves at all, today we will take a look at it, too concerned about other people's views and feelings, what to do if you are so tired.

1.Reduce low self-esteem.

Sometimes we care too much about what others think, often because we are too inferior, feel that we are full of shortcomings, feel that others are full of advantages, the reason why this is the case, we need to reduce our inferiority complex, and we don't care so much about what others think.

2.Increase self-confidence.

It is also a very good way to increase self-confidence, you can cultivate some of your own hobbies and specialties, so that you have a more prominent side, so that you will feel that you have a sense of superiority when communicating with others.

3.Relax.

When facing some small things and small details, don't keep tangled or hesitate, the consequences of this will only make our lives more tired, and will make our lives more tired, so there is no need to worry about small things.

4.Everything has to be thought in a good direction.

Caring too much about other people's thoughts often leads to thinking in a bad direction about everything, which will put our lives in a pessimistic state, and we might as well think in a good direction when we encounter things.

5.Fight for yourself.

In many cases, because I take too much into account the ideas of others, I will choose to give up some of my own rights because I am embarrassed, which is a very bad habit, and what I want must be fought for by myself.

6.Communicate. If we can't communicate well, then we don't have to care about the person's feelings, you know, the premise of caring about feelings is communication.

If you care too much about what others think of you, you will have an inferiority complex, and it is easy to lose your pleasure in life and make you negative.

Properly cultivate your own interests and hobbies, divert your attention, or find some free time, go out for a walk, travel, put aside distractions, relax your body and mind, don't think too much about what others are doing, and understand that you are living for yourself, not in the eyes of others.

Caring about what others think of you means that you are very demanding of yourself and always want to do the best, so it is really tiring, paying too much attention to these, ignoring yourself in **, don't care about these, no matter how good you do, even if you are the most perfect, others can still jump out of your faults.

It is recommended that you calm down and live really not to care too much about other people's eyes, because everyone's thoughts are different, and we have no way to control other people's thoughts, but we can change ourselves, make ourselves better, and live for ourselves!

Dear, you are a people-pleasing personality who cares a lot about other people's opinions and has no opinions about many things. This is due to the living environment of childhood. Don't care too much about others and treat them with an attitude of indifference. I just thought that I was not a renminbi, and of course I couldn't be liked by everyone.

Don't dare to care about what others think of you, this may be because your mind is more delicate, and you are a sentimental person, so you especially care about other people's opinions, in fact, this is not a bad thing? Because a lot of people are like you, it's good to want to open a little.

Sometimes you don't have to do something too deliberately! Just be yourself! Don't care what people think of you! Aren't you happy to be yourself? Since life is your own, why care what others think!

Always care too much about what others think of you, what should I do if my wife is very tired? Personally, I think that if a person cares too much about other people's opinions, then it is a very tiring thing to live, and you should relax your mood and be happy.

You must have your own way of life, don't care what others say, you must have self-confidence, self-improvement and self-reliance are the king.

Don't care too much about what other people think. Go your own way. Okay.

Why do you have low self-esteem. You have low self-esteem because you care too much about what others think. Feel that what you do is not good in the eyes of others.

That's what you think. Makes you very tired and tired. You don't think so.

You have to be bold. Why care too much about what people think.

It's not wrong to care about other people's opinions, but if you care too much, it will become a mental illness, you have just stepped into society, you are very sensitive to things, and other people's unintentional words will be thought about for a long time, you know that it is a vicious circle, so, be strong. Believe in yourself, let others care about your opinions, instead of caring about other people's opinions everywhere, to put it bluntly, you have not grown up to the point where others pay so much attention to you, and you will not remember this for a long time, once others pay attention to you, whether it is praise or ridicule, it means that you have grown to a certain height, but I hope this is good growth, I am not laughing at you, I don't think there is anything funny, this is normal psychology, we always subconsciously think that we are the biggest, that is, the most concerned about ourselves, I don't have a lot of touch with other people's things, everyone is like this, take other people's opinions lightly, but it's not that I don't care, I hope you have something to gain and grow into an excellent person who cares. Come on

I used to be like you! Not like that anymore, but still a little bit in the respect of friends! Yesterday I said something, explained, listening to me, my colleague's mother said:

Why do you think so much? Do what you have to do! What does it matter to you what other people think?

ps: A word of advice to you, don't waste your heart on people you shouldn't care about, your heart can't be broken! Worth!

Let's look at the point! Maybe it's because I didn't get much recognition and lack of self-confidence in my life since I was a child. Or around you, there are too many excellent peers who make you feel undervalued, and you are so eager to be recognized and appreciated. Received enough attention.

So you care about what other people think, you care about what other people say. I also care a lot about how I perform in front of others. Every word and deed, every deed.

There is no quick fix, this depends on yourself, try to live a rich and wonderful life, participate in more activities, boldly show yourself in front of friends or strangers, say your own thoughts, do what you want to do, and when you can't express it, just be a listener quietly. Don't be a person who makes people feel fake. Slowly it will get better.

Look at it with a heart, sincerity, and a grateful heart. Don't let yourself get too tired.

Caring too much about other people's opinions is easy to lose self, lose your original self-confidence, personality, and easily become suspicious and irritable. I think that's what makes you not positive about life!

You always care a lot about what others think of you, causing you to be sensitive and always not positive about life!

Paying too much attention to what others think can make you lose yourself by living in the eyes of others.

I'm like you sometimes, I guess I'm not confident enough

Maybe you're sleeping in the wrong position.

In fact, sometimes I feel tired because I think about some things too complicated.