I m just 19 years old, and I m so confused that I can t even put myself in my place. How it should b

Updated on society 2024-05-19
56 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    How to say, when I was as old as you, the psychology was the same as you, but at that time, the family only let me study hard, but I was not the material for reading, I wanted to paint, I waited for my family to sleep every night, I painted, just like that, continued, but after high school, my family didn't let me take an art class, I signed up for a science class, but I didn't want to study science since I was a child, I wanted to study literature, I didn't get a wish, but I didn't get the college entrance examination, I went to a junior college, and finally I had a college upgrade, and now I work, But I feel that I have learned too little, when I was in school, blindly to pursue scholarships, until now it is useless, I want to say to you, is not to blindly listen to the words of parents, most of their views are based on their own era to say, I am not here to say that you do not listen to their words, or you think more about yourself, let them check for you, it's okay, now if you are not very good at learning, just learn more things, now the boss is not small, the future road is to rely on yourself, I didn't say at the time, my family is all rural, there is no big reason, now I understand, but they are all having fun, so I am also studying every day now, okay, think about it, I wish you to get out of the misunderstanding as soon as possible and find your own position.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Hehe, you've just graduated now, aren't you? I have time to talk. I felt the same way during that time. But now it's fine.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    If you are a boy or a girl, I think you had better learn a skill from a master, such as decoration carpentry, plumber, etc., no matter what, you must learn a skill before the age of twenty-five, and after thirty, you will regret it later!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Salesman, do more eloquence and do everything from scratch, there is no shortcut to this, and you don't need to ask others, ask yourself.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Calm down and think about your goals.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    What kind of job you are suitable for, which direction to develop, only according to your personal ability and quality, preferences, market demand and other factors to a comprehensive analysis, we can only give you suggestions, say the general direction, you have to consider it yourself.

    When you first start looking for a job, you just need to avoid being too picky. What is certain is that your confusion is temporary and normal at the same time. Everyone feels more or less lost in the process of growing up.

    To get out of this situation, it is recommended that you set a goal for yourself, that is, planning, according to your own ability and the future needs of the market. Then set some stage goals, the kind that can be achieved by jumping on your own. When it is achieved, set a goal that can be achieved by hard work, so that the final goal is reached step by step.

    The goal should not be too big, but it should be within reach, so that you will not be confused and discouraged, and in this way, you will be able to get happiness from the success of achieving your goal.

    The goal can be any aspect, such as finding a job you like, or determining a skill training you need, and then setting a work-study goal, so that you can make a little progress every day, work and study steadily, and accumulate experience, so that you will definitely gain something; After that, set a new stage goal and work hard. Give it a try, instead of being confused and entangled, make something that will be beneficial to you in the future.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Be young, work hard, seize opportunities, and have a bright future.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Recharge yourself'Learn more and make more positive friends.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Reading, if you're not sick, society isn't so easy to mix if you don't have a back door.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If you want to get married, you can get married, and if you want to have children, you can have children.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Learn a craft and pave the way for the future.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Now this society is really beautiful compared to the previous society, to be full of confidence in life, to have self-confidence, to have a positive attitude towards work and life, think about the children in remote mountainous areas, think about the grandparents of the older generation, how they came over, well, I hope you will understand.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    19 years old, what a good age! How can you be confused! First of all, you should be good at discovering your own advantages, make yourself appear more confident, and then, around your hobbies, give full play to your advantages in your work, let yourself be recognized by the people around you, as for planning your life, then you must first be clear about what you want, figure out your goals, and then find a platform that suits you, and use the platform to achieve your goals!

    Don't face everything with a negative attitude! Have a positive attitude and be full of positive energy! That's how I went through, I left the workforce at the age of 17, became an executive at the age of 19, and had a six-figure figure for the first time in the bank at the age of 20!

    These are inseparable from hard work! If you want to, then you will do it!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Find a job you like, the most important thing for a girl is to be independent.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Work hard, learn, progress, struggle.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Add QQ, chat hope it will help you.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I'm only 19 years old, and I can't do anything.

    It doesn't matter if you fail, youth is your capital.

    Do whatever you want.

    You have to fight while you're young.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Choose a technique that you want to learn and stick to it

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    The academic background is not high, and it is necessary to continuously improve! Learn more! Make more friends! To meet some of the more successful people, make friends with them, you will learn a lot, your horizons will be broadened, and you will gradually find your own direction!

    Don't worry, youth is capital, take your time, you will always improve!

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Take a long-term view. Will see through something. will find your direction in life.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    You need to go out and walk more, see what young people are doing outside, increase your own literacy, even if you walk with those college students, you can also chat with them very highly, let them feel that you are not useless, learn more social experience, can increase people's life experience! When you are young, you can learn more things, and you will not be pressured by more skills!

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Education is just a proof, there is a 20-year-old master in Xiangtan who can't even wash dishes. You have the capital (young) as long as you are diligent, use your brains more, and make more positive energy to stretch yourself, what you can do, set a big goal (what you can achieve with your own efforts), and then take a few steps, how much time to complete each step, and achieve it step by step. As long as you do it, your life will be wonderful!

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    If you don't have a degree, even if you study a large amount overnight, it's better than nothing.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    You can learn some skills and work harder.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Neurolinguistics. Shang Zhisheng, Chenggongxue, Chen Anzhi.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Set a goal for yourself, then work towards your goal, change your shortcomings, learn from the strengths of others, and make yourself a good person.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    In fact, life is very short, and when you are confused today, maybe there is someone somewhere in the world who sighs, if only you could live one more day. A person is born to work hard all the time, inferiority complex is indispensable, self-confidence is indispensable.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    The so-called confusion is just that the strength is not worthy of the dream, go to learn the technique, you may suffer.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    In the direction you want....Change yourself.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Set a small goal for yourself, work hard to complete it, and then set a big goal when you have confidence.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Have faith in yourself, believe in yourself, and you can do what others can do.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    In the eyes of many people, you are always useful.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Find a goal to strive for and work hard for it.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Then try to make yourself mature and perfect.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Is it a rebellion? It's still not good, and I can correctly recognize my own badness. It's already good.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Have faith in yourself and be the best version of yourself!

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Work hard to make money, and self-confidence will come.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Everyone comes into this world with his value

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    If you are self-aware, yes, then you want to do the fading.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    What do you know? I think about it too much.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Write out the bad ones and see how many there are.

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    19 years old, it is the age to go to school or work I am also 19 years old, I am studying the Internet of Things, although there are a lot of things, but I am busy all day long, I dare not say anything, I have confidence in the future, I will still work in the future, men, how much to have a sense of responsibility, but also to be aware of opportunities and challenges.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    You don't even know what to do, and others don't know what you can do, and there is a road under your feet, so why let others give you a way? If you don't wake up, you'll always be lost. A word for you: it is better to rely on yourself than on anyone!

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    No way, it's difficult to have a bad family background.

    You have to make some money before you invest or start a business based on your hobby.

    If you can endure hardship, you can learn from a decorator. No way, at the moment only this is easier to make money.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    Let's learn something, it's still young after all.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    If your family allows, go for a walk.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    19 years old is actually still a relatively young age.

    You can also study, and then take control of your direction in the meantime.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    Do what you can. Just don't gnaw at the old.

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    Find something that you like and have a future, and do it unswervingly, as long as you don't get discouraged and don't give up, there will be light, see if I'm suitable.

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    It's a good time, work hard with a good attitude, and there's always something for you.

  51. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    Didn't you read! If you're a student, study hard! If you have already entered the society, hurry up and learn a craft! Don't waste your time.

  52. Anonymous users2023-12-21

    If you were Wang Sizhi, you wouldn't have to do anything.

  53. Anonymous users2023-12-20

    It's up to you to learn what you like.

  54. Anonymous users2023-12-19

    Whatever your ideal is, work towards it.

  55. Anonymous users2023-12-18

    Don't be confused, learn that craft, you will be a master.

  56. Anonymous users2023-12-17

    Need to know what you want? Like what? Happiness is the most important thing

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