70 kilometers away from each other, is it reliable to get married?

It's only 70 kilometers, and if you get married, you can't be an obstacle at all. Now that the transportation is so developed in various places, basically the family must buy a car after getting married, 70 kilometers, if you drive yourself, the drive is about an hour. If there is a high-speed train, it will not even take an hour, but a little more than half an hour to arrive.

So if two people are 70 kilometers apart, it doesn't seem to me to be a different place at all.

Like I have a friend who gets along with his wife in a different place. My friend is a teacher, and his wife is a doctor. At first, the two of them were in the same city, but then my friend was admitted to the teaching establishment in a foreign country, and asked his wife, who felt that this opportunity was rare, so she chose to let him work in the field.

Like my friend, he now drives home every Friday after school, which takes about three or four hours. Stay at home for two days, wait until school starts on Monday, and then go back to school. Now he and his wife have continued to live in this state of life for more than a year, and there have been no major conflicts and disputes between the two because of this.

It may also be like the old saying that Xiao Biesheng is newly married, and now the relationship between the two of them is really getting better and better, which makes everyone very envious.

So if you just think about the distance, I think it's perfectly fine. As long as the two of you love each other and are willing to bear this little trouble for each other, then the 70 kilometers can be crossed over completely. But if even these 70 kilometers are to be counted as the first obstacle for two people to get married, then I feel that what you need to carefully consider is not the distance, but the relationship between the two of you.

There is no such thing as unreliable marriage, basically as long as you get a marriage certificate.

This matter is a certainty, but it may take an hour to drive for 70 kilometers in a different place, and you need to carefully consider the choice for long-distance love and marriage.

I remember that I was in a long-distance relationship at the beginning, at that time maybe I was curious and fresh, maybe I liked it, I remember that at that time, I often rested alone, and took a car between Wuxi and Jiangyin, just to see him, I was very excited to see him at that time, but after a long time, I slowly didn't want to run, and I didn't want to see him so much, just like the feelings suddenly faded, or I was tired of sitting in the car, long-distance love is the same as marriage, I felt very happy at the beginning, But every day, when you run to a distance of 70 kilometers to see him every day or every rest day, after a long time, the feeling of happiness and happiness at the beginning will fade, and the rest is that you are tired of seeing him so tired every rest day, and gradually you will start to be dissatisfied with the status quo, and then there will be small complaints in your heart, and finally you will complain to each other and quarrel constantly.

Long-distance marriage is really not good, it's not that it's unreliable, I remember a friend told me that long-distance marriage requires a man to be loyal enough, the key is that sometimes distance produces not beauty, it's distance or betrayal, for women, long-distance marriage requires you to be like a woman, a person can keep lonely, and you have to learn to load light bulbs, and even carry bottles of water, these things in life can only be solved by yourself, so long-distance marriage is not reliable, If you can persist and he is willing to stick with you, you can try, but as a person who has come over, I want to say that long-distance marriage requires courage and perseverance, and if there is no need, don't fall into it, because in a long-distance marriage will consume your waiting and expectations.

Personally, I think long-distance marriage is particularly unreliable, for the following reasons.

If two people want to be together for a long time, it takes time to run in. Only when two people are together to help each other and take care of each other will they lay a solid foundation for the future. Imagine that two people are 70 kilometers away from each other, and they can only barely maintain contact with each other by means of communication such as mobile phones every day, and they will know less and less about each other, and the two hearts will be farther and farther apart.

Trust is the key to the longevity of two people. Two people are so far away, and it is inevitable that there will be suspicions of one kind or another after a long time. Such events are not uncommon in life, and when the lover is not around, it is inevitable to have a good impression of the opposite sex when you see the opposite sex who is cold and warm to you, and I think this is normal.

In the long run, there will be problems in the relationship between the two people. Two people falling in love and getting married are not the same, falling in love is still relatively free, and marriage means that the relationship between two people has a further certainty, marriage is a decision made after careful consideration, which involves two families, not simply two people's business. If you really plan to live in a different place after marriage, you really have to think about it clearly, be responsible for each other, and be responsible for both parents.

Marriage is to have an explanation to each other, marriage is to have two people live together, both of them are separated, how can they live? In the long run, children will be born soon after marriage, and if two people are really 70 kilometers apart, what will happen to the children? Is it to make the child lack father's love or mother's love?

Afraid to let the child be a left-behind child from an early age and follow the grandparents?? I believe that this is not something that parents want to see. To sum up, the remote place is really unreliable, think twice!

Of course, it is reliable, in today's highly developed transportation, is 70 kilometers away from another place considered a different place? My husband and I are 2,000 kilometers apart, we have been married for five years, and our lives are still very happy and sweet. True love can transcend distance.

I think it's reliable, in the face of true love, distance is not a threat and obstacle at all, so love must be brave to love, don't retreat because of distance.

Reliable, as long as there is a relationship between the two and they are willing to live together, being in a different place is not a permanent obstacle.

I don't think it's a long way off, and even if you can't be together during working hours, you can spend it together on weekends.

It's not very reliable, see if there is a way to transfer jobs, there is always someone who has to make some sacrifices.

Personally, I think it's unreliable, since your boyfriend will have many problems in the future, you must not give up your job, let him give up if you want to be together, girls will always be victims, think more about yourself. I was in love with my ex-boyfriend for five or six years, and finally he was admitted to the civil service in a different place, and we broke up, I said it was very good, I said that I wanted me to give him a year, and I gave up my job to find him when he mixed up, and I believed it, and I thought that I would give up, but he went to work in less than half a month and we broke up, and I felt that my efforts were really not worth it.

I can say that, just because he doesn't love you enough, don't quit your job, girls generally give up everything, go to the side of the man, and the success rate of the man is very high.

Very unrealistic. How will you live in the future? Have you ever seen a family that doesn't see each other all day? Not to mention 400 kilometers, 100 kilometers are mysterious. Of course, the final choice is yourself, let's not do the thing of breaking up the mandarin ducks.

400 km ......Let's move the work together decisively.

It's good to be in love in a different place, but I don't feel reliable when I get married, my sister-in-law's sister and brother-in-law are a civil servant in Nanjing and a civil servant in Changzhou, and I'm divorced before....

It feels unreliable, my partner and I are separated by most of China, and no one in my family agrees.

Not very reliable... The small edges and corners of life are sharpened, the emotional shelf life, and so on.

My husband and I are in the same situation, civil servants in different places, in love for three years, got married last year and are now waiting for the birth of the baby. There is nothing that can't be, who said that love should be defeated by reality!

Let's test the other party's civil servants, it's not good to get married in a different place, otherwise the woman will resign, and resignation is not a big deal.

It's really not good to be in a different place, my aunt and uncle are, and now my uncle is estimated to have found another girl.

Get married first and then talk about other things, why think too much about some things. Take the first step, and there will be a second step.

If you really think it's suitable, be decisive, civil servants can take the exam again, and people are not the same.

It's only 400 kilometers, and my wife crossed a distance from China to get to my side, as long as I find a way, there is always hope.

If you love it, you will resign, if you don't resign, you won't have enough feelings, okay, what will happen if you don't have a deep relationship in a different place?

If both of them are civil servants, depending on their family background, they are digressed, are they related to their families, and is there any possibility of being transferred?

The feeling that your boyfriend treats you like a spare tire, and seriously, a guy's heart doesn't stay on one person forever.

As long as it's a province. Let's flatten. If it's not a province, then break up peacefully.

It's not that you have a soft personality, it's that you don't have responsibility.

This kind of thing is discussed, and you can bring a pair and break up a pair.

You will only know if you try it, or you will regret it.

Since your friends don't have a good feeling, don't force yourself.

Since he cares about his father's feelings, he is a filial son.

Since he is a filial son, and he is working, an adult, he should have a girlfriend, since he thinks she is too far away, he is very sensible, and he has to visit his father-in-law and mother-in-law every New Year's Day, which is too far away, and it is inconvenient.

So, if there is no suitable one and you like, go on a blind date, go on a blind date, let my sister die with her, and let my father feel at ease.

Filial son, do you still need help?

There are no absolutes in anything. And when you get married, you can call him your daughter, and you will be together. Just start a business together or go to work.

Is a long-distance relationship reliable? The key is whether you can come together at the end of the day. If you can be reliable in one city, if you are not in one city, you are just having fun.

There is nothing unreliable about a long-distance relationship, just a dinner between the two places, this is two people who don't know each other very well. After getting married, I will definitely get to know each other slowly.

Hello, based on your question, I don't think a long-distance relationship is necessarily reliable.

Sincerely answer for you, I hope to adopt.

Long-distance relationship is not to say that it is unreliable, it depends on the two of you, whether you love each other or not, if you love each other in your heart, even a long-distance relationship can also achieve positive results.

As long as you love each other sincerely, it doesn't matter if it's reliable or not, if that person really loves you, he will abandon everything.

I think it may be a little unreliable to get married in a long-distance relationship, but if you love each other very much, a long-distance relationship is okay.

The basic premise of a little marriage is that you must understand each other and each other's family conditions and personalities, so understanding is the most important thing.

It depends on your feelings, don't be reluctant if you don't have feelings, and long-distance relationships are okay if you have feelings.

This should depend on you, whether the relationship is difficult or not, if so, you can get married.

I don't think a long-distance relationship marriage can be said to be unreliable, the main thing is that you don't have feelings for this person and you don't like him.

It's also normal to get married in a long-distance relationship, and if you really love each other, I don't think there's anything wrong with it.

You have to see if people are reliable, and then don't just think about money.

Long-distance relationships are a very unreliable thing, and there is no real marriage due to long-distance relationships.

What's not reliable. Most people who are in love are in long-distance relationships. In this way, it can be tempered, and the relationship will be stable.

Long-distance marriage is a bit unreliable, especially if you meet through the Internet.

Since there is no good feeling, there is no heartbeat feeling, and it is a long place, so it is better not to get married as soon as possible.

There is nothing wrong with long-distance marriage itself, the problem is whether two people are enough to love.

Very few people end up in long-distance relationships. It's basically unreliable.

Long-distance relationship, cultivating a positive result, is very difficult.

The natural barrier formed by a long-distance relationship will make many things impossible to do, and many thoughts cannot be solved even if they meet, and the long-distance relationship of ordinary couples will have to wait for a long time to meet once or twice for a short time.

If it is a short-term long-distance relationship, it is possible to maintain, but if it is a long-term long-distance relationship, it is best not to choose marriage, it is not good for each other, what two people need to be together is to rely on each other and care for each other, and spiritual love cannot last long.

This generally doesn't work, and you think about why you want to get married and what it really means. How long can you guarantee such a distance, and what does the woman think, can't your work be adjusted all the time? I would suggest that it is better not to have a long-distance relationship after marriage.

Of course, it depends on whether the relationship between you can withstand loneliness and testing. And then there's how long you've been like this. The child will not be missing anything.

Not being able to be together for a long time will definitely affect the relationship. and prone to extramarital affairs. When the two are not together, they can only rely on language to follow the relationship, and there will be a lot of things that cannot be told to each other, or deliberately not told each other, causing a lot of residual problems, and finally extramarital love will be the direction of emotional sustenance.

It is best to live together, so that there is a way to share joys and sorrows, solve together, and communicate in a timely manner, which is easier to manage feelings and maintain love. Happy and comfortable living conditions.

Hmph, let me tell you, there will be a divorce.

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After getting married, there is a long-distance relationship, which is difficult to get lovesick.

Question: I'm not married, I'm going to marry a girl, and my family doesn't agree that we're both working in two different counties.

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That's too far.

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I love her too, and she loves me too.

has been in a different place, and it will definitely be shaken after a long time.