As an introverted girl, how to meet new people and expand your circle of friends?

Any relationship has to be managed, and I think you have to treat your friends well first, so that you can meet more friends. The friends you know in life, or the classmates you know in the class, send more blessings to them during the holidays, and you must not shirk if you are busy at ordinary times, if they are sick, you also sincerely greet and greet, so you are very good, if you can also change a little of your introverted shortcomings, and tease them when you are usually fine, so that you are more familiar with each other, and they have a good impression of you.

Also, you have to go to some events, or you have to compete for a position in the class, so that you can meet more new people. If you don't dare to talk to others enthusiastically, then simply tell others, which class are you, let's be friends. It's silly, but it's sincere and simple, you can ask someone about their interests and hobbies, and then ask her about her happiest experiences in the past, and talk about the past and the future.

Don't be shy, once you've made a lot of friends, you'll become more accustomed to how to make friends, and your introverted personality will become more cheerful and lively. Making friends still depends on your personality charm, if you have a good impression in the class or in the minds of many people, then your popularity is naturally good.

Actually, I'm quite an introverted girl. This is especially true before high school. Now I occasionally tell my good friends that I'm actually an introvert, but they all scoff at me and don't believe me.

Because I'm probably more active now, especially in front of my good friends.

Speaking of not being introverted at the beginning, I may also want to thank the two good friends who played with me in my sophomore year of high school, which made me become positive and optimistic. <>

So let's talk about how I've made friends over the years and now I have a lot of friends.

When I was a child, I was the kind of person who didn't like to talk to others, but in fact, introverts were not really introverts, they were a kind of inferiority complex that stemmed from their hearts and was afraid to communicate with others. I used to be like this, I always felt that I was not very good, and I didn't dare to communicate with others if I was lower than others, for fear that others would dislike me. Very cold and does not come into contact with others.

My friend said that I used to seem to isolate myself all the time.

Later, there are those friends with the same gentle personality who will take the initiative to talk to you, remember to be enthusiastic, don't be too cold, don't be too inferior, and believe in yourself.

My two friends at that time were not my friends at first, they were just ordinary classmates, and they changed seats and became table mates.

But there is someone who talks to us every day, talks about those funny things, and jokes with each other, and at this time it is good to blend in and learn to accept it. Since you're not an active person, learn to accept and recognize what are the friends you want to make. It is good to love the world more, to believe in yourself, and to warm others.

In fact, the so-called introverted personality is just a lack of certain social attributes in the final analysis, but we will find that there are some friends around us who are introverts but still have a lot of friends, so I recommend that you build yourself into a socially suitable personality attribute before you want to expand your circle of friends.

As a girl, it is not easy to make friends with girls, because girls understand what girls are thinking too well, and I have to admit that we girls do think a lot more than boys, and it is precisely because we think more, and it is easy to end a friendship relationship after some friction occurs when interacting with some friends.

And boys don't, to talk about social attributes, according to my observation of similar personality and ability level, most boys are stronger than girls, on the one hand, because they don't care too much about their own gains and losses, on the other hand, their loss of friends is far lower than that of girls, the so-called loss is the maintenance of friend relationships, which needs to be seriously written. If you are living a stable life now, do not have too many social activities, and do not have a large circle, adding a hobby can be said to be the easiest and most effective measure.

You will find that the friends around you who have a big circle are also more interesting themselves, maybe they will play two or three sports, have two or three idols, although these social networks are not of high quality, but they can often create the illusion of a large social circle for others. Compared to "lonely people", everyone is willing to make friends with a person who has many friends.

As the saying goes, the more friends you have, the more friends you will have in the future, multiple friends with multiple roads, multiple opponents and multiple walls. Therefore, from now on, start to seriously manage your existing circle, don't rush to open up new circles, and manage the circle around you well, which is itself the most intelligent socialization, and high-quality socialization will bring you good help in the future.

If you are very introverted, you should find a way to change it and communicate with people more, so that your language skills can be stronger, you can take the initiative to communicate with others, understand each other, and slowly like it, and you will become a good friend.