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A person is not interested in anything, and many people will be in such a situation, so don't worry too much. When you fully adapt to this environment, not only the working environment but also the living environment, you will slowly find that there is a lot of fun in life.
The most important thing is to adapt to the rhythm of work, when you adapt to the rhythm of work, you will feel that things are more smooth and handy, with one or two friends can be dated, play ball or something, this is the most basic work must be done well, when you do this thing well, it will be easier. The second is to be familiar with your living environment, that is, you must take the initiative to understand the people, things, and things in the community.
For example, there are a lot of old grandparents who usually have nothing to do and like to come out to play, so you don't want to stay at home and not come out, you must come out to chat with them at this time, these old people have superhuman life wisdom. You can also learn about some interesting places or local news from them, and of course, there are also nearby restaurants, and the aunt can chat more about nothing, which is very beneficial, and maybe even introduce you to a girlfriend.
Finally, develop your own formal neighbors, that is, those who are about the same age as you or who already have children, such neighbors will generally provide you with a lot of help, as the saying goes, distant relatives are not as good as close neighbors. Parents can't take care of themselves when they are far away, so it's very important to have a good neighbor.
Finally, after getting acquainted with the surrounding environment, it is also a very good choice to go out for a walk when you have time, and ask your friends to climb the mountain and play, or to read a book when you are alone. Choose a sport, join a club to exercise, or go for a run at night, in short, don't let your body and brain be empty, once you are free, you will be cranky, and when you are busy, you will find that life is full and beautiful, and the outside world is very exciting, don't close yourself.
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When a person works in a field, does he feel that he has lost interest in life, the things around him, and the friends around him, just like a soulless shell living in this world without meaning. In fact, you should pay attention to this feeling in yourself. It's a very bad feeling, and you have to try to change yourself to that state.
If you are not interested in anything, you can make more friends, communicate with friends more if you have nothing to do, chat more, actively participate in group activities, exercise yourself to socialize, and face life optimistically. The more you socialize, the more you become interested in anything. You are not interested in anything, the more you don't communicate with others, the more you feel that you can't think about anything, you will slowly be depressed, and you will slowly appear unwilling to communicate with others, and in more serious cases, you may be depressed.
For the sake of your physical and mental health, it is recommended that you get rid of this feeling as soon as possible.
Working in a foreign country, it is inevitable to feel lonely at times. You have to get rid of this feeling, use your time off work, listen to ** to relax your body and mind, and when you are bored, you can read a few books or practice writing. On weekends, you can go shopping and watch movies with your colleagues, share your experience of watching movies with your colleagues after watching the movie, or make an appointment with your colleagues at the gym to immerse yourself in the atmosphere of fitness.
All of this can please think that you are not interested in anything.
People will grow up, and in order to survive and live, we will all choose better places to work, and some of us may be local. However, for most people, it can be uprooted. So we have to be independent, we have to think about how good life is, and we should plan our future.
Instead of letting yourself go. Be interested in things because a better tomorrow awaits you. So don't make excuses, open your heart, to receive more people, more things, your heart will slowly open, and your life will not be so boring.
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A person is indeed very lonely in the field, in addition to eating and sleeping every day, there is basically no other thing worth paying attention to, and most of the work is indeed boring, monotonous and boring day after day, but there is no way to live, I can only force myself to go to work every day, I am not interested in anything, I have no friends who can speak, and I don't even know what to do when I am resting. Life is too boring in this way. <>
To change this status quo, you must let go of yourself, accept new people and things, don't miss your former playmates every day, the little sisters who were inseparable before, people always have to face separation, friends can't always be by your side, everyone's life is different, everyone must learn to be independent, learn to face society alone. In addition, we know how to communicate, we can meet new friends, you must not be the only one facing this situation, and you are not the only one who is afraid of this feeling of no interest in anything, so friends are naturally there, but you have to be brave to take the first step, don't always be passive waiting for others to come to you. <>
You can make full use of your free time to do a lot of things to find your own interests, if you are not satisfied with your current job, you can enroll in a night school, enrich yourself through learning, and prepare for the promotion of future work, if you feel that staying in one place is too boring, you can use the small long vacation to go out with friends who are not around, change your mood, and adjust your state.
Everyone faces different challenges, and a person's battle sometimes seems more difficult to deal with, but sometimes the most feared difficulty is persistence and neglect, persistence is victory, and if you don't pay attention to it, it will naturally not be as difficult to deal with as you think.
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It is the first time to arrive in a strange city, because everything here is unfamiliar, unfamiliar people, unfamiliar environment, unfamiliar life ......Because of the strangeness, we have a sense of fear of everything around us, and many people may wonder why people have such fear when they go to other places. Because in this environment, we don't know anything.
Especially when we go to work in other places, we have to look at other people's faces and act like we are not as free as in our own hometown. For this reason, we are not curious about everything, and we are not interested. Such a situation is very unfavorable to our work, affecting our work and our lives.
So we need to change our state from our hobbies and habits.
We can come to this city for a walk when we are not busy at work, or on holidays, to feel the beauty of this city, to feel the wind from the outdoors, the clouds fluttering in the blue sky, and the crowded streets. Make yourself love the city. This allows us to explore our interests in this kind of liking, and makes us look forward to life and be enthusiastic.
Everyone has something they want to do and what they like to do.
We can also feel joy in doing things that interest us. It's the kind of happiness that comes from the heart, so that we can get things done better. Or in the city, develop a new interest of your own, such as playing ball that you think is good.
Although you are not good at it, you can try to do it, and in that kind of situation that you are exhausted by exercise, the whole body is sweating profusely, and it is very enjoyable.
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Working alone in the field is not interested in anything, this is a true portrayal of my work and life situation, I can still remember that time I was lonely, decadent and did not have any interest in anything, often homesick, want to leave that place early. But if you want to make money, you can't help it, so you can endure it. In the past, I tried to alleviate my poor state through various methods and constantly enrich my life, but more often I still felt that loneliness was always with me.
When I saw this topic, my first feeling was that we might be similar to each other in some way, and I am a bit of an introvert and a very slow person, and I guess you are about the same. Here's how I spent that time, and I hope it helps.
Working alone in a foreign country, I had to adapt to the new environment at first, but it was okay for me, and I was quite satisfied with my ability to adapt to the new work environment. It's easy when it's not busy, and it's especially busy when it's busy. At the time, I was sharing a room with a colleague of mine, who was a local and went home most of the week when she had her day off, so I spent most of the week on my own.
At that time, in order to be closer to the place where we went to work and be able to sleep a little more every morning, we rented a house in a nearby town, and there was a shuttle bus to and from work every day. But the town is a bit backward in development, and it's far from the city, and it takes an hour by bus, so I rarely go to the city.
At that time, I was in **, and I was reluctant to go out because of inconvenience. I spend almost every Sunday in my dorm room, sleep in the morning, and sometimes skip a meal for a snack all day. It's been a long time, and I feel a little dizzy at the end of the day.
Later, I thought that I couldn't be so decadent, so I would go buy some fruit and vegetables on Sundays, and cook for myself. Cooking gradually became a part of Sunday life, and I did it myself, after all, it was cleaner and more hygienic than outside, and I began to have a little interest in cooking.
I usually buy some books online, sleep in on Sundays, do laundry, clean up, and then quietly pick up a book to read. When reading a book, my heart will also calm down, and sometimes I will go to the book, as if I have witnessed the whole process, joy, anger and sorrow, followed by the ups and downs in my heart.
Sometimes, when you don't want to read a book for a long time, or don't want to finish it so quickly, and want to keep it for later, you can listen to it on your mobile phone, or find a movie on the Internet to watch.
Also, I'll buy some cross-stitch embroidery to pass the time. At first, I was reluctant to go out, but later I was not so lazy, and occasionally went out with my colleagues on Sundays to go shopping, buy clothes, and eat some desserts.
I hope you can also find ways to make your life a little more fulfilling, something to do, and gradually you will find that your state will improve. Remember not to be too lazy, the lazier you are, the more you don't want to move, and the more you don't want to move, the less interested you will be in anything, this is my experience.
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In order to improve your quality of life and enrich your spiritual world, you must cultivate your own interests.
When you are working in the field, you might as well develop friends in this place first, sometimes you are tired and in a bad mood, but with the help of friends, your mood will improve, and you can also help yourself develop your interests.
Of course, the most important thing is to take the initiative to develop your own interests.
First, think about what you do to improve your mood.
Second, you can use a period of time to get in touch with more things, such as drawing, writing, fitness, makeup, etc.
Third, choose one or a few of the things that you are happy to do and slowly develop them into your own interests.
If you still can't get interested, you might as well choose one at random and stick to it for a while.
For example, fitness, in the process of fitness, you will find that your body is getting better and better, and even your spirit is becoming more and more comfortable, and when you have a sense of achievement, you will slowly fall in love with doing it, and your interest will be formed.
In my in-depth study, I will slowly find that I have more and more sense of accomplishment and interest in what I have chosen.
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That's what I'm in right now. A person works in a field, far away from home, away from her husband and children. I've been adrift outside alone for more than a year.
For more than a year, I woke up every morning to an empty room by myself. Whether it's eating, sleeping, or going to work, there is no one to accompany you.
I seem to have become accustomed to this kind of life, but at some point I still feel tired and have a deep sense of powerlessness. I can't do anything, I'm not interested in anything, I feel that life is really boring, and I don't know where my direction and end point are....
Whenever I am faced with such moments, I usually give myself a little vacation. Take a two-day or three-day vacation to go out for a walk, find a place you like, and see the world. Look at the sea, climb the mountains, and feel the magic and beauty of nature. <>
When the holidays are over, pack up your mood and get back to work.
Or find a time to go back to your hometown to see your children's husband and feel the affection.
When I came home and saw the child's innocent smile, I felt that everything I had paid was worth it, and no matter how hard and tired I was, I would let myself persevere. It's easy to regain your motivation.
Many people don't know what to do when facing pressure and confusion, and if they don't relieve their mood in time, they will even suffer from depression and make abnormal behaviors.
My favorite star Qiao Renliang committed suicide due to depression. It's a pity that such a young life and a good youth ended because of depression.
So when you feel that you are not interested in everything and are lost, learn to relax yourself and not think too much.
Find an outlet for your heart, don't be bored alone, this will only make yourself more bored.
You can find some favorite things to do in your daily life, make more friends, see what activities your friends usually have, go out with them more, and you can also meet more people through your friends, expand your interpersonal circle, and make yourself no longer so lonely.
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I will be homesick, when a person feels particularly lonely, I will be very homesick, because home is the warmest harbor, if I am particularly lonely, I will miss my parents and miss the way I used to be with them.
If you don't go to work, you must work hard, if you don't work for a short time in the field, then you may already have a job, and then travel in the field, or get paid leave.