Is it really that hard to get my love? Why is it so hard to get true love?

Updated on society 2024-05-26
19 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Always remember that relationships are two-sided, you have been self-centered, and you personally think that you are about to succeed, have you ever thought about it from her point of view?

    Change your position, if you are her, the current situation, the current position, what will you think, everyone's thoughts will be different, don't use your thoughts to impose on others.

    Think more about her, do more for her, sometimes silently, more powerfully.

    Think about what kind of person she will like about you, and try to change your current self so that you can be more accepted by her, rather than blindly attacking.

    Just like a knife, if you can't cut a mark, then you need to sharpen it, but it's not trying to cut it, and in the end it will become a double defeat and injury.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    I think she's going to have feelings for you more or less.

    It's just that as a woman, what she wants is a man who can take care of her for the rest of her life.

    Because of this, she has the right to choose...

    She is actually very conflicted because she wants to find someone she wants to spend her life with She is conflicted Whether you are what she is looking for "She thinks I am honest and not manly enough, but in fact, I am nervous and restrained, I am not like that! "You can see that you don't have what she wants.

    In her eyes, why did you promise you?

    That's what I've come up with.

    Here's how to fix it.

    Do you know what it means to be eternal? You can choose to believe that God is asleep, but you can't help but believe that there is love that lasts forever.

    Forever is a commitment between people to trust and to be touched.

    Unless you change to be a model in her mind, but if you do, it won't be like you, and maybe that's not what she wants.

    You can choose to move her.

    How moved I don't know I see you fall But my famous quote You can learn from it I don't recommend it

    Remember, the most vulnerable thing for women is the heart.

    I was moved and I got it.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I was born in 85, so as a girl to give you some advice, I also have such a person who is very good to me, chasing me for 2 years, maybe, I don't know why I have been tempted recently, but I feel that I am not good, and I can't see the direction of the future. But now chasing girls is not just as simple as falling in love, you can go out after you think about it. Sometimes you chase her because she can't get it and won't give up.

    It's better to think about it first.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Keep working hard, love can be met but not sought, as long as you work hard, you will be moved by her.

    Have faith in yourself. Don't be so nervous, just be natural

    I wish you a speedy success

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I don't want to say much, four words: lust and indulgence!

    Usually girls enjoy the feeling of being pursued, even if they have a boyfriend, not to mention that she doesn't, at that time, she will pay special attention to that person's every move, provided that even if she doesn't like you, it seems that this is a nature.

    For example, a person calls ** to another person on time every night for a month, never stopping, regardless of wind or rain, but one day a month later, ** suddenly stopped ringing, and the other person suspected that there was something wrong with his ** at first, and then he thought that something happened to the other party? At that time, there was actually a person living in the world, no matter what kind of mentality it was. It's an analogy, like you're in the right situation, do you understand how to do it?

    But there must be a degree, otherwise she will think: this person is unreliable, give up so quickly.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Maybe you'll have some insights

    It's a bit of a breakdown, I really hope you can help me, I have all the scores, thank you for helping me, your advice is very important, it may help me through the darkest day of my life, thank you, thank you.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    You can try hugging, hugging can make the girl feel strong as a guy.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Touched Girls eat this set the most.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Only your own feet know if your shoes will fit or not, right?

    There are no two people in the world who are born together, God is fair to everyone, never attached to any love, only with tolerance, understanding, trust to work together to build true love.

    There is nothing difficult in the world, but I am afraid of people with hearts... If you manage your love with your heart, you will definitely get what you want.

    The fate depends on the heavens, and the share depends on oneself.

    Affection is a kind of giving, not a kind of getting, and you shouldn't care about how much the other party can give you, because you have nothing in the first place.

    Take it easy, maintain an optimistic attitude, no matter how much you think about it, you still have to face it, it's better to eat, sleep, and you don't have to add extra burdens to yourself...

    Life that's too easy isn't much fun, right?

    Cherish every day of your own oh (o....

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Find someone who can endure hardships together, rather than enjoy them together.

    Find someone you can bear together, not one you can run away with.

    It is blind to find a love that can be responsible for you, not for love, and life is realistic because love is nothing but human beings trying to escape from reality.

    And the spin-off products in order to escape reality, I look for love.

    In search of love, I lost my true feelings.

    lost his true feelings, only to find that he had already fallen into false love.

    Love, by no means is missing to find, let alone tired to change what do you think love is?

    A little bit of emotion, a little bit of impulse, a hug and a kiss?

    Naïve people, I have watched too many Japanese dramas, and I have read too many articles of the ruffian Cai.

    This may be part of love, but definitely not most of the main body of love is life, you can accompany her to be sad for a while while when you live together, but can you accompany her to bear all the pressure?

    Can you give her body temperature, but can you give her direction in life?

    Have you ever imagined how you can go on when the enthusiasm fades and the hug no longer appeals to you?

    Distance is the test of true love, and time is the answer.

    For the sake of the person you love, please make some sacrifices and keep your love, otherwise how can you talk about true love.

    You can forget your previous vows, but remember your true heart.

    Ask yourself, do you love so much? Are you willing to hurt both? Love is by no means looking for it when it is missing, and it is not changing it when it is tired.

    Life is not a good life for one person.

    It's how two people live well together.

    But for some objective reasons, in reality, you can't be together at the moment, are you just giving up so easily, and you are compromised?

    Can't you keep it for love? Do you allow yourself to be so short-sighted and only see the happiness in front of you?

    Is this the end of my life? If it is true love, it will never give up ......

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Fate can't be changed, so straighten up, go forward with your chest straight, move forward at the right time, and meet the right person, which is a kind of happiness.

    It is a kind of sadness to meet the wrong person at the right time. Meeting the right person at the wrong time is a sigh. Meeting the wrong person at the wrong time is a kind of helplessness.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If not difficult. Would you still want to get it?

    People are like that. The more you can't get it, the more you want it. Got it. The more I want to get rid of it.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Love him, don't hesitate, dare to love, dare to do it, and do what makes him worthy of you and you can like it.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Keep your composure, keep your love, keep your dignity. It is quite normal to pursue the opposite sex in love. In fact, the other party doesn't like you, no matter how much you chase it, it's useless, the other party likes you, you don't need to dig out your mind to chase it.

    Maybe one day he will be moved by your sincerity, but most of them will break up in the end. Because love is not moving, you are not the ideal partner in his mind, even if he accepts you for a while, he will leave you when he meets his favorite spring hand buried in the future. Of course, for someone who likes you, you still need to spend some effort to please him, because this is like patting and procrastinating, and it is romantic.

    Sometimes, loving someone doesn't require the other person to love you the same way, just as you love him. To truly love someone, as long as he is happy and happy. If there is hope between you, then you can make him see his love for him through your efforts, but only if it does not bother him by picking up ants.

    If he already has a significant other, you are just a friend to him or he doesn't want you to love him at all, then you still put away your love for him, there are more men in the world, and there will always be one who will find you. Love is originally based on mutual attraction, not unilateral attraction to others.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Is it difficult, in today's society, what is true love, do you know, money is called true love, no money, it is equivalent to no true love, the real society, unless you can be very good at speaking, very good at cheating, get true love to develop yourself in two years, can feed others and future children, maybe there is hope, hello landlord, I hope to help you. If you feel that you want to adopt.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Dear landlord.

    Glad for your question.

    True love is not expressed in words, it comes from the heart, when you fall in love with someone, your whole heart will be attracted by the person you love, fascinated by him (her), concerned for him (her), I hope you can see him (her) every minute, when you can't see him, you will always think of him (her), when you see you will be excited, your heart will beat faster, when you are together, you will feel very warm and safe, and he (her) will be in love, you will look forward to using all your love to bring him (her) the greatest happiness, And you get another kind of happiness in the process! I often think of him (her) and am happy, I mind him (her) very much, I care about him (her) very much, and I have happiness with him (her).

    Believe in yourself As long as there is love, happiness will definitely exist

    Please forgive me if my own is inaccurate!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Happiness will not wait for you all the time, the people who love you and the people you love are not ready to appear, please learn to cherish them.

    When a person who loves you deeply changes for you, it is because he loves you, and when you meet someone, he puts away his stubborn temper for you; And because he loves you, he turns your interest into his interest when ......Or because he loves you.

    There is no reason to like someone, and it is worth it to pay without regrets, as long as you can be with the person you love.

    In fact, we all have some such people around us, but (you. I. He hasn't discovered that the person who knows you best will always be by your side to protect you and not let you have a trace of grievances; People who truly love you may not say many things that love you, but they will do many things that love you.

    If you find someone like this around you, please cherish .......

    Please remember! The stars that can't be picked are always the brightest, and the small fish that slip away are always the most beautiful. The missed movie is always the best, and the lost lover always understands you best.

    In this world, everyone has someone they want to find, and once they miss it, they won't come back.

    If you fall in love, don't give up easily. It's awkward, maybe you regret it for a while; But you give up, and it may make you regret it for the rest of your life. A life that has experienced love is beautiful, and love that cannot stand the test is not profound.

    Beautiful love enriches life, and love that has passed the test is perfect.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Because you have loved, you will not become an enemy; Because I have been hurt, I won't be friends; It can only be the most familiar strangers. Love has been known, drunk has been drunk. The memories of love should be well collected, but the happiness in the future should be found separately.

    Love is a feeling, not love is also a feeling, and it is often difficult to decide whether the feeling in the heart is love or not.

    What you hold in your hands is not necessarily what you really have; What you have is not necessarily what you really inscribe in your heart.

    There are many times in life when you need to consciously give up, because when you have, you may be losing, and when you give up, you may be regaining. Those who understand know how to give up, those who are true know how to sacrifice, and those who are happy know how to detach.

    For those who don't love themselves, what is most needed is understanding, renunciation, and blessing. Too much self-inflicted affection is begging for alms. Loving and being loved are all things that make people happy. Don't let this turn into pain.

    Now that you've been through it, years later, it's a good memory to think about it once in a while. Live more confidently, be happier, leave the most beautiful smile to the person who hurts you the most, and smart people know that they want to be happy. Cherish the people you love and the people who love you.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Love is actually the most complex of all human feelings, each of us has basically experienced the taste of love, sweet and astringent, if you are not careful, it will become tasteless, and it will no longer be love.

    Some people feel that love is very sweet, and in the days of being loved or loved, the sweetness is every day; And some people feel that love is bitter, and love is full of bitterness every day. These are the two situations of tasting love, in fact, there is no wrong right in love, it depends on how you deal with it, deal with it with a positive attitude, love will bring you sweetness, and if you deal with it with a negative attitude, it will bring you bitterness and suffering.

    Everything is spiritual, love is no exception, it is like a little pet, we need to take care of it with a gentle heart, slowly nourish it, it is also alive.

    In the country of love, there are lovers every day, and they eventually become married, love is beautiful, and it is the most intoxicating feeling among all feelings. Like a thorny rose, if you are not careful, you will prick your hand, and if you are not careful, you will be hurt by the body, but people who are looking for happiness in love, some don't care about these, even if they are broken, even if the branches are broken, they will give everything for love. This spirit is valuable and admirable.

    The process of knowing each other and then falling in love with each other in every relationship is a more touching story, such a story is broken in the end and can not be repaired, I think this is something that everyone does not want to see, so we love a little more on the road of love, a little more tolerance, this love will last for a long time, in order to experience the sweetness.

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