Ahn Jae hyun s marriage has finally come to an end, how is a good marriage maintained?

In a good marriage, while getting to know your partner, you should first get to know yourself, or you need to establish complete emotional values.

Judging the value of a good or bad marriage relationship should not be based on the comparison of other things, if you compare it, then there will inevitably be asymmetry in your relationship, unequal love not only refers to different family environments, different wealth status, or different people's life experience, it has the possibility of existence in all aspects. Once you compare all aspects of a relationship, any asymmetry is not the point, the point is the asymmetry that comes from your heart.

Man himself is a complex animal, human emotions will be lost with time, time passes, vicissitudes, who can guarantee whose life, feelings, thoughts will not change? There are also advantages and disadvantages to emotional change, and people who are strong-willed will ferment at the same time as their feelings deteriorate, and after fermentation like wine, their feelings will be more pure and better, and people who can't stand bad thoughts will naturally be close to ink and black. And what you have to do is to slowly understand the preciousness of life.

In a marital relationship, there is no complete who is right and who is wrong, who is good and who is bad, this is completely a person's subjective judgment, the real problem between you and him is not that you are objectively good or bad, but in his opinion that you are not good enough, so you can't attract him and impress him. But you have to know that it's not your fault, and you don't have to blame yourself.

In a relationship, it is normal for us to not be able to reach a consensus, and all we can do is control ourselves for the slightest change in others, however, this does not mean that we have lost ourselves completely. The essence of love is to complete itself, marriage is a higher level of gift, not to fill each other with another missing soul, with self-awareness, it is possible not to be possessed by the outside world, in order to be relatively free, in order not to be actively or passively compared, to be objectified.

A good marriage should be maintained by both husband and wife, and they should be considerate of each other's shortcomings and tolerate some of each other's mistakes.

Marriage needs to be maintained, and in this it requires the joint efforts of both parties, no matter what happens, they must work together to spend it, and they must understand each other and support each other in life, so that they can go further.

Husbands and wives should know how to cherish fate, respect and understand each other, discuss more in case of problems, and strive to create a warm family environment.

A good marriage is maintained by two people who trust each other, take care of each other, support each other, and communicate with each other frequently.

A good marriage should be mutually beneficial, and at the same time, we should be considerate of each other, accommodate each other, and when we encounter difficulties, we should spend them together, and share everything that is beautiful, so that we can live a lasting and beautiful life.

He divorced South Korean actress Gu Hye-sun. Both of them are relatively well-known and very popular in the local area, but between them. It's a pity that this relationship didn't last long before it came to an end.

Gu Hye-sun. can only say that the two of them are too inappropriate, and time will always dilute their feelings, so the incompatibility of their personalities is very obvious at this time.

Ahn Jae-hyun and Goo Hye-sun divorced. The two of them had the news of their marriage change before this, and now they are also breaking up unhappily.

Gu Hye-sun, because the two of them have inappropriate personalities, so it will lead to divorce, which is also a very normal thing.

fell in love because of filming acquaintances, and when the love was strong, they showed their affection to the world crazily, and the resources of the husband and wife soared because of the relationship. But while the popularity is growing, it will inevitably face the problem of gathering less and leaving more, and the celebrity couples who can't take care of work and love eventually part ways, but they have a lot of trouble because of the right and wrong in loveThis is familiar"Script"This time it happened to Goo Hye-sun and Ahn Jae-hyun.

A few days ago, Goo Hye-sun posted a chat record with his husband Ahn Jae-hyun on social platforms, and said that Ahn Jae-hyun is a husband who wants to divorce in a period of love fatigue, and he is bent on saving his marriage, but to no avail。Goo Hye-sun said that Ahn Jae-hyun will issue a press release announcing the divorce next week, but many of the contents are not true, and I hope everyone can believe her. But what I want to say is that if you don't love it, you don't love it, and it won't help you to redeem it.

Gu Hye-sun also posted part of his chat record with Ahn Jae-hyun, which shows that Ahn Jae-hyun said to Gu Hye-sun that he wanted to solve the divorce problem as soon as possible, and "New Journey to the West" also learned about the situation. In the chat log, Goo Hye-sun asked Ahn Jae-hyun how to explain to his mother, and Ahn Jae-hyun has always been evasive, but the idea of divorce has never wavered.

In the content of Goo Hye-sun's public text messages with Ahn Jae-hyun, Ahn Jae-hyun also mentioned that he had informed "New Journey to the West" about his divorce report in advance, but refused to apologize to Goo Hye-sun's mother in person, which convinced many fans that he regarded work as more important and completely destroyed his image of an affectionate and good husband in "New Journey to the West" in the past. them"Tear each other down"The divorce declaration is almost the same as the Shuangsong couple who announced their divorce in a high-profile manner.

It shows that he is a complete scumbag, and he used to pretend to be a favorite wife.

It shows that this person's character is too bad, and he can't get together and disperse well in divorce!

I think it shows that he is a scumbag and extremely irresponsible for his marriage.

What does it mean? It shows that it has nothing to do with others, and other people's own housework.

I really can't stand getting married and divorced, and I can't wait to tell the whole world if I'm tired.

It shows that some women's crazy various actions can only be exchanged for heart death in the end.

If you leave, you will leave, there is nothing wrong with being a couple, why should you be friends if you can't be a husband and wife.

What does it mean, if you get divorced, you can live by yourself.

Where there is oppression, there is resistance.

One is not in love and the other is entangled.

What can it say, this is normal.

I think he is a little haggard and more mature than before, maybe this marriage has caused him a lot of damage.

Ahn Jae-hyun's first photo after the divorce. His current state is much different from before, without the sunshine he used to be, and he is happy.

It's not as good as it used to be. After all, the divorce turmoil still has a great impact on him, and he has been scolded on the Internet for a long time, and his state is definitely not as good as before.

In fact, Goo Hye-sun and Ahn Jae-hyun, the two of them went from sweetness to rupture, and the reason why it is whose fault is, in my opinion, there is no unique explanation many times. Because many times the relationship is a matter of two people, it is very likely that two people will be at fault in the relationship, and in the face of the fault of two people, perhaps both people do not have a unique solution, which affects the development of the relationship between two peopleWhen two people can't solve these problems, it is also very likely that there will be cracks in the relationship between two people, which will lead to the end of the marriage between two people.

Of course, many times the breakdown of a relationship is often because both parties can't tolerate each other's shortcomings, and at the same time, there may be no better way for two people to deal with their shortcomings, because I think Goo Hye-sun and Ahn Jae-hyun already belong to the kind of people who are better, and their characteristics are also relatively distinct. But often people are not perfect, perhaps the breakdown of two people's feelings, and the unsweetness of marriage are precisely because there is no way to tolerate these shortcomings of two people. There's no way to fix it.

In fact, this is also a problem that many couples encounter in their relationships, I think we should maintain a rational attitude to face it when we encounter relationship problems, and be more tolerant appropriately, so as to make our relationship more long-lasting.

And this year, the two announced through social platforms that the two had agreed to divorce, and the relationship between the sister and brother, who were ten years apart, ended here. And what is the reason for their divorce in this marriage, and what problems should we pay attention to in marriage? This is a question worth ponderingIn every failed marriage, in my opinion, there are two people for a reason, and running this marriage should not be just a matter of one person, but two people to run it together, because life is for two people to live.

Marriage is not child's play.

So, who is right and who is wrong about the divorce of Doahn Jae-hyun and Goo Hye-sun? We can't make judgments, we don't know what kind of way they get along in their marriage, but each of us must be cautious about marriage, so sometimes in the face of problems encountered in marriage, I hope we can work harder to solve the problems, and try to tolerate each other's shortcomings as much as possible, so that the relationship between two people can be stable.

In fact, both of them are at fault, because a slap can't make a sound, and they need to reflect on each other.

Both of them are at fault, I think marriage and relationship are two people's business, and they have become a bit commercialized.

Both people are definitely at fault, and the breakdown of a marriage is never a one-person problem.

There is no right or wrong in marriage, both of them are responsible, and marriage needs to be managed by both of them.

In my opinion, if a relationship goes from sweet to broken, both people have a certain responsibility, and it is not necessarily whose fault it is.

First, we must understand each other's three views.

In fact, if two people are together, most of them are because they are unrelated, so most of the separation of two people is because of the three views, so the first point, we should really know how to pay attention to whether each other's three views are the same. Because only two people's three views are the same, or two people's three views are the same, then it is possible to get along better, when you say you want to go to the movies, the other party will not say that this is a bad thing, and the other party is willing to watch with you, willing to enjoy the joy of watching movies with you, so I think it is the best.

In fact, everyone has their own personality, everyone has their own personality, if the character of two people can not understand and tolerate each other, can not be well understood, then naturally there will be a lot of contradictions together, so if you are an acute person, and the other party is a violent person, then it is easy to cause conflicts when you are together, so there will indeed be a lot of unhappiness, so each other's personalities must be understood clearly, to see if they can tolerate and understand each other.

Third, to see if the other party is loyal?

We all know that love does need to be loyal to marriage, it also needs loyalty, if two people in the face of love, in the face of marriage can not control their hearts well, loyal to each other, then naturally prone to the possibility of betrayal, so in order to avoid such a situation, we must understand whether the other party is a particularly dedicated and loyal person, this is really very important.

You can't find half-hearted people in love, such people don't mean to be sincere. It doesn't give you a sense of security, and it is possible to be separated soon if you are together for a while.

Be sure to avoid cheating, trust is the most important thing in the wedding, and a little deception can lead to the collapse of the marriage.

You can't think about getting married urgently because of a momentary love, you have to think clearly about marriage, and you have to take into account the actual situation of two people.

Don't cheat on her, don't have intimate behavior with the opposite sex other than her, and don't dislike her shortcomings from time to time.

Women must not let themselves become more and more closed because they are married, so as to lose themselves, you should still have your own wonderful.

For divorce, then I think the most likely thing is that it is often seen in the entertainment industry, but is love in the entertainment industry really not credible? Let's find out together, then we can understand it.

In fact, there are indeed many partners in the entertainment industry who can't go to the end, such as Yang Mi and this Ma Yili and so on. There are so many divorce cases, so many can't find the final marriage, it is indeed difficult for us to accept it for a while, because they often have a lot of sweet words before they get married, there will be a lot of vows, and they will say a lot of shocking words, but when they divorce, it does let us see too much blood, so there will be many people who feel that love in the entertainment industry is really not credible, but I think this is only one-sided.

Because we all know that marriage has probability events, and there are also secrets to getting along and managing it. If two people don't know how to understand and tolerate and don't know how to get along, then it will naturally lead to the marriage not being able to go to the end, and it is easy to have problems, and it will also lead to both people being tired, so they have to separate in the end.

Second, Zhang Jie and this Xie Na have been in love for many years, and they are still in a pretty good relationship, and there are no scandals, so I think the love in the entertainment industry is not unbelievable, he also has true feelings.

I think the two of them lack the necessary understanding and consideration before getting married, which leads to a lot of conflicts after marriage, and there are still many long-term loves in the entertainment industry.

Divorce is very normal, because celebrities are also human beings, and their emotions will also suffer setbacks, of course, love in the entertainment industry is indeed too dirty, full of all kinds of interests, and it is not very credible.