Why do parents have such deep love for their children

Because the purity of the child touches the purity of the parents' hearts, they can feel the true self from the child; Because in the days when they are raising their children and spending time with them, they devote the most attention and dedication, in other words, the purest emotions and voluntary material expenditures. At a certain time, it will not be possible to open this sustenance.

Selfless, a parent's love for their children is unreserved love from the bottom of their hearts!

Because they give the most energy and thought to the child.

In fact, it is not so easy to be a parent. When we were younger, they were worried that we didn't know how to do things, when we were a little older, they were afraid that we were doing something wrong, and when we were older, they started to worry about our future. That's who they are.

Sometimes their love makes us feel incredibly stressed. Fear of failing them, or even feeling tired because of their deep love. But let's be more understanding and understanding of parents.

They also have such deep love for our good. We cannot do without the love of our parents.

The love of fathers and mothers for their children can be said to be wholeheartedly dedicated to their children. Parents are always worried about whether they are giving enough to their children and never question whether their love for their children is excessive. Many parents don't realize that sometimes excessive love can also be a burden on their children.

A friend once told the story of a relative of his family. She has an older brother, the family conditions are average, and her parents are ordinary working people. This brother usually has mediocre academic performance and no outstanding performance.

Occasionally, her brother took the first place in the class, and the adults in the family were very happy to find out. I feel like my child will achieve a lot in the future. I urge them to study hard every day, telling them that I will give up on you if I sell the iron in the pot.

Usually don't worry about anything else, just study with peace of mind, and leave the rest to your parents.

But her brother, because of his parents' efforts, feels a lot of pressure and often worries about the situation of his parents and family. He was afraid that his parents would really "sell iron pots" for himself, in case he could not meet his parents' expectations and would not be able to face it. Under this heavy pressure and worry, not only did he not achieve better and better grades as his parents expected, but his grades were not as good as before, and his mentality was very anxious.

We can understand the ardent hope and love of parents for their children, even if they eat bran vegetables, they should give their children the best. Pin all your unattainable hopes and expectations on your children.

1.Let the child be too stressed, and the parents' love for "selling iron in the pot" is often attached to the child with unattainable hopes and expectations. Parents' high expectations can put a lot of pressure on their children, and they can hurt them far more than their parents' love.

Children can become vulnerable. Once something doesn't meet the expectations of the parents, it can lead to deep guilt and guilt that can easily overwhelm the child. Or because the burden is too heavy, they have a rebellious mentality, and use rebellious behavior to get rid of the pressure and burden on themselves.

This is something that parents don't want to see.

2.Let the child lack a "sense of boundaries" Parents blindly focus on their children and pay for their children, which may make children lose their "sense of boundaries". Omnipotent parents tend to raise incompetent children.

Parents' meticulous care and care for their children, leaving all resources to their children, will give children the illusion that they deserve it. And this illusion of lack of "sense of boundaries", after the child leaves his parents to care about society, there is nothing to hide in front of everyone, loser.

After all, it's still a child.

If the love of parents is too heavy, it will bring certain psychological pressure to the growth of children, and even produce rebellion and fear, which will affect the development of children's physical and mental health. I think that parents are the most beloved relatives of children, and don't let love become a burden, crush children, or even betray relatives.

Some people say that the best parental love is to be able to watch the child drift away, that is to say, the love of parents should be able to make the child independent and form a perfect personality. If the parent's love is too heavy, it can leave the child immature, lose independence, feel controlled, lose control over his or her own life, be depressed, and fail to experience a sense of accomplishment.

If the parent's love is too heavy, it will give the child a very bad impression that he is wearing physically and mentally, for example, it will make the child live a very depressed life every day, and it will make the child dare not express his true thoughts.

After doing this, the child will not rely too much on his parents, will make the child lose his hobby for interests, and will not dare to express his thoughts when he grows up, without friends, the child's emotions will become very sensitive, and will always be very dedicated to feelings, but will be hurt.

Heavy love will lead to a lot of pressure in the child's heart, and the personality will also be depressed, and after a long time, there will be some mental illness, and it will be difficult to live a good life.

Parents' love for their children is innate, unconditional love, which is to love and nurture children, provide children with the best possible living conditions and educational resources, and let children grow up healthy and happy, hoping that children can have a better future. Parents' love for their children is the same because children are the blood inheritance of their parents, they are all descendants of their parents, and there is a natural blood relationship between their parents. Parents' love for their children is not reciprocated, their idea is to raise their children to become useful people in society, and at this point the parents' goals are the same, which also indirectly shows that the parents' love for their children is the same hole or deep.