How do you want to be easy going, how can you make your personality more easy going?

I used to be a very tall person, no one can look down, then read a book, learned a few tricks, and now is a very easy-going person The first is to learn to laugh, whether you like him or not, in the workplace or in school or at home, to learn to smile, its motivation is really scary, not only to bring a good mood to others but also to bring good luck to yourself, the first time I participated in the work, it was with a good attitude to see everyone smile won everyone's praise, and then the people who hated me at first also liked me, And the work has been promoted by two levels in a row; Then there is the good thing about others, and often tell him; Wait a minute when you want to lose your temper, dozens of seconds, and in these ten seconds, think about whether you have to lose your temper, and there is no other way to solve it? Nine and a half times out of ten, you will find another way to solve it, especially if you talk back to your family, you need to laugh a little, dozens of seconds, and it may be fine

Believe me, I was a child with autism when I was in elementary and junior high school, I barely spoke, and when I was eighteen years old, I almost lost my voice, and that's how it changed

Impulsiveness is the devil.

Think twice. Impatient and willful, after receiving the baptism of society.

The ego will be calm and mature.

Haste makes waste.

Everything will pass with time.

It became sleek.

It's also cute to be a little willful and impatient.

Maybe I'll miss it when I grow up.

Why are you in a hurry? Actually, I'm just like you. Usually it's fine, but when something happens, it becomes urgent and unreasonable.

But now I'm much better. Because I'm going to regulate myself. I don't want to take everything seriously, and in a different way, to achieve a certain effect, I have to use roundabout tactics.

Having fun is the most important thing. Friend, you try it too, it's something to take your time, it's important to smile first. I hope we can all be more peaceful and have better relationships. Right!

It's such a nice place, everyone is so accommodating and happy.

The quality of a person's temper is related to a person's character, and a person's character is related to a person's virtue, and virtue cannot be pretended, and virtue must be cultivated bit by bit.

Grumpy people are generally more impulsive people, in the face of many things often only rely on their own perceptual understanding to deal with problems, this is very bad, if when dealing with problems do not be so impulsive and rational look at the problem then the temper will be much better.

Grumpy people will often talk and act aggressively, which not only gives a bad impression to others, but also encourages your short temper while others tolerate you.

Grumpy people usually lack self-control, self-control is actually very easy to exercise, when you are doing something that you find very interesting, if you stop doing it and there is nothing to lose except to make you feel unpleasant.

How can I get rid of my short temper?

First and foremost, it is important to have a good understanding of the dangers of being short-tempered. In our social life, we always have to contact and interact with other people, hoping to get the favor, friendship, appreciation, and cooperation of others (of course, not everyone), otherwise, we will feel lonely, lonely, lifeless, and unable to move an inch. People's behavior is regulated and controlled by consciousness, and when we understand the dangers of being short-tempered, we can have a demand from our hearts to change their short-temperedness.

Second, it is necessary to strengthen ideological cultivation. Only when we always think of others in our hearts and respect the interests and needs of others will we be warm, considerate and loving to others. Only by always putting the interests of the collective in the first place can we not be rash and stubborn, and can we be calm and calm in the face of problems, and think twice.

Finally, you must have determination and perseverance to get rid of your temper, and if you can't remember it today, you should be cautious, and after two days, you will still be the same. It takes determination and perseverance, and you will definitely get rid of your short temper.

You can read more humor books and control your emotions properly.

Read more books, especially the texts of Shi Tiesheng and Zhang Ailing, and read more, and you will find that you can naturally form a kind of calmness without deliberately.

First of all, wear cool clothes, be generous in words and deeds, don't be a mother-in-law, often communicate with boys, and treat people a little colder. Even if you're unhappy, you have to pretend like you're fine, and when you encounter something unhappy, don't ......get angry with your buddies

It's also about your own state of mind.

The key is to rely on yourself, and if you have experienced more things, you will naturally be pampered.

Character to take your time.。。 There's no rush. Say something they like to hear when playing with your classmates. That is, the common language View the original post".

Try to have more contact with people with cheerful and lively personalities... It might be much better to be friends with someone who shares your interests.

Usually, I think more about my sadness, I think about everything I have, I think of myself as a pessimistic protagonist, and I am depressed after a long time.

1. Personality is affected by the environment (from childhood to adulthood) is difficult to change, if you want to change, you must have persistent patience, first set a plan for yourself, do something you don't want to do, insist on doing it every day, do it for a long time, you will develop a habit, habit becomes a character, more contact with the crowd, read more, read more, exercise yourself to be smooth, and think more from the perspective of others.

2. Learn to respect and understand others, only if you deeply understand these, you will not lose your temper when you encounter things, followed by self-cultivation, read more books on the etiquette of the stove and rich in philosophy, and often think about the truth, to improve your self-cultivation, in addition to cultivating more personal hobbies, to be open-minded, don't imprison your character in a narrow circle.

Category: Annoyance.

Problem description: I have an easy-going personality, introverted, not good at words, rarely communicate with the boss, usually bury my head in work, I often help other colleagues do things, but my disadvantage is that I am often late for work;

There is a colleague in the older grade who has a domineering personality, is good at forming gangs, usually refuses to work, and pushes a lot of excuses to others if he can't do it, often watches movies on the Internet during working hours, and the boss immediately goes to pour tea and chats, she goes to work on time but often leaves early, she often calls ** to the boss to ask when she will come back, if the boss does not come back, she will leave early, as if work is for the boss to see.

I've heard from other colleagues that she often tells her boss behind her back that I'm late, not working, etc.

The boss had a bad impression of me and often scolded me.

What am I going to do? How can I let the boss know that she is such a person.

Analysis: Actually, the crux of the problem you mentioned is the question of how to build an image. And you think that the image of the tree is not recognized by your boss, but the image he has set up is.

So, first of all, analyze whether you think this is right, whether you are really not recognized. If, your advantage boss knows, it is not too much of a problem, and it is relatively simple, and what you should do at the moment is not only to get to work not only not late, but also to go a few minutes early. In terms of establishing my own image, I think that going a few minutes early in the morning is much more useful than a day of repentance, and I myself go ten minutes early.

Regardless of morning or evening, the leader always sees that he has started to work, especially when the leader goes early, he generally has work pressure in his heart, and what does it feel like to see that you have worked? Although everyone knows that those few minutes can't do much.

If your boss doesn't understand your strengths, the problem is a bit more complicated, mainly because the boss thinks more about his own feelings. Your character is not suitable for such a boss.

In addition, your colleague has every right to choose his own way of communicating, and his approach is completely normal, I think it's just that you can't get used to it, and you choose some words to describe him to make people think he's a bad person. Other colleagues tell you that he sued you, first, whether the complaint was wrong. Second, the person who told you didn't say it to his face, and he also said bad things about others behind his back.

The troubles are all because of your own excessive attachment Even if you continue like this, there will be no good results, why do we blindly give? No one is selfless, everyone wants to be rewarded for their efforts, at least they have to be recognized, in fact, the situation is very clear, but you don't face it, forget it, it just takes a while to let go, if you can't love yourself well, then what to do to love others well, yes, every truth is difficult to do, maybe it's easier to know than to do, but I can only say that no one can help you, only yourself, why practice yourself if you are ignored, maybe I am like you in the past, time can really change everything Learn to be strong.

Just kidding everyone. Mingle Don't get angry with some jokes from others, it's easy-going after a long time

As long as you do everything through your own thoughts, you can become easy-going and think more about others!