How to let go with love and trust?

It depends on the emotion you are dealing with, family, friendship, or love.

If it's family affection, then as long as you trust it enough, you can let it go. Because both parents and children will live independently, and they will leave you to face the world independently. Parents will one day watch their children grow up, and then fly away from them like a grown bird, far away to a place in the middle of nowhere, and start their own lives.

Parents can't keep their children for the rest of their lives. And so are the children themselves, they will one day grow up, they will grow up, they will become independent, they will have to take responsibility for their own lives, and in turn they will have to provide for their parents.

Therefore, if it is a parent to a child, then you must learn to give up, cut off your own reluctance, give up the worry in your heart, and leave your child. If you don't leave your child, your child will never grow up, and if you are still worried about your child, you are not trusting your child enough. Learn to believe that your children can grow up great, and they can live their lives greatly.

So that you can let go. If you are a child, then you have to learn to trust your parents, believe that your parents can stick to it without yourself, so that you can really let go.

If it's a friendship, then just tell yourself that your friend is more than just your friend, and that he can still receive help, support and encouragement from others without him, or that he doesn't like you anymore and doesn't want to be friends with you anymore. Although it is very sad, you must have a more concrete understanding of the current relationship between the two of you, otherwise you will not be able to really let go.

If it's love, then I advise you, don't let go. There is less and less true love in this world, and if you really love, then don't let yourself go casually.

Because love is precious and worthy of your cherishing, if it does not violate morality or law, then as long as it is love, you must not let go.

To let go is to let go, in fact, what feelings you have with you when you make the decision to let go no longer matter. Whether you are crying, laughing, aching, or loving, once you decide to let go, then you are alone with these emotions and feelings.

Children will run to adults and cry when they fall, and once you let go, you can only bear it alone, because no one will pay attention to you, and when you let go, what kind of emotions do you have!

It's very easy to let go with love, because unless you didn't love him before you were together, and if you get along with each other in a playful way, there is no love when you're together, let alone when you're apart!

But if you once loved, even if you don't love now, it's impossible. It is impossible to let go of this relationship, so you will definitely love him when you are separated.

Trust is the foundation of love, as long as you still love him, then you will naturally trust him to a certain extent, even if it may be because he has done something to live up to your trust, when you let go, you will still remember that he is most worthy of your trust!

Maybe life can polish out love, but life will not wear out your initial feelings for him, so even if you break up, you will still love him and trust him.

And be decisive, even if you often have tears in your eyes, so what, since you have decided to leave, there is no difference between loving and not loving, decisively leave to give yourself a decent and space, and bury your story in your heart. Use time to polish a calm state of mind, and then look back on the past, it turns out that many things are just what you once had.

What you will definitely lose should not be the object of your entanglement, love yourself well, don't drag your feet when dealing with emotional issues, you have time to reminisce alone.

When you say this, I think of my dad's tiger dad education for me again.

Although my dad was very strict with my education, he actually didn't trust me enough and felt that I couldn't do anything well, so he was so strict with me, and he didn't let me do this, and he didn't let me do that.

This summer I went to Beijing to find my sister by myself, because I really didn't want to stay with my dad all the summer, it would suffocate me, so I simply went to my sister, and my dad also thought that my sister was a very self-disciplined person, and asked me to learn from her, so I agreed.

Later, when I went to Beijing to look for a job, my sister didn't help at all, I was all alone in the upside-down, and I was deceived many times in the middle, I won't talk about this kind of deceived experience, anyway, everyone knows that when you go out to find a job, you always have to meet one or two black agents.

Later, I finally found a job, but because the boss was too black-hearted, he refused to give me a salary, and then I was very angry, and I told the family group about it, and my father was even more angry than me, and then he blamed me for why I went to Beijing, if it was by his side, such a thing would not have happened, and maybe he would give me more salary.

But I didn't say anything at the time, and I told him not to be anxious about such a thing, after all, this is my own business, and then my dad sighed and said that after reading it, he really can't keep me by his side, let me go out and break through by myself, and see what the current society is like.

So I think letting go with love and trust is to give your child enough space to play freely, don't think, they can't do this, that can't do it, let them start to doubt him before they do something, this is also a big blow to the child.

Summary. Letting go and trusting is really a parent's homework. How can we let children do these things efficiently and consciously?

Parents need to be taught by word and deed, for example, if you are a procrastinator, how can you expect your child to do things quickly? If you always rush to finish your own things at the last minute of the day and then drag your child out of the house, how can you ask your child to get things done in an orderly manner before they go out?

Letting go and trusting is really a parent's homework. How can we let children do these things efficiently and consciously? Parents need to be taught by word and deed, for example, if you are a procrastinator, how can you expect your child to do things quickly?

If you always rush to finish your own things at the last minute every day, and then drag your child out of the dry family, how can you ask your child to do things in an orderly manner before going out?

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Letting go and trusting is really a parent's homework. How can we let children do these things efficiently and consciously? Parents need to be taught by word and deed, for example, if you are a procrastinator, how can you expect your child to do things quickly?

If you always rush to finish your own things at the last minute every day, and then drag your child out of the dry family, how can you ask your child to do things in an orderly manner before going out?