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Anonymous users2024-02-10Be polite, talkative, and complimentary.
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Anonymous users2024-02-09I think everyone has their own understanding of whether or not to trouble others.
Regarding this issue, I heard that there was a program dedicated to discussion, and each side had a debate position, and everyone told their own reasoning.
Many people who have parents who care about their children's education or who live a meticulous and observant life may feel that it is a virtue to do their own thing well and not to trouble others, and many people are indeed guided by this concept to live independently, financially independently, and live well. There are also people who think that what is there to trouble others, we all need to communicate, we need to care about the meaning of a good interpersonal relationship, it is related to our mental health and the lubrication of life relationships, it troubles others, nourishes the relationship, and everyone strengthens the friendship with the help of the relationship.
However, I am not writing this article to establish my own point of view and find an argument to illustrate, I want to say that with the help of such an opposing point of view, to see the two sides of our own thinking, we can see more than two possibilities. Didn't Fitzgerald say that one of the criteria for testing good intelligence is that one can fit two diametrically opposed points of view in one's head and live a normal life. Yes, we can actually find a reasonable explanation for it from both angles, but we are not with the mud.
In many cases, our attitude towards a matter is based on what criteria are weighed.
Just like if you feel that it is inconvenient to trouble others, you want to be responsible for your own affairs, and others do not need to bother with other people's lives, this is a kind of inner cognition, so you try not to do things that trouble others. If you feel that you are actually willing to let your heart go and give it to others to understand and accept, and you are willing to interact with people in this form of trouble, and the bonds between people occur, isn't it a kind of investment related to others. I sacrifice the price of making you feel that I am troublesome to touch you, you and I understand a little interaction in the interlacing of canine teeth paid, and we all have gains.
You see, we can't say right or wrong, and it's like the familiar truth, children are right and wrong, and there is no right and wrong in the adult world.
When we face a positive and negative look at things that have a basis, we are not to separate the results, but to give our thinking and cognition as a reference, what we want is not right or wrong, but life.
I watch many movies and television dramas in Europe and the United States, and when parents experience a child's difficult decision with their child, they often have a way like this, "Child, I can't make decisions for you, but I think I have given you the method of making decisions." There are many things in life that require you to answer with your heart. ”
This heart, in the context that we Chinese are familiar with, is it called conscience? I think it's a question that we can think about once in a while, and I think it's helpful for us to make a choice.
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