We are a family of three living in three cities, but I don t want my parents, is this normal?

This situation cannot be said to be abnormal, a family of three living in different cities, it may be their own work requirements, and the family of three has to be separated, if this is the case, it means that you are either taking classes outside or working outside. If this is the case, on the one hand, it means that you are now more independent and have adapted to this ability to live independently, so you think less about your parents. But if you don't want to at all, that's not good, after all, they are the parents who gave birth to you and raised you, you are away from home, and the two of them also live alone, and they must be very lonely in their hearts and miss you very much.

You say you don't want them, probably because you're so focused on something right now that you don't have time to be homesick and miss them. But deep down in your heart, you've been thinking about them.

If you have been there since you were a child, you don't want them now, it's actually understandable, after all, what children need most is the care of their parents, and have a happy childhood, and when you were young, your parents were not around, lacking parental care, and there were few memories and warm moments for them, and now you are going to school or work outside. This lack of maternal or fatherly love when you were a child, so it is easy to cause you to desire independence, and you rarely miss them, and it is normal for you to miss them.

But in either case, you should change that thinking in time, and whatever you have been through in the past, you should have a grateful heart that they are the parents who gave birth to you and raised you. Although you are not together now, as a child, you should do your best to find opportunities to get together with your parents and draw in the relationship between you. No matter how independent and successful you are outside, you must not forget that only your parents support you and worry about you behind you, and home is the warmest harbor.

After being separated for a long time, your parents must be very lonely and miss you very much, so no matter where you are or how successful you are, don't forget your parents.

I think it's normal, I live with a family of four now, but I still wish they lived in another house, I just want to live alone, I really don't want to live with my parents and relatives, as long as I have some food and drink and have a good time, I really don't care if my relatives are not around. <>

I've been thinking about it before, is it true that some people are born with a weak family affection, I think the concept of relatives in my mind is really shallow, I think it doesn't matter if everyone lives together as long as everyone is healthy and alive. There are also festivals such as the Mid-Autumn Festival, sometimes my parents will be busy with work and can't go home to spend the festival alone, they will feel very sorry for me, but I don't feel it! Anyway, I'm alone at home and no one cares about me, and I can order takeout and eat delicious food by myself, and it's not beautiful to hide at home and play computer games, so that I can live my whole life I don't care if I'm alone during the holidays.

Even if they're at home, I don't feel particularly happy, anyway, I just hide in my room after work and dinner every day. Maybe that's why the relationship between the family is not so close, as before, the family sits in the living room after eating and watches TV, maybe the family atmosphere will be stronger.

I used to think that only I would think this way, but then I accidentally mentioned it when I was chatting with a friend, and she turned out to be like this. She went to college alone, and her parents didn't live together, but she said that she never thought about home, but felt that it was more comfortable to live alone in a foreign country, without the trivial things and troubles at home. So I don't think you need to be surprised at all, this kind of thinking is normal, probably most young people nowadays are like this!

With the passage of time, we have slowly grown up and can live independently on our own, and we no longer need to seek the protection of our parents and rely on them as we did when we were children.

Although I live in a different city from my parents, the distance is far away. But we have our own life, our own independent circle. I have to socialize at work, and I have less and less contact with my parents, and I slowly forget my parents at home.

When I wasn't married, I was studying outside the home alone, and many times it took four or five months to go home. I didn't miss my parents at home like many of my classmates, and I didn't feel it as strongly. <>

Maybe I'm more independent, I've been boarding at school since I was in the fourth grade of elementary school, so I'm used to being alone outside! Sometimes I don't go home during the holidays, and I find a temporary job to earn some living expenses for myself.

It's just that I will follow what I told my parents and go back every week.

Now that I am married and have children, I miss my children very much. I finally realized that parents' feelings for their children are so deep.

Many people don't realize their parents' feelings for them at first, and when they become parents, they will really understand the meaning of the word parents. They really paid so much for themselves.

There will always be a time when everyone will leave their parents and start a family on their own. There are also many people who put all their thoughts and energy into their own small family after having their own family.

ignored the parents who gave birth to him, forgetting that he was also raised by his parents and grew up slowly from his children.

No matter how busy and tired you are now, you must always send a ** greeting to your parents.

Keep your parents in mind, no matter how far away you are, remember to visit your parents often.

Parents are getting old, don't wait until the day when the son wants to raise but can't wait, only to wake up like a dream, blame yourself for ignoring your parents...

This seems to me to be quite normal, because for example, I am alone in a foreign school, and I don't miss my parents at all, but I do miss my brother.

Let's put it this way, I actually have a very strained relationship with my parents, so there is no such thing as missing them, I went to school in other places just to get out of their clutches, and the farther away from them is the better, so I am a little away from them, and I am quite happy.

But my brother and I have a good relationship, although we have a big age difference, but he also knows that he feels sorry for my sister, so I will bring him some small gifts or snacks when I go home, but forget it for my parents.

I don't know if you're in my situation, but if you're in a similar situation to me, then I can understand your feelings and what I'm talking about.

And I think one of the reasons is that I have been separated from them since I was a child, and I have lived on campus since elementary school, and now I live alone outside the university now, so I have a strong ability to be independent, and there is no homesickness at all.

And listening to your situation, you are a family of three who are separated in different cities, right? So I can also understand your situation, maybe you have long been used to the separation of family members in different places! Like now, I'm used to only going home for winter and summer vacations a year.

But I want to say that if your parents still miss you, you still have to keep in touch with them, after all, parents will be concerned about their children. (Although my parents don't).

When you have nothing to do, you will fight with them**, and send a blessing or something during the New Year's holidays, so that they don't worry too much about you.

Of course. However, don't be too pessimistic about anything, be optimistic. Besides, when you are old, you can enter a nursing home, and the nursing home will take care of it.

It's okay in the countryside, no one does it in the city

Why don't you find a partner to have a child, and you can adopt a child! Your parents are worried about you in such a situation.

You can get married and have children so that when you die, you will have someone to protect your body.

Yes, however, when making a coffin, you should pay attention to the quality of the wifi signal inside the coffin.

It's impossible to let yourself rot.

Even if he is a lonely person, he can live well, and after he dies, he doesn't know anything, and he doesn't care if he has a coffin or not.

Isn't cremation practiced now, and there are coffins, do you have any nephews or nephews?

Now there are many means of communication, you don't need to meet, you can understand each other's situation, but the purpose of love is for marriage, if you don't meet, you can't understand all aspects of his life, whether it is suitable for you.

Including the real situation of his conduct and affairs, treatment of people and things, character and so on, it is not enough to rely on his mouth to say it.

There is also skin to skin, which is also an important way of communication between love and feelings, and don't find out until the end that the outside is strong and the middle is dry, only to say that you don't practice the silver-like wax gun head.

If both people love each other and want to be with each other all the time, I think you should talk to your boyfriend when you have time, and meeting is actually an important part of it, and you have to think about it yourself.

How can you say that? It is our greatest wish to be with our parents, not to mention that the southern climate is conducive to the illness of our parents. Don't think too much, as long as our parents are healthy, we can do our filial piety, and we can eat less money.

Confess to your parents, don't lie to them, work hard slowly, and everything will be fine! The real winners grow up step by step from the weak.

It's okay! Parents don't dislike their children.

Is it true love If so, just rent a house near work and live in it for the time being, and the two of them will save money together to buy a house and get married. Don't let your parents look down on your boyfriend.

Because you are not married, and the man lives in your house, your parents may feel that such a big person can't even solve the problem of where he lives, how can he give his daughter happiness. It is recommended that you ask your boyfriend to rent a house near your house so that the problem can be easily solved.

You have to understand your parents, even if he lives in your **, but he still has his own parents, your parents are afraid that he will take you away after living for a while

It must be an economic problem, and my mother doesn't want you to suffer, and the door-to-door son-in-law is not good, which is not conducive to later life,

If you can't live independently, how can you rest assured, understand, give up the support of your parents nearby, filial piety, such a person is not necessarily reliable! Understand.

That is, the other hardware of the man does not have or is not satisfactory to the parents.

Have you ever asked your parents if they are really just dissatisfied with the fact that your boyfriend is a foreigner?

After seeing it, be angry! Angry at you as a father! You're really not a good father!!

What do parents do for their son's future? Earn! What a slogan, for the son, for the future, to earn money! Your title and story are contradictory to your mood at this time!

From the point of view of evolution, all living beings in nature are brought up by parents and children, and what kind of grandparents bring them up?!

It's parents who give birth to children!

Look at the animal world, no matter how sinister and severe the conditions are, parents go to find food to feed their children, protect their children, and when the children grow to a certain stage, parents personally lead their children to teach their children various skills! It is practical experience to teach children how to adapt to the real environment and how to live!

Animals save food for their children for a lifetime, can children live safely to old age?! Can't store it at all! If you can't store it, it will rot, if you can't protect it, you will be robbed, if you can't arrange it, you will waste delicious food and be lazy, and if you don't adapt to the realistic environment, you will be eaten by the weak!

Now that the living conditions are better, the question of birth and rearing has degraded and forgotten instincts. The original laws of nature have been forgotten by the currency created by human beings, and various educational problems have arisen.

On the one hand, think about how the countryside where your parents are located is backward in all aspects, not as good as the city, and then the elderly, who have no vitality at an age, do not understand modern education methods, and have an introverted personality, and bring out the children will definitely be as you said, isn't that the state of an old man! Children must be lively and naughty, have their own thoughts and behaviors, the physical and mental state of the elderly is suitable for recuperation, there are such children will definitely be strictly disciplined, restricted or even controlled, and some are even punished.

Second, without parents around, children are discriminated against and bullied! Ostracized by other children. There is no substitute for parental love.

The child does not understand why he is in such a situation, how to face everything in front of him, without timely guidance, the child is afraid, escapes, gradually adapts, and changes, and his personality becomes quiet and quiet.

All kinds of things, the child will lose his own nature, and the acquired environmental influence will change!

Parents are lifelong teachers for their children! As a father, the title of your question is as if you have dedicated yourself to your son, everything is for your son, but the truth is your excuse "I don't have time to take care of him at work", and you can't earn your son's future with money in your life! It should be to teach him how to survive and create his own future!

Give your child what he needs most, not empty slogans. is realistic.

Take every step here, parents!