How do dual income families cope with manual work in kindergarten?

Even if the child's parents are busy, you always have to go home, and the teacher leaves homework for the kindergarten children to say that they have six days to do it, and there will be time for you to prepare.

You can't just say that you just have children and don't care about anything.

It's an excuse to say that you are busy at work, and if you find a little time to complete your homework with your child, there must be time.

Nowadays, some parents, who work outside during the day, don't want to move after work, want to rest, or just play with their mobile phones.

I will ignore my child, but it's not good, and I spend at least an hour a day talking to my child or completing homework together.

You have to know why the teacher does this, and this is also to make the parent-child relationship better.

Do you just go to work and don't do anything else, and you don't rest?

Actually, it's not, or that you are more annoyed by the teacher's handiwork in your own heart, and you don't want to finish it, and you don't want to think about it. I don't think that's working.

Doing handicrafts with children every day can exercise children's development and growth.

Nothing can be used as an excuse to be too busy at work, if you have time to conceive a child and have a child, you won't have time to do homework with your child?

Don't you have time to sit with your family and have a happy meal? What's wrong with dual workers, it's not just the two of you who have jobs, most of the children are brought up by the elderly.

Mom and dad are also busy, but if everyone uses busyness as an excuse, how can the child's education be carried out?

You make so much money for the sake of your children, but for your children, is it the most important thing for your parents to go out and make money?

What he hopes more is that his parents can find time, even if it is ten or fifteen minutes, to accompany him to do the homework arranged by the teacher.

To be honest, there are more and more homework like this in kindergartens nowadays, and many people are complaining that teachers are shirking their responsibilities to parents, and I can only say that parents who think like this are problematic.

If it weren't for the teacher's assignments, how would you enjoy the fun time with your children?

If you don't finish your homework, when your child sees that other children are taking their homework, can you feel the loneliness, resentment, and inferiority in his heart?

First of all, I think there should be no correspondence between kindergarten manual work and what kind of dual workers.

Secondly, let's talk about my own situation. I'm a super hands-on mother, and when I was studying on my own, I never got a high score in art class because I couldn't draw well. Fortunately, we are not taking the road of special enrollment, so the results of art classes have no impact on the college entrance examination or anything.

However, since I had a child, especially after the child went to kindergarten, I was a little overwhelmed by the manual work requirements from time to time. On the one hand, my own level is very limited; On the other hand, I don't have a lot of time.

However, now there is a **, called Du Niang; There was a seller named **, who was very helpful to me.

1. Ask Du Niang.

For example, stick figure piglets, origami frogs, etc., can be found on it, and then it is relatively easy to draw a picture according to it.

2. Seek **.

In the current market, I am really afraid that I can't think of it, and I am not afraid that I can't buy it. When you need to buy something, you can search for more than 95% of the products you need.

For example, once, the child's school gave him a canvas bag and asked the child to draw. Since I and my children's drawing skills are not good, I bought the kind of bright diamonds with a good pattern directly from the Internet, and then ironed them directly on the canvas bag, and the blingbling effect was not too good.

Therefore, the key is not what level it is, let alone what kind of dual income, as long as you have the heart.

Text|Cheats Jun.

As a parent of preschoolers, I have been working hard for a long time in kindergarten.

During this time, we have a love here, and the kindergarten will open soon, according to the principal, although the class cannot be held immediately, but the children will be assigned a certain amount of homework to "enrich their life at home". How to enrich it? Doing handiwork is definitely indispensable.

To be honest, I have a big head when it comes to this "manual work". Because my baby is about to enter the kindergarten class, from the small class after the child enters the kindergarten, I am overwhelmed by the manual work in this kindergarten.

Not to mention the things to be done during the holidays, such as making moon cakes and lanterns in the Mid-Autumn Festival, making dragon boat models during the Dragon Boat Festival, and even the creation of the environment in the usual class requires parents to take their children to hand in certain "handmade works".It can't be bought yet, it must be handmade

It's hard to kill parents. As a mother, I am also doing handiwork while slandering, with the complexity of this handiwork, it is definitely impossible for children to complete it by themselves, and most of them are done by parents. So why do kindergartens still have to arrange manual homework when they know that the parents do it for them?

There's a mystery hidden in it.

Demonstrate the school's "teaching results" through manual work

Speaking of manual work, children and parents cooperate to complete it, but according to the complexity of the manual work assignedThe kindergarten can definitely guess that the parents did it, but why do they still have to decorate? That is to show the "teaching results" of the school through manual work.

A friend who teaches in a public kindergarten in the town told meIn addition to attending classes, she also has to deal with various inspections by her superiors, and in addition to daily meetings, she also has to do **, fill out questionnaires, and so on. Of course, what is taught in school is more important to show.

The teaching results in the kindergarten are pale and powerless with ** and text display alone, so it is natural to use "handmade works" to show.

You may ask, why does it have to be so complicated if the layout is simpler and the child can do it himself? You don't know about this, and it is not complicated to show "innovation", and it does not highlight the school's efforts in "innovation and reform" and "quality education".

Parents compare with each other, which leads to "involution".

In fact, it is not all the intention of the kindergarten to make the manual work extraordinarily complicated by the laughter socks. If you think about the manual work in kindergarten, you will find that they usually set a theme and let the children and parents play freely.

I also take making handmade lanterns as an example. There are only four words in the task, and how well it is done depends on the parents. If it's rougher, take a piece of paper and make a circle on the outside, and light a small candle inside to make it a lantern; For the more elaborate, the lantern should have a skeleton, and the paper surrounding the outside should be carved, described, and painted, and it should be as complicated as it should be.

It's also homework, if parents are secretly holding back a lot of energy, and want their babies to be blockbuster and shine, they don't have to make the manual complicated.

From this point of view, the difficulty of manual homework is actually increased by parents through involution.

What do you think about this? Have you ever experienced a headache with manual work? 】

Before New Year's Day, the children's kindergarten handiwork class gave me the opportunity to share with you the topic of handwork in the kindergarten.

The manual homework topic of the kindergarten is to welcome the New Year, let everyone cut window flowers and make lanterns, as the first time to do this kind of handiwork, just to buy red paper I ran twice, too thick is not suitable for cutting window flowers, too thin and not suitable for making lanterns, first take other paper to try a few times, a total of two hours to make a child satisfied with the finished product, after the completion I just want to say: "Really tired of the handicap party!" ”

Window grille lanterns. It's been a few years since the kindergarten started, and the manual work is varied:

Sandbags, eco-friendly clothing, sand paintings, sticky paintings, paper-cuts, etc., are endless.

Although it is for parents to assist their children to do it, I have to admit that the vast majority of parents still contribute, especially the preparation of various materials, which is not strong for parents or the intergenerational education, but I think the teacher's starting point is good, but many children will compare who does better, so it has also become a competition for parents.

All kinds of manual work.

However, as far as I know, there are still many parents who do not complete the manual homework for various reasons, and the teacher does not embarrass the child, so why do the teachers assign manual homework?

I guess there should be the following:

1.It is hoped that through the child's manual work, parents will know the child's progress.

2.Increase parent-child education.

3.Children's works are required for exhibitions or school competitions.

4.Exercise your child's hands-on skills.

5.It's just about giving homework.

In the face of manual homework that we don't know where to start, what can we do as parents?

1.Learn from experienced people, such as joining various mom groups, parenting**, etc.

2.Learn from the experience of others online, there are all kinds of good and bad experiences online, and you need to screen them well.

3.Ask the teacher for advice, some parents may not be able to do this, always feel afraid that the teacher will laugh and they don't understand, in fact, I believe that the teacher is willing to explain to you.

4.Make a simple version of the crossover.

5.I really didn't have time or didn't know how to do it, so I had to pretend to forget, and the teacher apologized verbally when I asked, which was really helpless.

What better advice do you have for the manual homework class assigned in kindergarten?