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I have always experienced the feelings that are higher than friendship and lower than love, and every time I carefully maintain this ambiguous relationship, I can only wait and see, but I can't be together.
Although they are not together, they are thinking about him all the time, they will call him ** to ask him what he has for breakfast, and he will tell him that it is cold in the morning, and he will add more clothes ......As long as I can think of it, I will definitely ask him, I will take care of him, sometimes, the two of them will lose their temper because of some trivial things, but it will be reconciled again in no more than two hours, no one will say sorry, and naturally there will be topics to talk about. Every day if we don't see each other, QQ and WeChat contact, no matter how many things are around me, I will reply to his text messages as soon as possible, let him feel my existence for the first time, and he will say good night to him every day, sometimes I really don't sleep for a few hours in order to wait for his good night, and I will go to sleep when he replies.
Every relationship will end, but such a friend, there will be no reason to separate, I will not complain about him, nor will I pay attention to his circle of friends, I just need to do what I should do, whether I do it right or not, he will only consider the problem from my point of view, no matter what decision I make, he will definitely support me. <>
When I have free time with him, we will go to dinner, walk together, listen to ** together, run together, as long as there is a place for him, I am also there, the two of us can tolerate each other at any time, understand each other, sometimes I think a good relationship is better than lovers, no matter what two people experience together, it feels precious.
I have really met such a few true friends in my life, whenever I face him, I always have a grateful heart, thank you for the encounter, thank you for the experience, thank him for my inseparable companionship, thank him for always being there, let me have enough security, enough peace of mind, let me feel that every day with him is extraordinarily beautiful.
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In fact, to put it nicely, this is called friendship above love and under love, but in fact, the truth is ambiguous. And I think everybody has had that experience.
Everyone is not a saint, and I think you will definitely have such an ambiguous experience. I had such an experience when I was in high school, I had a girlfriend at the time, but there was a girl who said that she liked me, and she liked me for a long time, saying that she had liked me since junior high school (in fact, I thought it was nothing, after all, I was still young at that time, but now I think it was very good, because the feelings at that time were the purest), but at that time, I didn't dare to say, and then I broke up with my girlfriend when I was in high school, and she really confided in me, saying that she liked me for a long time. But I didn't agree to him, because I don't think our relationship has reached the point of love, I only have a good impression of her, but not only a good feeling, I always feel a little different from other friends.
We weren't together, though, but we've been in touch until now. I think the relationship between the two of us is above love, friendship is above! <>
Man is like that, a complex animal. Sometimes you can't tell your feelings for him at all, whether it's love or friendship. And people are greedy, when there is a love, if another person shows love to you, you may not want to completely reject her in your heart, so you will maintain a friendship for him, love under the feelings.
But it's not good for you to do that, because if you do it, it's likely to hurt both of you. Therefore, when it is time to make a decision, we should be subject to the chaos, and when it is time to make a decision, we must be decisive. Otherwise, you will definitely be hurt by three people in the end.
Whether you are friendship, supreme or under love, I only hope that in the future you can meet someone you love and love you. No matter what, I just hope that there are lovers in the world who can eventually become married.
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Yes, I guess my brothers and I have the same feelings.
I remember when I was in junior high school, I had a buddy who had a very strong relationship with me, and he thought about me for everything at that time, and we became good friends by chance. (Because it was his buddy who was chasing me at the time, but I never agreed to him and kept helping his brother, so over time, the two of us became good friends).
If I had a cold and fever, he would immediately buy me the medicine and send it to our class (we were not in the same class at the time). Or if I didn't go to dinner for something, he would buy the food and send it to my table, and he would scold me for not eating well.
At that time, many people thought that the two of us were in love, but both of us knew that things were not like this, because he already had a girl he liked in his heart, and I didn't have the idea of falling in love for the time being (falling in love in junior high school, after all, I was too young).
When I got to high school, I also had a very good relationship with my tablemate, my tablemate was a man, but in his eyes, he didn't treat me as a woman, he always felt that I was his good brother, he told me everything, and if I had something unpleasant in my heart, I would tell him. Anyway, the two of them are very deep revolutionary comrades-in-arms.
Until the day of the graduation party, our homeroom teacher was in our private room, and told us that he thought I was a couple at the same table as me, because the two of us were in love, and the two of us laughed directly, because we didn't expect our relationship to be so good, and it would be misunderstood by the teacher, the most important thing is that I was at the same table at the same time and fell in love with a girl in the next class, and the conversation was vigorous, and our homeroom teacher didn't know?!
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There is especially between the opposite sex and the opposite sex, there will be this kind of spark, it is normal.
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This one is similar to the high-end version of the Iron Buddy. This one is honestly dangerous and experienced.
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I think this problem is all about friendship developing into love, and there is a process quietly.
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Family, friendship and love are the most important feelings in life. There is no distinction between these kinds of feelings. However, in real life, some people think that friendship is more important than love. The reason why these people have such an understanding is because:
1. People who think that friendship is more important than love have an incomplete understanding of love and friendship.
If we have a very comprehensive understanding of love and friendship, we will come to the conclusion that both are equally important. In fact, family, friendship and love are equally important, and there is no difference between each other. The reason why those who think that friendship is more important than love have such a perception is because they do not have a comprehensive understanding of the relationship between the two, so they have a misunderstanding.
2. Because they have not experienced true love, these people think that love is not as important as friendship.
Many times, we remember what we have experienced and ignore what we have not experienced. This is the case among those who believe that friendship is more important than love. Because these people have not experienced true love, they think that love is not as important as friendship.
Such an understanding is obviously inaccurate for good rocks. When they experience true love, they will change their understanding.
3. Some people have a deep friendship, so they ignore love and think it is not important.
For some people, the reason they think friendship is more important than love is that they have a deep friendship. These people find soulmates in their daily lives, build friendships with them, and become good friends with each other. Because they have a deep friendship, they cherish it very much, and then they have a neglect of other feelings, thinking that friendship is the most important, and other feelings are not as important as friendship.
Only when they have a comprehensive understanding of all kinds of emotions can they be able to treat friendship and love and other feelings correctly.
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People who need equality, it may be difficult to find such equality in love, but friendship can.
Just because friendship is more equal than love, we will maintain an equal or relatively fair attitude in friendship. Because we're friends, we're close, but not overly close. We know that the bottom line and principle of friendship are in the **.
And love can make us lose our way. We can't be sure where love is going. In other words, we will be more confused in love. Because we love each other too much and care about each other too much, we often suffer from gains and losses in love.
When we are in love, we will be more afraid of losing. In friendship, we seem to be more relaxed. Although in any relationship, there will be elements of comparison, jealousy, and vanity, but friendship is more pure and clean than love.
In friendship, we don't interfere too much in our friends' private lives. In love, we are the opposite. We have a very tight grip on our partner's private life.
When our partner doesn't say a word properly, or if something doesn't get right, we all get angry.
In a friendship, we don't make things difficult for our friends. We will be more considerate of our friends' difficulties. When we have a friend, we struggle for a while, we feel embarrassed, and we are afraid that we will disturb the other person.
If our presence puts pressure on our friends and makes them feel embarrassed, we will not be able to go away and even find peace in our hearts for a long time. However, when we are in love, we will become a matter of course. In the name of love, we often criticize our partners and ask them to change into what they like.
In love, we will gradually forget the original intention of falling in love. The reason why we fell in love with each other in the first place was precisely because of the original appearance of each other. However, when we spend a lot of time together, we can't help but find fault with our partner.
At this time, the shortcomings and bad marks of the partner, like the beach after low tide, revealing shells and debris all over the ground. We start to find fault with our partner and demand that our partner must correct it. Otherwise, we will have a cold war, quarrels, and even fights.
When we ask our partner to do something, we don't feel guilty or uneasy at all. But when we need a friend to pour us a cup of tea, we may say thank you several times in unison.
All these emotional asymmetries will make you feel uncontrollable, unable to maintain a state of sanity and sobriety, and find that you don't like yourself more and more, so you feel that friendship is much more important than love.
In fact, whether it is love or friendship, it is the guiding light on the road of our life. We need to live on love and friendship. Let us cherish every relationship we have at this moment, water them with a sincere heart, and then reap the best fruits of life.
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I think love and friendship are important, and love lasts longer than friendship. One day after I got married, a friend came to my house to chat together, and my friend suddenly asked me: love and friendship!
Which do you choose? I thought about it for a long time and said: I choose friendship!
Friend said: Wrong. I don't understand why?
Friend explained: Love is two people who are affectionate together and have deep feelings for each other!
In addition to love, there is also affection and friendship between husband and wife! Exist. When you have a child, because the child is your own flesh and blood.
You need to be with each other for a lifetime, share weal and woe, and sleep together for a hundred years. And friendship is only a temporary friend plus brother, the relationship between husband and wife and the relationship between friends are two different things! Friends can't be with you for a lifetime, can't share weal and butter with you, and can't sleep with you for a hundred years!
Friends can be everywhere, but there can only be one love in a lifetime, and that is your wife and lover.
Friendship and love are equally important, one is not perfect, but they all need to be managed with sincerity, friendship will become a lifelong confidant, and it is very beautiful to have a good heart! If you manage love well, you will love me and be happy for a lifetime! The premise is that it must be operated with a heartplant!
Friendship, everyone values friendship, everyone's friendship has a light and heavy, the relationship between the good relationship can develop to the point of deep blood relationship, shouting when encountering things, friends and friends will show the two ribs of the knife forward, the relationship is ordinary like colleagues, neighbors can also take care of each other, help each other, human nature can also do.
Friendship and love, no matter how friendship comes first, love is second, although friendship is light and heavy, but he still has, and love, perfect family, excellent people are good, but many people's feelings once broken will not be able to make up, and then organize a new family is not to have children's love is also fake and fake, pretending, pure self-deception of the general maintenance, and the words are very tired.
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Friendship and love, I am more afraid of losing love, because love is not easy to get. Friendship can be obtained very simply, so in the face of the love that is easy to get from the bad people, I am more afraid of losing love.
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I felt that this made me very helpless, but one of the experiences of lying was in junior high school, because I didn't complete the homework assigned by the teacher, so I could only copy the answers, but when I was called to the office by the teacher, I didn't dare to admit it because I was afraid, so I said that I didn't copy the answers.
We are college classmates, just graduated this year, and we have been together for more than three years now, and we have always thought that we can always be together, but a lot has happened in the past year or so, until yesterday I found something that made me want to let go. In the past, I never had anything to do on his WeChat and QQ, looking for him last night, he replied for a long time, I think it's very strange, on his WeChat, I accidentally saw his circle of friends posted a circle of friends that only four people can see, said that he was bored after our quarrel, I can't see this circle, but there is a girl I have never seen in these four. When I saw this situation, I had a lot of thoughts in my heart, and suddenly I was very calm, maybe there was nothing wrong with him, but I wanted to be honest and single-minded, he was not such a person, we couldn't go on, and he still held on painfully, saying that there was only me in his heart, but I couldn't understand something, so what is this, is it difficult to tell me that he loves me very much but is a little lonely.
After graduating from college, entrusted by his old classmates in the army, he took his father to the school to find the school leader to issue a certificate, and after the errands were over, his father took out a cigarette, and then I opened my mouth to say that I couldn't accept it, and then he said please help me bring it to the teacher, and suddenly I didn't know what to say.
No, because I have experienced very little love, and there is always a state of no beginning and end that is very short, and in a flash, love disappears.