I ve never been in a relationship, and I feel like it doesn t belong to me at all

Haha, you're exactly like me before. I used to watch my classmates and friends fall in love, all of them were affectionate and sweet, but I didn't feel it at all, I felt that this thing was far away from me, and it couldn't belong to me at all. Every time they tell me how beautiful love is, I don't envy it at all, or I don't want to talk about it

Hee-hee, until I met him, Actually, fate is really strange, just when you feel like you have nothing at all, it suddenly appears in front of you, and you are caught off guard to accept it. Even after I started with him, I felt like nothing belonged to me, but slowly. You will find that feelings are really deeply rooted in you.

You can't help it if you don't admit it, because you're already ** in prison. Now I will say that those who don't belong to me have not met the people they love deeply, and I believe that in the near future, you will be able to meet the person who makes you regret it like me.

It means that you have not had the experience of being in love, so you don't know the experience of people in love, everyone is from nothing, and you won't have this feeling when it happens to you one day.

Go with the flow, don't force it.

If you meet it, you won't want to miss it Each of us will eventually find our own happiness, and you will definitely too, but the time is not right.

Come back when you first come, everything is as it happens.

There will be love in love, always inadvertently.

There are many reasons why a person may not have the experience or opportunity to fall in love, although he is good in every way. Here are some possible reasons:

1.Busy life: Some people can be very busy and don't have the time or energy to look for a relationship opportunity or partner. They may be so engrossed in work, study, or other things that they don't have time to socialize or make new friends.

2.Social difficulties: Some people may be introverted, shy, or socially impaired, and may not easily make new friends or socialize with others. They may feel unconfident, anxious, or afraid of rejection, which may prevent them from finding opportunities in a relationship.

3.High demands: Some people may have high demands on themselves and each other, and they may take longer to find a suitable partner.

They may pay more attention to the compatibility of their interests, tastes, values, etc., which may make them more selective in the process of finding a partner.

4.The shadow of an ex: Some people may have experienced failure or pain in a relationship, which may cause them to experience negative emotions or stress about their relationship or relationship.

They may feel that they cannot face or withstand these emotions again, or that they will not be able to experience the same pain again, and thus are reluctant to try a relationship again.

5.Not meeting the right person: Some people may think that they haven't met the right person yet, or that the other person isn't interested in them. They may feel that their standards are high or that they find it difficult to find a partner who fits them in their circumstances.

In conclusion, everyone's situation is different, and the reasons for not falling in love also vary from person to person.

Actually, you don't need to be too confused. Because there are a lot of people like you, there are six of us in the dormitory, and we are seven people living in one. Not long ago, seven of them had never been in a relationship, and recently one of them did, and by the way, we are also juniors.

I'm one of those six, and I'm going to go to graduate school, which is similar to yours. To be honest, I don't know anything about love at all, and I even wonder if there is true love in this world. But I yearn for true love, which can be illustrated from the fact that I love to watch**.

But I won't fall into love desperately because I yearn for it, because I know what's more important to me now. Now that you have chosen to take the postgraduate entrance examination, studying is the most important thing for you at present, since you have been studying for so long, don't care about falling in love a year or two later, when you complete your dream, you can be more dedicated to falling in love.

On the other hand, now that you have limited contact with boys in college, can you really find one that satisfies you? To be honest, I couldn't find anything satisfying in college, because I like to be mature, and I always feel that the boys around me are too immature, not mature enough, and still just boys.

You say that there are impurities in the feelings in society, but there is no one on campus, which is not necessarily! For example, some boys find a girlfriend just to show off, which is actually very naïve, but this is a common problem of most men, so men always like to be beautiful, and it is very face-saving to take them out in this way. Moreover, when you reach a certain age, your understanding of love will be different from what you think now, because when you reach a certain age, you may not fantasize about Prince Charming riding a white horse to you like a little girl, you will want a stable and simple love, and the man who is the same age as you will also have the same thoughts as you, then your love will not have too many impurities, because at this time you are all dating on the premise of marriage.

This is unlikely in college, because everyone is still very young, and there are still many opportunities to choose, and there is a greater possibility of playing.

Maybe you think it's a pity that you don't have love in the most beautiful years, and it's a pity, and sometimes I feel the same way. But when you think about it, it's worth it that this effort may be richer, after all, the consequences of recklessness are sometimes tragic.

When you read it, you will think that I am a bit old-fashioned, or you will think that I am pretending, but this is really what I think. Hope it helps you a little!

How you want to help, you just have to be friendly to your woman, that's enough.

I don't think there's anything wrong with us, I'm a high school student. I don't like those classmates who treat feelings as child's play, and there are no boys who make my heart move. Love or feelings, when you have a feeling, you won't find fault with each other, since you don't have a heartbeat, just wait, reckless action will only hurt everyone.

There are a lot of good girls, so try to find out.

There are very few responsible people like you now, and if that girl meets you, it will be a blessing for a thousand years of rest! There will be girls who like it! Not all girls will look at each other's substance, please believe that this is true.

The following situations should not take the initiative to fall in love, take the initiative to marry, take the initiative to give birth and take the initiative to be a matchmaker (draft):

One, in times of war.

Second, in times of turmoil.

Three, theists.

Fourth, smokers. Fifth, people who like alcoholics.

Sixth, the work is very hard.

Seventh, there is a history of suicide.

8. Those with a history of self-harm.

Nine, like to gamble.

10. I don't want to do a premarital medical examination.

Eleven, bad temper.

Twelve, low-income earners.

13. When unemployed, unemployed, and unemployed.

Fourteenth, the infirm and sickly.

Fifteenth, born in an era or environment where it is difficult to find a job.

16. Students born in an era or environment with a heavy academic burden.

XVII. Stutterers.

Eighteen, congenital color blindness and color weakness.

XIX. Ichthyosis patients.

Twenty, there is no relatively stable income or job.

Twenty-one, there is no formal work.

22. Many of the other blood relatives are weak and sick.

Twenty-three, the family is poor.

Twenty-four, snoring loudly.

Twenty-five, the housing is small.

Twenty-six, poor academic performance.

XXVII. Support bad habits and bad customs.

You are very entangled, come out, believe that others see the good in others is the sunny life.

I can only say that you can see something bad on your back.

Besides, love and marriage are two different things.

Envy your single life.

Empathize with your single life.

Uh-huh, yes, aren't you in a hurry at home" My family is in a hurry, either introducing or looking for ......I can't find the ...... in the north

Your views are a bit extreme.

At least not for me and my boyfriend.

First of all, you can't decisively define and hastily attribute the problem to yourself.

Secondly, let's analyze the surrounding environment, when you come out of the home independently, including going to college and work, your world view, outlook on life, and values have basically been formed, and you will be more looking forward to finding an object that matches your three views, the more people you come into contact with, the more you will feel that the difference between people exists, you will meet the object of your heart, or because of an unintentional move by the other party to dispel your good impression of ta, these things are not accurate. It's also hard to grasp the feeling of heartbeat, and your own expectations of love and the person you want to be in love with will constantly change with the things you come into contact with.

Finally, let's look at our own problems, if you are an introvert, then it is true that you will have few opportunities to contact the opposite sex, and the chances of falling in love will be few but not none. If you have high requirements for the object and there is no shortage of suitors around you, but you don't like them, this may also be possible. The worst thing is that you have nothing but still want to be with the male god and goddess in your heart, everyone should feel positive to others in love and before falling in love, and your shining point is not shown, and you will be favored a little less.

I haven't been in a relationship yet, maybe you have little contact, or maybe you're still waiting for someone who can accept you wholeheartedly. But every single day is a time when you can appreciate in value, you can try to learn more, or let yourself change your style, try to communicate more, and love will naturally come.

Love is something that can be met but not sought, not something you can ask for, and not being in love is not necessarily your problem, it may be caused by multiple reasons. If you want to fall in love, you must first be able to meet friends of the opposite sex! If you think about whether your circle of friends is really small, then you have to take measures to expand your circle of friends, and only after you expand the range of friends can you have the opportunity to make friends of the opposite sex.

As the saying goes, turnip and cabbage have their own love, not having been in love is not necessarily your problem, in life, you will always meet people who love yourself, when you really meet, you must have the courage to grasp it, don't let love slip through your fingers.

In general, it is necessary to improve yourself from all aspects, image, strength, etc. Make yourself perfect, and love will come quietly. You don't have to worry too much about love sooner or later, just be fully prepared, and be able to grasp the timing when love comes, which is also a skill.

Waiting is also a kind of growth, slowly chewing the taste of loneliness in waiting, only those who have experienced these can do better in love. Because I have experienced the horror of loneliness, I understand that one person is not as happy as two people, and that people are born to intersect, and all kinds of interpersonal relationships constitute our lives.

The first point is to relax your mind, and the second point is to say that you must work very hard in what you do in the future, because I think only when you become more excellent and then do something you will have a better result, and when you face something, if you are not difficult to get rid of well, then I think in the future, you will find that you will be ruthless, I will say this, you must make yourself excellent, And then when your next relationship or love for yourself comes, you know that you must catch it when it comes.

No matter what you do, the most important thing is to persevere, so I think whenever you meet the right person, you have to work hard to let go and chase, because only in this way can you find a very suitable other half of you, so that you can better decide some things, just like this, you can really get what you want, because if you don't work hard, don't strive for many things, many times it is not your turn to have, So I think you have to work very, very hard at this time.

People always say that love is a matter of two people, and this sentence is true. But it's your business to not find a love partner. It has a lot to do with you when you can't find a partner, so now let me tell you one by one.

The second reason is to be too attached to true love. How do you understand this? Isn't falling in love just about being together?

Let me explain to you what it means to be too attached to true love. Some girls think that I will definitely meet someone who can love me forever and love each other for the rest of my life. So even if I meet someone I have a good impression of in life, I always think that maybe I will meet someone I like better, so I miss the opportunity to get off the list.

The third reason is the idea of singleness. That's the kind of person I am. Many people probably have this thought, although they have never been in love, but they feel that falling in love is very troublesome, tiring, and unfree.

And in life, I am used to seeing the farce of couples separating and combining, and I feel very disgusted, and gradually formed this kind of singleness thought. If it's a burden for two people to be together, why not choose to be single.

In life, there are many friends and family members who do not feel the importance of lovers, and gradually this kind of thinking that a person is good is deeply rooted.

Most people who have never been in a relationship have a relationship with themselves. If you really want to start a relationship, you should learn to change yourself.