My girlfriend cares too much about her appearance, what if I think it s too superficial?

In my opinion, I don't think it's all a big deal. Now is an era of looking at faces, and it is normal for your girlfriend to pay attention to her appearance, you don't think your girlfriend is very superficial, now is the time to look at the appearance. So it's normal for your girlfriend to dress up well, and you have to understand that your girlfriend doesn't think it's a shortcoming.

First of all, I think you should think about it for yourself, it's not superficial. There's nothing wrong with your girlfriend grooming herself. It's just a hobby, everyone wants to dress up and go out, don't you want to dress up handsome and go out again?

It's all the same thing. So I think the biggest problem is yourself. <>

Think about it, if your girlfriend is dressed up very beautifully, won't you feel very dignified when you go out with your girlfriend? Wouldn't you feel particularly proud when your buddies complimented your girlfriend on how good she looked? So if you put yourself in their shoes, you might be able to understand.

Of course, if you care too much about your appearance with your girlfriend, you can talk to your girlfriend if it seems incomprehensible to you.

You can tell her that you already have a boyfriend, and you don't dislike what she looks like, so there's no need for him to dress himself up too carefully.

Generally, girlfriends dress up better to show their boyfriends, so you tell her that you don't dislike her and don't care about these things. I hope he doesn't have to pretend to be so deliberate. Go ahead and say it, and I'm sure she'll understand you.

Today's society is a society that pays attention to appearance, and it is a society in which external image and temperament affect people's overall image. Therefore, it is not wrong for a girlfriend to pay attention to her appearance, because paying attention to her appearance can always make a complete interpretation of her own image, which is conducive to maintaining a very good external image. If you don't pay attention to your appearance, then people's first impression of you will definitely be bad, and a bad first impression will affect future communication and work.

But on the other hand, it is not enough for a person to live in a social collective, just by appearance. Even if you wear very bright clothes every day, even if you wear shiny leather shoes, if you don't have real talent, if you don't have strong work ability, if your work performance is very low, then you still can't get the affirmation and support of the social group.

Therefore, we have to maintain the external image, and the most important thing is to internalize our hearts, so that our hearts have a desire to work, and only with a strong self-motivation will we have a strong ability to act, and we will achieve one achievement after another in our work. If you just rub grease and powder all day long, and pay too much attention to your hair style all day long, then it will leave a flashy impression on the leader after a long time. Think you're a donkey dung egg with a bare face, so that you're not far from the day of dismissal.

People are like this, no matter whether you look handsome or not, and whether you are dressed beautifully, if you don't focus your work on study and hard work for a day, you will fall behind sooner or later, and you will be eliminated sooner or later.

Therefore, you have to give your girlfriend a proper guidance, let him realize that his focus should be on hard work and performance, let him give up the idea of being content with pleasure, and clean up all day long just to let his beloved see very happy, which has nothing to do with helping him achieve good performance in the company, so that he will continue to learn and master advanced technology and management experience. Only then will we achieve remarkable results in the future growth. Only in this way will we be recognized and praised by everyone!

You can tell him what your aesthetic is, but I don't think there's anything wrong with your girlfriend paying attention to her appearance. In the past, I also thought that a girl always cared about her appearance too superficially, but after I studied medical cosmetology, I realized how important the appearance is, we have to put on makeup every day in class, otherwise it is disrespectful to the teacher, our teacher is the same as us, every day to get up earlier than others, put on makeup to class, because this is a kind of etiquette, is a respect for others. <>

But you're also right, it's a bit superficial to care too much about your appearance. You can have a heart-to-heart talk with your girlfriend and ask her the reason for the accident, whether it is pure beauty or obsessive-compulsive disorder in this area, if it is pure beauty, this is normal, you can try to accept her, you get used to it, you will feel very good, but it is a little superficial at first. And you have a beautiful girlfriend, isn't it good?

Maybe your friends are still envious of you.

You can also tell your girlfriend that you tell her that you are beautiful enough and that you don't need to dress up like this all the time, and maybe your girlfriend will pay less attention to her appearance when she hears that she is right.

Actually, I've thought about this question too.,Like a person is to look at the feeling.,Sometimes no matter how beautiful the appearance is, there is no such feeling....I agree with you, I advise you to stop in moderation with that man...

Not necessarily, I just think that a person who has to face every day can't look too much.

But if he values his appearance so much, you have to consider whether you can last long with him.

Everyone has this kind of mentality, and it is normal to always want to see each other earlier.

Appearance is the first reflection of others about you. It is necessary to care.

I think he said something that made sense. First, I think there is some truth to the horoscope, but not everyone is the same. Second, if you say that he is good-looking, then he is naturally a little narcissistic and perfectionist, and it is natural to ask the woman to be beautiful.

Third, he didn't go on a blind date once or twice before, and he was a little disappointed with the girl he met on a blind date. Just like a netizen dying when he sees the light, he probably doesn't want to talk very hot, and he will be disappointed when he meets. You say you look good, but he hasn't seen you yet.

In a scientific study, it was found that both men and women value their looks, especially men. This is normal. As long as you meet and socialize, you can find that he is not a superficial person.

You don't know very much yet.

Of course he has to care about your appearance.

This is one of the foundations.

I don't know how to say it, I seem to be like you, but when you do something wholeheartedly, you don't care too much about others, and you don't care about it in front of your relatives, hehe.

When someone likes you, you will feel that your appearance is not important, use your heart to move others, don't use your appearance to move others.

Such people are more narcissistic, there is nothing bad about it, it is just more stinky and beautiful

In today's society, appearance is very important.

I think it's because of your low emotional intelligence, and when your girlfriend says she's ugly, you tell her that you will always be the most beautiful in my heart.

For example, this question, girls generally want to be caught, she blackens herself first, and wants you to praise her for being beautiful, so that she will have a sense of satisfaction.

The main problem is communication, and girls say that they are ugly is actually modest.

Use your love to resolve the doubts in her heart, and it is important to suggest that the people, things, and things you have to do with your ex-girlfriend should not be mentioned in front of your current girlfriend.

Ju is a girl.

Artemisia... There are also similar 、、、 to your girlfriends, in fact, and Zhu is also experiencing it now. Oh, Curcuma is in the present continuous tense

You can tell you, you don't have to be distressed, women eat a little vinegar to prove that they care about you, really, you may know this, but you are not a woman, you understand is understanding, but you will not understand the pain of the skin, so, tolerance is the most you have to do now.

Love really dissolves everything.

Please take care of her and her worries. Added: Stubborn girl, huh.

She loves you as much as she loves you now that this boy is more, and she can be sure.

When I think about it, I get angry, and I don't feel good

Time、You give her time and give yourself time。

Talk to her well, don't say that like before. Just talk about it once

Tell her that you love her now, about your ex-girlfriend

What happened is that it has become history, and history is already in the past, and the entanglement of indulging in the past will hurt her, and it will hurt you, you love her so much and don't want her to be sad and unhappy, she also loves you, since you love, then give love a way out, don't hold on to the past, her boyfriend said that she is jealous, hehe, in fact, she is more painful than yours, that woman is married, and she is abandoning her boyfriend to marry another person, but now every once in a while she will hit him **, I didn't talk about feelings, I just talked about daily life. The first time I cried, it was called the dark. That woman is now going to be a mother.

She is older than her boyfriend and she is still in school, so she can understand your girlfriend's mood, but if she loves him, he will be very happy if she is good, so she will tell you that you must use the practical action of love to dispel her doubts.

In fact, it is very unwise to blindly dwell on the past. Really, at first, a man will feel that a woman cares about him, and after a long time, he will feel annoyed and painful, in fact, it is not recommended that your girlfriend blindly dwell on the past, and he will say a very objective word, history is impossible to be erased, and he will respect all history, people, and most importantly, cherish the present.

I hope your girlfriend can understand you, and I hope she can see that women, they all understand each other. Women, love this man, why bother him.

Superficial feelings? Is there money or not?? Rich and superficial, that is life is not full enough. No money is superficial, that is not enough money earned.

Girl: "Bai, am I very superficial?" ”

Boy: "Yes, you're very superficial, but compared to some girls who pretend to be profound, I prefer you to be superficial and frank." ”

Girl: "Then you say I'm superficial, are you indirectly saying that I'm stupid and can't think about problems?" ”

Boy: "Of course not, if you were stupid, I wouldn't have wanted you a long time ago!" ”

Girl: "Really? ”

Boy: "Fake, whether you're as smart as Sister Fleur or as stupid as a pig, I'll always love you, unless."

Girl: "Unless what?" ”

Boy: "Unless you really become a sow." ”

The girl laughs.

First of all, I think you are shaken in your heart right now. It's because of your so-called girl chasing you. I think you.

I don't like her very much, because if you like her very much, you won't compare her to other girls.

I don't know if you mean that he is unknowledgeable or that he is unsteady in his speech.

He grinned and smiled. It's his character, or maybe there's something sad about him hidden underneath this. So I don't think you really understand her.

She wants you to care more about her. It's because she's afraid of losing you, or she's worried about finding out what you're doing. Girls are sensual, don't look at her big grin, girls' hearts are very detailed.

She compares you to other people's boyfriends because of the vanity of girls, and every girl has vanity.

I don't know your age, and if you're young, there may be some things you can't understand.

I think you guys should have a good conversation. Don't be suspicious of each other's psychology.

Hehe, you are born in the midst of blessings and do not know blessings.

Cherish your feelings.

How can you say that it is superficial, when I arrived, I felt that your understanding of her was superficial! zhi

That's how I am.

Girls, I'm usually with my boyfriend, and sometimes like your girlfriend, but I'm not very good at giggling.

In fact, I tell you that such a girl puts her feelings in her heart, is always looking for the right opportunity to surprise you, and always does things silently. Usually when my boyfriend treats me badly, I get angry. Because only I know how much you like and care about him in your heart, so don't look at the surface of anything.

I've always done this to my boyfriend.

Teach you a trick, maybe Bai himself will be a little uncomfortable.

**Du doesn't pick her up, doesn't call her zhi, doesn't send text messages, doesn't reply to dao....Occasionally reply to one, but also lukewarm.

At this time, you also pay attention to her genus. Write them all down, write them down on QQ and show them to her.

It's okay to write in a journal.

After a while, you will see how she reacts, because of the abnormality of you, she will not get used to it.

If there is no reaction, then quit early, if you can't retreat, press the forced retreat.

You have to persevere. If you can't hold on halfway, your sadness and sadness will be answered in vain.

I know how it feels, so be cautious about love now.