What should I do, what should I do if I am worried and troubled???

Updated on psychology 2024-05-19
46 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    I work in a family business with both hands.

    You are too good to be satisfied.

    How difficult it is to find a job outside now, wouldn't it be nice to have relatives, friends or family members arrange a job for you?

    How many people are finding employment now, and college students are facing unemployment. It's not easy to have a decent job.

    If you want to rely on your own hands, you can just suffer a little more. To learn technology, you need a high diploma, you must have a strong work ability, you must have many years of work experience, otherwise you can only find a very general job, and the salary is still very low.

    And your girlfriend, she may be dependent on you, which is a good thing for you, because she can't live without you.

    But it's not a good thing for her in itself, because if a woman relies too much on a man, she will lose her assertiveness and react greatly when she is wronged.

    You should tell her what you think, say you're busy, say you want to keep a certain amount of space between each other, tell her all your thoughts. As your girlfriend, she should be able to understand you. If you don't even have the environment to communicate with each other, you're too tired.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Girls are like this sometimes, they want to be cared for, they want to be relied on, they want to feel safe.

    Maybe that's what you're hesitating about, for fear of hurting her, but lovers need to be frank and equal, and don't be too accommodating. Just find a time to talk to her.

    Be brave, it's also very useful for yourself.

    Top you!!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I think your thoughts are very selfish, do you think you really love your girlfriend, if so, you should feel happy because she likes you and can't live without you. You've been dating for four years, and she should be younger than you when you're 23, so she's eighteen. I was with you at the age of nine, she relied on her family before, and she relied on you when she followed you, and she couldn't do without you after a long time, at this time you shouldn't blame her for relying on you but tolerating her and slowly enlightening her.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    In fact, you just sit down and have a good talk, what problems in the world can't be solved?

    Then there's the idea of getting out and seeing how other people are living. There are many people whose lives are still not as good as ours. Just think about it, and they'll figure it out.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Just the opposite of you, my GF is too career-oriented, and she can give up everything for work, for example, we haven't been together for more than 3 years since we have known each other for 8 years, and she often hangs on her lips a sentence that is: women can't rely on men and must support themselves, so her goal is to be a company executive, alas! I don't know if you, gf, if that's the case, will you complain?

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Tell her. If you continue like this, you will only quarrel after you get married.

    Holding back also erupted.

    It's good to sit together and talk.

    Life will change.

    Sometimes all that is needed is a thought.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    You want to send it.

    Very right. I'm sticking with you.

    Tell him to put. Knowing it is green.

    Make her understand. Because to be honest.

    Relying on you at home, she will be bored in the future.

    Am you right?

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    You can try to communicate, otherwise how will she know what is in your heart!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It's good for a man to be sad, don't be too persistent. The bystander is "light"! It's still up to you.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If someone dumps you, you will be handsome to her.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    None of the online can be trusted

    Let's learn a lesson.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Loving the same sex is a lot less of a thing.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If you are a financially independent woman, it is recommended that you talk to him about the reason.

    If not, then unfortunately, you can only pretend not to know.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    My husband has a dinner or something when he goes out, I can also arrange my own show, he is not at home, I can't stay, why should I let the family stay alone.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    He doesn't come home, and neither do you.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Go to a crowded place and take out the ** pretending to be a mess. Find a brick to carry and take it to your head if necessary. Strangers don't know your name, so don't pay attention, you can say my brother, my dad is in front, what is there to wait in advance.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I think it's better for you to buy one in Shanghai, maybe you can rent one.

    I think it's not bad for you to go to undergraduate school, after all, you have to rely on your academic qualifications to find a job now.

    I really hope that after I finish college, I can go to the south to develop, because I grew up in the north.

    by a way: Is it cold in Shanghai in winter? I heard that there is no heating.

    In fact, if you find a job, you don't need to go to undergraduate school, isn't the purpose of going to school level by level just to find a job! (Maybe I'm narrow-minded).

    Can I ask you some questions about the South?

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    The landlord should ask himself these three questions:

    1. What was your girlfriend like, what is she like now, and why?

    2. It's time to relax after the college entrance examination, but why would a person be obsessed with a game to such an extent, let alone a girl? What are you not worried about?

    3. Will your girlfriend invite you out to play? It's a good time in spring, so let's go out and have fun, wouldn't it? Do you have to do quests with the men in the game to farm dungeons?

    Has there been more messy people in your girlfriend's QQ? Are you not in touch as often as you used to?

    If you can't answer these questions, congratulations, you're a very pure kind of child. Not suitable for love.

    The game is fake, just entertainment, and what about your girlfriend? Is the college entrance examination over? Did she play before? Is there a boy who is playing with him? I don't know, I'm just talking.

    If you keep going like this, I can guarantee you'll end it sooner or later. I don't know how to persuade me, I just want to tell the landlord: pay attention, maybe you will be her ex-boyfriend in the near future.

    What you have to do is maybe ask her face to face, whether she wants to play or be happy with you. I don't think this is a woman asking a man. Your girlfriend. I can't stand this kind of woman if I meet it.

    Has the landlord figured it out? Did you go and ask her? I hope she can change her mind and tell her that games are just games, and don't end up entertaining herself. I hope you are happy

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Again, a smart woman wouldn't waste all her time playing games. You persuade her well, or find some articles on the Internet about girlfriends playing games and boyfriends are helpless, there should be, hehe, but boys are addicted to playing games and rarely hear girls playing games obsessed, my brother used to love playing games very much, and then I asked him to take me to play, I wanted to try how attractive this thing is, and then I played it to know, it was really a deceptive game, fighting monsters fighting monsters earning points fighting monsters, isn't that a deception of time and money? What if you play and level up?

    In real life, I still have to eat, I have to work, I have to pay rent, hehe, in fact, I have all these I told my brother that it is useless, and then my brother got married and had a child, and the pressure was great, and he slowly got better. Your girlfriend may be under pressure from the college entrance examination and want to relax, so it's better to talk to her about girls.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    You tell her. Love the game or love you. I've seen a lot of examples. This kind of woman still plays online games after getting married. Those who ignore their families will be separated early.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    You secretly play a number, go up to her, talk to her, anyway, you know everything she likes, she is interested in you, you marry her, and when she can't do without you, divorce her, and tell her what feelings there are in the network, be realistic! Although it is despicable, I think it is more effective. Another way is to wait for her to get tired of playing by herself...

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    This shows that your girlfriend is missing something, people who are addicted to the Internet generally have some psychological disorders, you must find this obstacle to help him get rid of the addiction, care more about her, one day she will understand.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Do what you like to do, do what you want to do, whether it's dull or boring. Others, with time, or passing, or falling--- appreciating others is a realm, being kind to others is a kind of mind, caring for others is a quality, and understanding others is a kind of self-cultivation.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    It's better for her to play the Seeker Game than to go out on a date everywhere! Think about the bright side! Brothers.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Play with her Take care of everything from the game to reality...

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    You can also play with her, and you can't just take her to play.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    If you go out on a trip, you can leave for 1 or 2 weeks, and you're not going to be interested

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    After a while, I will naturally get tired of it.

    Let it be......

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    It shows that you are very important in my world, and it is an exaggeration to say that I am not interested in living without you.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    It means "I can't live without you" and "I don't know what to do without you".

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    What do you call her stepping on 2 boats, it's obviously you digging people's corners!

    RP ah RP digging corners is not good It is not supported and discouraged.

    So morally you are in a disadvantageous position, and in the case of a girl who has a difficult choice, you better be generous Just because you met too late, so you should take the initiative to give up

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Are you adults, how do you seem to be drinking at the player's house.

    There is no room for sand in the eyes of a lover, let alone another man?

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Come on, keep her, this time you have no choice, it's all about her and she will cherish her when she comes back, she chooses the first one, and you will have a good time, it can be seen that you have many memories that will be very painful in front of you, but you remember to go to bed early and do crazy things, so as to avoid being alone, you won't think about it! Good luck with you, buddy.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    That's a question he should have asked.

    Doesn't it feel strange to ask?

    The fault should not be yours.

    Maybe you should think about how much she deserves your love.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    She has 2 boats, and you have 2 boats. A tooth for a tooth, hehe!

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Feelings are to be loyal, and she says what you think to see what she means!

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    The landlord's literature is not very good!

    The woman stepped on two boats and kicked it immediately, anyway, the landlord doesn't suffer!

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    She steps on two boats, and you cut it in two

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Quoting the author's source words: Let her kick my hand and pinch my hand, but I won't be angry1, I'm a woman, and I'm often like this, I see 1 cold sweat here...

    Add, when the fire is big, I want to use a chair and row him.

    To quote the author's source: She told me to wait for her for two years.

    2. I'm sorry, I think of the freshness period and after-sales service period.

    To quote the author's source: She promised me to choose one of us.

    3. I feel the vegetable market...

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    If you haven't read the content, I'll tell you to dump her!

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Let's overturn the boat for her! ~

    It's so unbelievable !!

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Break up, feelings need loyalty.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    No. 。

    A lot of newbies think that advertising is fine, it's just a small factor...

    As long as you insist on writing, you will naturally pay attention, even if you don't look at it, you will slowly cultivate your own readers, when the mortal cultivator refused to sign a few times, it is not by the iron support of enthusiastic readers, the author's unremitting writing of books has such popularity today.

    The starting point is written to six or seven hundred thousand words before signing a lot... Do you write a book to exercise your pen skills, or do you just sign a contract wholeheartedly?

    If it's the latter, it's recommended to capture the essence of "yy"... If you are impatient, the 15w word is the limit of a novice.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    The most important thing is the content, you have to rely on your ** to attract people, not advertising, is there ** in the book that buys advertising? It's all some junk books about success and management, right?

    So the most important thing is to write a good book, calm down, and when you write 100w words, look back, how is your urgent idea and almost giving up at the beginning?

    So, friend, writing is a very lonely thing and a very personal thing.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    Dizzy, how long has it been, newcomer, 600,000 words, there will be so-so data that can be read.

    A new book of 30,000 words will only have a glance, and it is generally given up directly. Of course, if your book is good, it will be signed. However, the general possibility ......Hehe.

    My first book, 200,000 words, more than 1,000 clicks, 100 recommendations; The second book has 200,000 words and 10,000 points, and I have written about 6,700,000 words before and after, and I dare not say that there is a countersignature now.

    Writers, not so easy to mix. Think about what else to do, don't look at those so-called gods, all of them add up to only a few dozen, more than a billion people out of these dozens, this probability, winning 100 million is about the same.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    When you write to 100,000, you will consider whether you want to tj or not

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