A few years later, I met the person I once loved

Updated on psychology 2024-05-26
25 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Whether you have been in love or have a crush. That's a problem. If you have been in love, it depends on how you broke up in the first place, if you get together and disperse, you will be treated as a classmate when you meet, it is the relationship of ordinary friends.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    In the same way, the road met face to face, people should not know me, I should not know her, although I still love her very much, no way, no life.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Pretend not to look at it.,Smile when you look at it.。。。

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Years? Is it easy? Bumped into once.

    Have a good chat and keep in touch later.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    You have to be more generous than him.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    How comfortable do you feel and how do you face it?

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It depends on fate.

    Haha, but the fact that you can meet proves that you are very fateful.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    See if you can face each other calmly, if you are already down-looking, and have your own life, you may stay in the stage of friends, if not, you will be strangers.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Now that it's over, it's time to let each other go. Why let yourself be trapped in past feelings?

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If I have the chance, maybe I'll do it all over again ...

    Take a look at my experience and you might find it inspiring.

    It's a bit of a breakdown, I really hope you can help me, I have all the scores, thank you for helping me, your advice is very important, it may help me through the darkest day of my life, thank you, thank you.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Nodding generously, greeting and smiling.

    Anything will be fine.

    Naturally generous There is nothing embarrassing about it.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I feel that each of us has an inexplicable affection for the person we liked before. Maybe it's because I've never gotten it, or maybe it's because I'm too naïve at the beginning, so when faced with the problem between two people, I don't know how to solve it correctly. Many years later, when we see the person we like again, we may thank each other, because with each other we will become our current self, and we will slowly summarize some of the experiences in the process of love.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    What would you do if you were asked to meet someone you loved again after a long time?

    A friend said to me, "Not long ago, when I was on a business trip, I met my college lover, and the two only glanced at each other for a short time, and then passed by silently.

    Who didn't love a few fruitless people when he was young?

    You have experienced a lot together, and even thought about spending an ordinary life, but fate makes people, you love and love and fade, and you break up when you walk, and then mention each other, just love.

    At different stages of life, we will meet different people, and the way two people get along with each other differently will also bring us different feelings.

    Some people always say, "If only I hadn't met someone before!"

    But who could have predicted the future? There is a certain probability that falling in love will be separated, don't dare to love because you are afraid of separation, if you always care about the result, you will ignore the happiness that the other party brings you in the process.

    If you ask, do you have to be together all the time to love someone?

    Of course. This is many people's desire for love, but there are very few people who realize it, maybe we should relax a little bit about love, remember to treat each other well when we love, and don't hold grudges against each other when we are separated.

    Because you love someone, you don't have to ask if it's worth it.

    Because to love someone is to love out of your own volition, and to love without regrets.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    You will feel a special fate, after all, it has been separated for so long, and it is a very lucky thing to be able to get together.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It is inevitable that there will be a wave of ripples in the heart, but it will soon calm down, after all, it is the person who once loved deeply, and there will be some feelings in the heart.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    The mood is calm, since it is the person who once loved, it has become the past, it has passed, and everything that should be let go has been put down, so the state of mind at this time is particularly calm.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    After many years of separation, I can say that I am very excited to see the person I once loved again, and then there is an indescribable joy and happiness in my heart.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    The way to leave no regrets about youth is to talk about a vigorous love and love someone seriously. Most of us will have such a person in our lives, called the person who can't love, because of some other reasons such as family, career, personality, etc., so that you can't be with the person you love very much, forced to be helpless, the two have to separate, but the heart will always remember each other's good. For such a person who can't be loved, we want to meet again but don't want to meet again, we want to meet again because we still want to see the person we love again, and we don't want to meet because we will have a trace of regret when we see this person.

    If one day, you really meet the person you love deeply, your heart will be first of all surprised and happy. Although the results are unsatisfactory, it is undeniable that the two people are really compatible in a certain aspect, because they understand each other, so the chat will be very smooth, because a tacit understanding of each other's eyes will get each other, maybe aside from some factors, the two are really suitable! People often say to be with the person who makes you comfortable, so when you meet the person you love again, your heart will be very relaxed, the mood will be very happy, and when you meet again, the two of you will communicate with each other like close friends, and then give each other some suggestions, which really makes people feel comfortable and happy, as if talking to "another self" just like your heart.

    Of course, in addition to happiness, there will also be sadness in the heart, because when you see him again, you will remember the reason why you broke up, and you will sigh why this world is so fair, so that you can enjoy the beauty of love, and also let you enjoy the pain of love. Then you will think, if we hadn't been like that at that time, would we not have broken up, if we had worked hard at that time, would you have become each other's eternity. In fact, everything is useless, you will feel regret and sadness in your heart, and it is precisely because of her goodness that you will have her shadow in every mate you choose in the future, and your heart will be more helpless when you meet again.

    Seeing each other again, whether it is surprise or helpless, should be regarded as a farewell to the past, no longer entangled in the beginning, but optimistic about the present, and ask the other party in an open-minded attitude Is everything okay?

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    If you have already found your other half after many years of separation, then even if you see the person you once loved, you may only be relieved in your heart.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    When I meet the person I once loved again, I will feel surprised and surprised in my heart, and it is fate to meet again, and at the same time I have regrets in my heart, if I have not been separated.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I regret that I feel very naïve, I feel that I have loved the wrong person, it is not worth paying so much, it is better to miss seeing each other in this life, and I can even avoid embarrassment and live my life alone.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I was amazed. How do you think it's possible to meet each other, although I don't love each other anymore, but I hope he is doing well.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Love is like a game, but not everyone wants to do it. People should remember the most in this life should be the happiest days, even if there is hurt and pain, they will not regret it, people can't regret it, regret means denying themselves, denying themselves then it is impossible to be happy. Maybe your harvest is just some fragmented memories, not as good as you imagined, there is a happy ending, but at least I have cherished and worked so hard, two people from acquaintance, acquaintance to love, after a period of dating, or there are unavoidable reasons, or there are unspeakable reasons, due to various reasons, in the end, unhappy, when breaking up, there is always one party will tell the truest lie - I hope we can still be friends. If it were me, and I felt that I was very hurt, I loved and hated each other, I couldn't be friends, and I thought I could only be the most familiar stranger. I have never been unforgettable, how easy is it to be friends after a breakup?

    Since you have broken up, don't have an ambiguous relationship, that will only make you sad, uncomfortable, neither advance nor retreat, since you have broken up, you will completely quit, happy life, happy is the only pursuit now. I can only say sorry to him, whatever the reason, we broke up and broke up, and since we can't love each other anymore, let's be strangers.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I feel very calm in my heart, but there is a little bit of regret, and a little bit of sadness, after all, there has been emotional giving.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Won't care about TA's past. If you mind, you can't love him with all your heart. Mind refers to taking things that make people unhappy to heart.

    When you mind a person's past, it means that the person's past makes you unhappy. Whether these things are his fault or not, they will leave a gap in your heart, even a shadow. If you care a lot about the people or things he has met in the past, your heart will not be able to love him 100% anymore.

    In the future, when you face him, you will be very entangled and painful, and while you enjoy his kindness to you, you will also think from time to time, did he also treat others so well before? Did he hide me as if I was before? In the matter of love, I am most afraid of suspicion and crankiness.

    And there is a characteristic of human psychology, there are some things, when you don't care about it, it slowly disappears; But if there is one thing that has left a deep mark on your heart, the more you let yourself not care, the clearer it will be in your memory. So in response to this question, from the point of view of love, it is like this: if you love him, then you certainly don't mind his past; If you mind his past, you won't be able to love him anymore.

    If you mind his past, it will make him very painful to mind this, not only will it cause you a certain amount of pain, but it will also make him very painful. You don't mind his past, there will be some manifestations to a greater or lesser extent, sometimes it is an attitude of wanting to be detached, sometimes it will be asked often, and he will be sensitive to the fact that you are very concerned about those things. His original intention of telling you about the past is to let you see the real him, and he is not willing to hide anything from his loved ones, and he hopes that after hearing these things, you can rationally consider whether you accept his past.

    If you don't accept it, then don't get along anymore, the deeper and longer you love, the more painful it will be when you leave; If you can accept it, then he hopes that the past will not affect your future happiness!

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