I don t want to give up and I don t want to have, I don t want to have because I don t want to lose

In fact, it is difficult to give up a man who loves and hates, when you love him, you hate him because of something, you can't wait to break up with him, you really want to break up and you can't bear it, in fact, this shows that you still love him very much, but this kind of love will only hurt yourself, if you are really determined to give up on him, then find a man who loves you more than him, when there is a man who loves you very much, you will naturally let go of your feelings for him, and at that time you will not be in such a dilemma as now.

In the emotional world, giving up is the hardest, because giving up not only means not seeing him again, but more importantly, not thinking about him anymore. And our hearts often betray us at this time, and the more we can't remember it, the more often we think of it.

So, my friend, don't force yourself to forget this man who once loved and hated in a short period of time, because after all, so many years of your life are related to this person, leave everything to time, let time dilute all memories, let this life related to him and the green years related to him turn into a gray silhouette in memory, maybe when you think of this past in a few years, you will also smile, so that it is the best memory of him and this relationship!

If it is engraved in my heart, can I still forget it? If you want to give up your heart, then find the true love that belongs to you and let him heal your pain! Even though true love is hard to come across now, there is still one, give yourself hope

1.minutes can see a person, 1hours can know a person, 1You can belch a person, but it takes a lifetime to forget a fish?

Difficult to choose! Sorrowful! I'm also hovering between them! I feel like I'm being selfish! Ay.

There are two ways, one is to be cruel to yourself and let time dilute everything.

Another way, hurry up and find a man, whether it is a substitute or a love.

Be fast anyway. Hehe.

Be ruthless, since you are hateful, there is no need to love each other.

Either drink Meng Po soup or start your own new life!

Do more to distract yourself

I have lost it and cried it hard. That dark time, the feeling of loneliness, because I have experienced sinking, is more unforgettable and profound.

The real pain is indescribable, and some people's superficial light is because they have experienced too many traces of life, so they have no joy and sorrow.

And what I have been, how can you feel it, and how can I describe the ease in words?

So, naturally, you won't understand that I'm far away and don't want to have. Maybe you will say that I am not optimistic enough, maybe you will tell me that life is beautiful. But I just want to tell you that I don't want to be hurt again, I don't want to be disappointed anymore, I just want to live quietly and lightly.

I don't want to have, I don't want to have people, things, and things I want, I'm no longer so demanding. It's because I'm so scared of losing, really scared of that lost time coming back to me.

Once, I couldn't let go of his departure, and once, my mother's departure made me hate the world.

Once, how many people went back and forth, back and forth, and their hearts were empty and filled, and in the end only indifference and decadence remained.

Now, I don't dare to ask for too much. No, maybe not a bad thing. Because, I was really afraid of leaving, afraid of losing, afraid of being abandoned.

In this world, it will always be cold. It's so cold that some people can lose their promises at any time, and some people can lose their integrity and even kindness at any time. And the so-called original intention, which can be kept, is warmth. I just wish it could be warm. Warm yourself, warm others.

Text |A little lonely guest in green shirts.

There is such a sentence in Attack on Titan:

Indeed, whenever we want to change some bad habits, we always have to give up a lot of things, such as free time, indulgent desires, and redundant social interactions, and make a corresponding improvement plan to make us move towards this goal.

Giving up, giving is always in front of gain, which means that we can only get the result we want if we have to pay a certain price first.

Because of this, it is often painful to change the manuscript, and it is not an overnight thing, it needs to be accumulated over time, just like the success of the water drop stone is not that the stone is not hard, but the persistence of the water droplet, the reason why Yugong moved the mountain successfully is not the insignificance of the mountain, but the excavation of Yugong for decades.

When we want to have, it means that we have to let go of something, the moment of choice will produce gains and losses, after all, the world is difficult to have both, choose to have the corresponding efforts, although not all things can be obtained, but we get things often need to pay to have for a long time.

We are making choices all the time, but we can try our best to make ourselves less regretful, in order to have the life we want, we have to make choices, and we have to give up other choices and directions, and persistently move forward in the direction we have chosen.

Thank you for reading and may you be well.

Summary. What is not possessed, and what is given up is a kind of human problem. Everybody is like this, when we finally get something, so lost, for example, I want to have a house, then I may just buy this house, but what, I bought this house, I'm not so happy, that's a bit big, but what, you're talking about people, if I don't get this person, I've been doing everything possible to be good to him, when he's good to me, I don't want to be nice to him, this is the particularity of human feelings.

I didn't get what I wanted to have, and I wanted to give up when I did.

What is not possessed and has a mutual renunciation, this struggle is a kind of human problem. Everyone is like this, when we don't get a thing in a good answer, it's so frustrating, for example, if I want to have a house, then I may just buy this house, but what, I bought this house, I'm not so happy, it's a bit big, empty staring, but what, you're talking about people, if I don't get this person, I've been doing everything possible to be good to him, when he's good to me, I don't want to be nice to him, this is the peculiarity of human feelings.

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I hope and I always advise the people around me to maintain a high degree of positive pursuit of what they like, and never be discouraged and give up easily. Because once you miss it, you will feel regret and regret later.

But I slowly discovered that there are actually some things that your efforts will only make you more desperate.

When someone is determined to leave, he will not take into account your retention and your feelings, leaving seems to be something he has to do, and no one can stop him. The excuses he says, no matter how good your words are, he can still find the gaps. He doesn't need you to give him promises, and he doesn't need you to give him much hope, because he wants to go, not because of anything, but just because he wants to go.

I've also been stupid, stupid enough to trust a person unreservedly and put all my love on him. I thought that he would not leave in this way, at least not to leave easily. It's just that sometimes other people's attitude towards you does not depend on how good you are and how much you love him, the key is how deep his love for you is, and then decide whether to stay by your side and accompany you.

Previously, I believed in commitment. I think we are all adults, and we don't blurt out words for a long time, but think about them carefully. However, the heavens say that it changes, because you can see it.

But people change, without any warning, and they suddenly turn their faces, no matter what you have experienced. For their own interests, people are so cruel.

Having said all this, I don't want you to be negative all the time, but I want to tell you that in fact, we are all the same, living in the same society, under the same sky, and your experience is not your experience alone, but too many people have also experienced this. You don't have to feel unfortunate either, it's not a punishment from God, it's everyone's the same, they go through these ups and downs.

Every encounter that God arranges for us has a purpose, and it is to bring us an unforgettable time. Whether it is the people who have been with you all the time, or those who have left, there is a wonderful fate in this, and this feeling has some very subtle feelings. Our life is not so ordinary and simple, there will always be some experiences that teach us to grow up, bring us joy and pain.

At the moment, if you are still sad about those who don't know how to stay, remember not to dig your own hole and jump on your own. You need to get out of the cage you have set up so that you can face this world freely. Sometimes, you can't have it, it's really those people who don't belong to you, don't dwell on it, and don't have too much hatred for others.

After all, life is sometimes like this, gaining is inevitably owning, and losing is not necessarily regretting!

Actually, I'm worse than you, after all, I've been betrayed by my beloved! I also wanted to give up, I wanted to die and forget, but I still couldn't! Because there are thousands of reluctances, thousands of points can't be left behind, because he is your favorite!

I still love him, and I still haven't separated from him!

I know you want to give up, even to lose your high object to this memory! Friend, you are wrong, don't forget, since you choose to love him, since you treat him as the person you love the most, why should you give up, if you really love, it is very difficult to give up, I know, that kind of giving up is more sad than death, escaping is not the solution, love him to insist, love him to not want to reciprocate. Really loved, really hurt, if there is still a little love, I say seriously, don't give up easily!

I know that love can make people die and live, but I want to say that since you love deeply, you must tolerate it, and you must tolerate it when it happens, because you love him, and you love him by yourself.

If one party doesn't love it, let it go, because love is very tiring, and it hurts more than Qi Jianye falling in love. But don't give up on the other party, if you want to forget, just treat him as the person who knows him best, and be friends with him, because you love him, you love him deeply, even if you want to give up, you love it, and change it.

Then let go and see him find happiness, say it freely, I wish you happiness, I hope I and you are happy, I hope we will always be friends, best and best friends!

If you don't want to be a friend, then let it go, let yourself hurt, and it hurts well, maybe it will get better slowly, but I tell you seriously, don't give up if you have love, think it's difficult to love someone, and it's even harder to give up people!

Friend, think about it.

An unforgettable love doesn't mean that you can forget it.

If it is really irretrievable, you can only give up and bless the other party.

It's me, I just won't give up, I don't want to escape, I can't live without you.

The last train - Xiaogang.

Lyrics: I just don't know how to be gentle enough to understand you.

In the end, our love hit rock bottom.

It's too late to regret turning your back on yourself.

Stubbornly left in the opposite direction.

I just won't give up, I don't want to escape, I can't live without you.

I had to let the loneliness sink into my heart.

In the silence of the night, your face is distinctly clear.

The silent carriage was filled with cold air.

Catch the last train.

I'm going to leave you.

is still nostalgic for the past and sad.

Force yourself to erase your memory.

The imprint on the ticket.

How long will it take for the engraved memories to fade?

An embarrassing journey.

Packed luggage.

Strongly emerge in front of the eyes.

I just don't understand gentleness, not delicate enough to understand you.

In the end, our love hit rock bottom.

It's too late to regret turning your back on yourself.

Stubbornly left in the opposite direction.

I just won't give up, I don't want to escape, I can't live without you.

I had to let the loneliness sink into my heart.

In the silence of the night, your face is very clear.

The silent carriage was filled with cold air.

The imprint on the ticket talks about the sails.

How long will it take to fade the memories of the hail.

An embarrassing journey.

Packed luggage.

Strongly emerge in front of the eyes.

I just don't understand gentleness, not delicate enough to understand you.

In the end, our love hit rock bottom.

It's too late to regret turning your back on yourself.

Stubbornly left in the opposite direction.

I just won't give up, I don't want to escape, I can't live without you.

I had to let the loneliness sink into my heart.

In the silence of the night, your face is very clear.

The silent carriage was filled with cold air.

I just don't understand gentleness, not delicate enough to understand you.

In the end, our love hit rock bottom.

It's too late to regret turning your back on yourself.

Stubbornly left in the opposite direction.

I just won't give up, I don't want to escape, I can't live without you.

I had to let the loneliness sink into my heart.

In the silence of the night, your face is very clear.

The silent carriage was filled with cold air.