Under what circumstances do people become more and more na ve?

I think people will become more and more naïve in the case of love, because they may think that someone will spoil them and will always protect them, so that they can live carefree, or it may be because they like to be their true self in front of what they like, and they don't have to be so tired to express themselves.

Generally, when you fall in love, you will become more and more naïve, because you want to show your cute side in front of the other party as much as possible, and then the person who is in love is easy to lose her mind, and she will become more and more naïve.

When you know that you can have this capital to be spoiled by others, you will be spoiled more and more naïve, or there is a person who is infinitely spoiled, and then, knowing that you can't finish this, you will indulge yourself and become more and more naïve.

Maybe when someone pampers you, when someone spoils you, you will be unscrupulous, and you will not be bothered by the trivial things of life, and then you will become more and more naïve, but someone pampered you will not think you are naïve.

As a person grows older and has more social experience, his perception of things will become different, and his personality will also change. Objectively, it is the influence of the social environment you are in, because once people cannot change the surrounding environment, they will gradually adapt to this environment, and your personality will change unconsciously.

One is in front of their parents, girls will always be coquettish in front of their parents, and they will be the same as children, and the second is when they fall in love, people say that love makes people stupid, I think this is true, many people are extremely naïve when they are in love, especially boys, like children when they are in love, but in fact, they are very mature, and they can only say that love is strong and family affection is warm.

When people meet the person they really love, they will become more and more naïve, because the person they really love must also be a person who loves themselves, and no matter how much someone loves them, people will become more and more naïve.

Everyone will be more or less naïve, when they are with people they trust, they will feel very down-to-earth, and then they will become a little naïve inexplicably, because they are more open to people they trust.

Most people will become more and more naïve in the face of feelings, and when I get to the time of feelings, they are overwhelmed, and when they fall in love with someone, they will do everything they can for the other person.

The way of thinking is not reasonable.

Sometimes, even with the accumulation of rich knowledge and broad horizons, people's thinking will still often be superficial, which is related to the way of thinking.

The accumulation of knowledge, as well as the broadening of horizons, can play a decisive role in the depth of a person's thinking, without which they can only be superficial.

The biggest difference between maturity and naivety is the mindset. The more naïve a person is, the more they have the following thinking patterns. After the age of 30, quit the four kinds of thinking, and the road of life will be wider and wider!

1. Cynical and unaccustomed to all kinds of things.

Some people say that maturity is a sign even if you learn to be "sleek" in life. "Sleek" here is not a derogatory term, not to say that it must be flattering and flattering, but to use a tactful way to make both parties more comfortable.

Some people are immature in their thinking, and they still call themselves "angry youths", they like to raise the bar, scold the sky and the air, and they don't know if they offend people. After the age of thirty, we must learn to look at things more tolerantly, even if we are not used to seeing what others do, we must learn to tolerate and treat them in a smooth way, so that we can meet the source and not offend others.

2. Being stubborn and not listening to other people's opinions.

This kind of person is self-centered in everything, blindly confident in his own ideas, and dismissive of other people's suggestions and opinions. Self-confidence is a virtue, but blind self-confidence is conceit.

If you are a threesome, you must have my teacher. On the way we grow up, everyone is the object of our learning, parents, teachers, friends, colleagues, ......Although their advice may not be correct, it is also of high reference value. The authorities are confused, and the bystanders are clear.

Thinking from their perspective may lead to a different way of thinking.

Third, only care about throttling, do not understand open source.

This kind of person only thinks about saving money all day long, but never knows how to open up more channels to make money. But no matter how frugal you try, why can't you save money? In fact, this account is easy to calculate, if you have a fixed monthly income, no matter how much money you save, it will not exceed your income.

For people with a large pattern, instead of thinking about how to save money, it is better to find ways to make more money. Therefore, they are willing to invest in themselves and learn more skills to improve themselves. is also willing to try more areas, so Chai Xiang has the opportunity to be the first to eat crabs.

4. Lack of sense of independence and like to rely on others.

This kind of person relies on others for everything, obeys the orders of his parents since he was a child, and lives according to their arrangements step by step, and develops a bad habit of lacking a sense of independence and liking to rely on others.

Know. Everyone thinks I'm very naïve, how can I make myself?

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I want to change my naivety and become mature.

1. Know how to empathize We have all experienced such a thing: because of something and family, friends or colleagues quarrel, both sides say that they are reasonable, and refuse to give in, and in the end can only end in a quarrel. A very important reason why there will be quarrels is that they do not think from the other party's point of view, do not know their true thoughts, just blindly adhere to their own opinions, and cannot listen to different opinions and opinions.

2. Learn to manage your emotions My former boss would lose his temper almost every time he had a meeting, and as long as others had different opinions, he felt that everyone was targeting him, and then refuted it loudly, which made everyone speechless. The sign of a person's maturity is to be able to manage their emotions well, whether they encounter happy things or unpleasant things, they will not let their emotions affect their work and life.

1) Calm yourself down for a few seconds, and then think of a solution, because people often make irrational decisions and behaviors when they are impulsive, which can hurt the harmony between colleagues and friends, and at worst cause heavy losses. When you calm down, you will be able to analyze and think about problems objectively, and then come up with better solutions.

2) Engaging in high-intensity exercise can help us de-stress and release our emotions. Whenever I'm in a bad mood, I choose to run a few kilometers to fully immerse myself in high-intensity exercise, and after the workout, the biggest emotions disappear and then return to normal.

In short, you need to work your own, and you can't succeed all at once. It's the same thing when we started to learn to eat and walk when we were children. Therefore, you need to slowly explore and learn to do better.

A simple life is the most enjoyable, a carefree life is what everyone pursues, but as you grow older and face pressure, a simple life is a dream that is difficult to pursue. When they were young, many people were full of childishness, so they were carefree, dependent on others, protected by others, and when they grew up, they needed to mature and act as an umbrella for their family.

There are always people who are absolutely mature when they reach their age, but in fact they are not, there are many characteristics of maturity, and the following one is not reached, but it is just what you think of as a "false maturity" state.

1) Know what you want to do, not what others want me to do.

A self-conscious being is able to be aware of the activities of one's own heart, and one is always aware of what one is doing and why one is acting the way it is, and is more aware of "who I am" and "how I relate to other people".

Article**1 When you have a clear choice of what you want to do, you have a clear goal, instead of being led by others and watching others do what they do. An act based on the psychology of comparison will only make you spend your life in vanity, but you don't know what kind of life you really want. However, unfortunately, many people like this kind of comparison life, and like to have a sense of superiority over others in something.

2) Always think that emotional problems affect their decision-making.

Many people think that they are very mature and can handle related affairs well in daily life, but when they encounter problems, they are chaotic, and they are easy to fall into the emotions they give themselves and cannot extricate themselves, and even be dominated by emotions.

Article**2 Truly mature people will not be controlled by emotions, they know how to make decisions when they are most conscious, not because of emotions and impulsiveness, and then produce additional emotions such as self-blame and regret.

Truly mature people will make a decision only after seeing one thing clearly, rather than making one-sided decisions, just like Internet trolls, who think they can see everything clearly and grasp the truth, but in fact they are just the tip of the iceberg and are deceived by others and used as a gun.

Therefore, such emotions are easy to be used by others, and it is easiest to become a pawn, so you must think carefully in the future, don't be an ignorant and angry youth, otherwise you are just a cannon fodder, think carefully, and you have to always.

Article**3(3) always wants to prove that you are superior to others, and always wants others to think that they know a lot.

There is a kind of person who only lives in his own world, and attributes all the successful choices in the world to their own credit, and attributes their failures to the outside world.

Whether it's right or wrong, you must be brave enough to admit what you have done, accept it if you are wrong, and continue to work hard if it is right. In this era, especially in enterprises, once you make a mistake, you will deduct your wages and fire you, so many people have developed a good habit of fighting for profit and escaping from disaster.

However, you must face your mistakes head-on in order to avoid being tormented by your conscience.

We always see that there are a lot of local tyrants in society, or many people talk about it in public, especially children, which makes people feel very naïve. When they grow up, they will find out that they are actually really naïve, but they are.

Talking less and doing more has to do with experience.