What do you think about intrigue in college?

In fact, whether it is in the university, there will be intrigue in every environment you are in, such as between countries, officialdom, workplace, school, and even neighbors, it is everywhere, intrigue is mainly due to the fact that there are two people with close strength, and the appearance of intrigue is still the reason for interests, and there will be no intrigue without interests. The real world is like that. We can't change the environment, we can only adapt to it.

If you find something intrigue in college, congratulations! Let you adapt to social life in advance, when you graduate and enter the society, you will find that hypocrisy, intrigue, and ...... are hidden in your smileYou will get used to it, so the problems you encounter in school, this is the time for you to use your brain to think, how to deal with these problems, so that you can grow up. Don't run away, face reality, learn easily, improvise, read more psychology books, you will find the answer how to deal with it, come on.

The university is a small society, and we can't bear the pressure of the small society, so we will be powerless to resist the real society. We need to face and accept all kinds of competition in the university, including shady, but we don't need to take these competitions too seriously, when we really step into the society and look back, we will find that the stubborn competition we sometimes do is really naïve. Try with a learning attitude, treat it with a serious attitude, and tolerate it with a dream.

You will have a pleasant and fun university life.

There are two places where the most intrigue occurs in the university, one is in the class every year to compete for scholarships, and the other is in the student union to compete for ministers and student union presidents and the like, but this benefit, you know that it is not worth mentioning when you go out of society, you have to look at the long-term, if you have energy, you will fight, and if you don't have energy, you will do your own thing.

When I first went to college last year, I heard that the university is the most complicated place in society, full of intrigue and deception, and the incident happened in my college, but when I heard about it, it itself has become a big dye vat, and all parties have carried out a struggle for their so-called rights and interests. Instead, I took a lot of the original questions that I had taken before, and some students had not done the previous papers, so they felt that they had suffered a loss, so they went to the Academic Affairs Office to report the exam of this course.

After graduating and going to the society, after achieving a certain success, thinking about these intrigues in college is trivial, but it feels like a very beautiful memory, as soon as I think of these things, I feel very young, haha, these phenomena are very normal, it is better to look down.

When we went to school, the most intrigue in the men's dormitory was to be each other's fathers! If you realize that everyone is intriguing, think about your own problems first. Your choices now will have a great impact on the way you choose in your later life, whether you are clever to avoid them, or to be tough and tough, or to go to the shadows and make small moves like the other person.

Let's talk about what happened around me, she lost the vote to me when she ran for the position of class president at the beginning of the school year, and since then she has remembered it in her heart and said bad things about me behind her back, which is really a bad word for my senior sister! It took me a year to find out how bad, cautious, and scheming people thought I was to blame everything she did. In fact, she did it, she is the most pitiful, bullied by us all day long, I really don't want to spend too much spit to confront love, it is really unlucky to have this kind of classmate in college, and it is really a huge slot to meet such a person in life.

At that time, you may feel all kinds of anger and incomprehensible. But after a few years, when I look back, it is just a small mark of youth, but it is more interesting. Of course, through these things, you can also realize who is a reliable friend and clear the obstacles for your future life path, after all, it is better to find out early than late.

The study career is only a few years, which may seem like a long time now, but in retrospect, the study career passed very quickly and passed in the blink of an eye. So don't overshoot a trivial incident when you were a student, and destroy Shouhu's good memories of study and life in the future.

If there is a conspiracy among other students in the class and it does not involve you, then it is best not to participate. Wait and see what happens, do a good job in your own study, and do your job well. Treat everyone and every student peacefully, where there are people, there will be intrigues, there is no need to get involved and provoke the fire.

If you are unlucky, you will be caught up in these intrigues. Then take a fresh look at yourself to see if you have the need and strength to participate in it, and if you don't harm your own interests, then quit as soon as possible. If it harms your own interests, it's best not to intrigue with them.

Believe in yourself, these are obtained by your own strength, and we are not afraid to fight with us. What you get with your strength, how can you take it away with intrigue, manage yourself well, no one will be jealous, and you will never think about deceiving others first.

It's not serious, there is no need for intrigue in college, and your question shows that you think too complicated, simpler.

People's hearts are sinister, and it depends on who you meet.

I think intrigue is not only in college, but also in many times of life, but if there is intrigue, there will be true love and warmth in the world.

As far as my own college life is concerned, the top 20 in my class are actually secretly competing and intriguing, why? Because the top few can get scholarships, and there are also opportunities to get guaranteed research for ruined, so for such an opportunity, how can everyone not be intrigued? Even if it is harmonious on the surface, it will secretly compete in the heart.

The second is the dormitory relationship, I think many people say that there are several groups in a dormitory, such a statement, in fact, there are some intrigues in the dormitory, but some dormitories, it is particularly harmonious, everyone finally became good friends, the dormitory relationship actually depends on how you get along? How can you avoid particularly serious infighting? But if you take care of it well, you can become very good friends and help each other.

Maybe it's because of the personality of our dormitory classmates, and because everyone is very sincere when they get along, so during college, my dormitory life is very warm and harmonious, and I met a group of very cute roommates, who help each other with every group homework, so intrigue may exist, but it may not necessarily exist, see how Zheng Lu handles it.

In the end, I think the most important thing is not intrigue, but the important thing is that you learn how to better handle the relationship between people in such an environment, so as to better realize your self-development, because I think university is not only about learning knowledge, but more importantly, about learning skills in all aspects such as dealing with people and things, so as to prepare you for entering the society in the future.

Generally not that severe.

There may be a certain amount of competition in learning.

And make friends, pull factions.

Probably because of the opposite sex, there is also a certain competition for the empty core.

Election cadres will also use some thoughts.

If you have a serious loss, report the situation to the teacher in time!

exists, the university student union is also a small circle, and it is normal for there to be intrigue in the circle.

University is a bridging stage for students from the learning stage to the society, where everyone can experience and adapt to some social rules in advance. In a certain sense, the student union of the university is already a microcosm of the whole society, because there will be elections, interests, and struggles in the student union, and since there are struggles, there will inevitably be opportunities to show the darkness and selfishness of human beings.

The student union is a large whole, which will contain many small clubs, and the operation of the clubs is closely related to the interests of each participant. Everyone is fighting openly and secretly, and they are all thinking about how to grow their own community, because the best community means that they can get better resources and it will be easier to apply for funding.

Although there will be a lot of dark sides in the student union, from another point of view, there are many benefits to joining the student union. For example, in this team, we can cultivate our own sense of community, we can cultivate our organizational and planning skills, and improve our self-confidence, which are very useful abilities for stepping into the workplace in the future.

In fact, the university student union is just a small corner of the social image, and after entering the workplace, you will encounter more incomprehensible rules and more intrigues, because the high-end positions in a company can be counted on one hand. If you don't fight or grab, you'll never sit at the top. Sitting in the highest position means that you can be respected by more people, and you can bring better financial conditions and life to your family.

So we have to adapt to the intrigue everywhere, society has never sympathized with the weak, and the principle of survival of the fittest has been applicable since ancient times. As an adult, you should not retreat, even if you encounter many difficulties, you should move forward, otherwise it will be difficult for you to survive in the real world.

As long as there are people, there will be a distribution of interests, and there will be intrigue, and the combat units of the troops will be relatively better at the grassroots level, and they will be more fair and just.

Study hard, health first, study second, and make friends third. Be a decent person and do things decently.

Don't indulge in those little cleverness, what kind of sycophancy, deception, gangs and the like all day long.

The mind is not yet mature, and learning these things can only make you draw a tiger and not become an anti-dog.

Everyone has a process of growth, don't keep saying "university is a small society" or something like that, university is a university, this is a place to learn, and society is not a concept.

To put it mildly, most of the ordinary teachers in the university are also very naïve and basically confined to a small circle. Not to mention you're a doll.

Your little cleverness, tricks, sycophants and the like, when you get to the officialdom, you will find that this kind of person dies quickly. Can you be promoted with this little cleverness? You're also underestimating the *communal*official* field.

The concept of emotional intelligence is also a metaphysics, if you understand emotional intelligence as how to see the wind and steer, how to load coins, how to be smart, then you will not be able to be a village chief for the rest of your life.

It's not just intrigues.

Because the student union also involves interests, you see, the chairman generally has a good relationship with the teachers of the Student Work Office, and the vice chairman and the minister are generally known to the teachers of the Student Work Office.

Although it is said that there are not so many economic benefits.

But it cannot be said that there is no at all.

Every change of office is a battle between you and me.

The struggle between the gangs is even more layered.

University is a transitional stage, it is not recommended to enter the student union experience, the level of intrigue in the student union is too low and will lead you to three views, to put it simply, it is hard to do things that you don't understand, and you can't understand what you say, and you feel like you're very powerful. It's not as good as having time to go to the gym or work part-time. It is not recommended to be a tutor, it is a good thing to make money, and it is also a change in the three views, and it is not the time to make money, it is better to do less and watch more and learn more, contact with all kinds of people, and improve the upper limit of their thoughts instead of starting to enter the society to shape.

In college, you will find that if you live in a circle, you will be assimilated like a circle. There is no intrigue in the student union, and it is simple to play tricks and succeed for a while, which will not let anyone suffer a big loss for a long time and has no purpose. It's not good to talk and nag, a mouth is too directional, and it will only rush people, not help people, this is not good, if it is said that helping people to talk will make enemies, it is better to keep your mouth shut, and high emotional intelligence will save character.

Of course, college is half a society.

Student leadership organizations at universities are like half a workplace.

College students are workplace reserves, and the university student union is a simulated battlefield before college students enter the real workplace.

The student will be a fart, and he will pretend to be forced all day long.

Yes, it's like a small society.

I joined the student organization in college because I was afraid of boredom, and I didn't know which department to choose at the time, but after entering the new group, our minister said come to the office, which is very exercised, so I wrote an application and entered the office in such a daze, and many people said that the people who chose to enter the office were ambitious people, but I didn't think so at the time. In our department, I am the least talkative one, and I can do every job well, but I just don't like to communicate with my classmates in other departments unless I have to.

There is a girl in our department, she looks good, she is very beautiful, she can speak well, and she is very liked by others, but she often likes to engage in specialization, and every time the work is not completed on time, or she will shirk it to others, we all thought at first that she was really as naïve as she appeared, she always said to us, I don't fight with you, I just come to this department to study, exercise myself. However, this is not the case, she probably used all other means except for not working hard to complete the task, being coquettish, selling cuteness is not bad, and giving herself a stupid and sweet character who is indisputable with the world. At first, we really believed in her, and after a long time, everyone knew what kind of person she was, so we didn't want to deal with her.

For such a person, the best way is to speak with your own strength, intrigue and small means will not be hers after all, your efforts and dedication, others will see, Zhengda bright, relying on your own strength to get convincing.