Why do I feel uncomfortable at school?

In college, I am as confused as you, we have different lifestyles, it shows that we are very isolated, sometimes look at the suburbs and rural students, more scheming and selfish than the students in the city, not very polite, to gradually infect them, see their benefits, just get used to it, sometimes don't force yourself, because friendship is also time to prove!

When I was in junior high school, I was not good at sports because of my bad grades, and I went to a class with a better learning style, and there were a few boys in this class who had poor academic performance, but they were all rich people, and I was not good at grades and money (always discussing brand-name goods), so I didn't have an advantage, and it was not easy to communicate with others, and others always showed off in front of me, at that time everyone watched the NBA, but I didn't know how to watch it, and I didn't like to watch it, and I didn't have any communication in terms of interest. In the end, in that class, there was only isolation and bullying.

Then I went to the technical school, most of the students in the technical school are rural, 80% of our class alone are rural, but I found that there is no difference between urban and rural people, everyone can be treated equally, equal communication, where I feel joy, others use my things I also give, I don't have any opinion of them, they give me joy, I don't have to blame them.

If you don't let go of your heart, you should communicate with everyone well, you are from the city, so you can't hate the living habits of rural people, you just get used to it, you will get happy.

You should be an introvert, and you should slowly adapt to this environment. Talk about your outgoing personality.

Let go and try to integrate yourself into the school family

You feel uncomfortable suddenly seeing an acquaintance, or feel that an acquaintance is uncomfortable seeing you, maybe you feel quite safe to close yourself, but others feel that you are alienating him, avoiding him, but you can't find a suitable reason, over time the people around you will also alienate you, and finally one day, you find that except for your parents and relatives, everyone is a stranger with you, and after you really meet your sense of security, you will find out how lonely you are.

There must be a reason to be afraid.,You're just rarely communicating with friends or don't have a close friend to talk to.,Or family education, etc.,In fact, it's nothing for acquaintances to meet.,Say hello.,It's very simple.,You can try.,Just a hello.。。

Me too, oh my! It turns out that some people would think the same way as me!!

I don't think it's okay if I go to and from school.

Walking alone on the street. I would feel sick all over.

It's weird to walk.

Maybe it's thinking too much.

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Why do you feel uncomfortable?

Young people always have a rebellious period I didn't like to go to school before and wanted to take a break from school, but I was beaten up by my dad and sent to the army Hehe, so it's normal.

Adjust your mentality, all discomfort will pass, and I believe that tomorrow will be better!

There is no environment that will make you feel great, more or less uncomfortable, learn to adjust your mentality, audit a school has its merits, objective factors, don't let him influence your subjective factors.

First see what makes you uncomfortable in the school, and then solve it in a targeted manner.

Why what to learn to adapt to the environment.

I don't know how old you are, what school you go to, whether you are dissatisfied with the school regulations, or the teachers, or the classmates around you, or your own problems, if the school is not suitable for you, it is recommended to change one, if it is your own problem, adjust your mentality and let yourself adapt to the environment.

There is no other way, if you feel that your current major is not satisfactory, you can arm yourself while you are not out of school to learn something else.

Campus is a person's fondest memory!! Cherish it!!

Find out what the problem is and try to change yourself or your environment as much as possible.

Of course, it's uncomfortable to be controlled by others, and you can't do what you want to do.

All I can say is anyone.

..I know.

Wouldn't it be nice to change your schedule and give your squatting time at home?

Psychological effects

Reconcile your own schedule.

Smile every day! Laugh happily from the bottom of your heart.

Then it's about paying attention to sleep.

Be mindful of what you eat. Pay attention to exercise.

If you can't do it, just see a doctor.

There is no learning atmosphere, the root cause is that the school is not very good, it is recommended that you go to a well-known university in China.

Everyone doesn't learn, you don't learn, you just go with the flow, and you can't learn anything in college.

If you don't study yourself, do you blame the school?

The second volume of New Concept English began to memorize one lesson every day. It is required to memorize and look at the translation below to be able to fluently repeat the original sentences of the text. After memorizing the second book according to my requirements, I can pass the university level 6 exam. There are 96 lessons in the two volumes, which can be taken in four months, and it takes half an hour every day.

If your pronunciation is not up to par, it is recommended to learn Li Yang's pronunciation method. Rigorous training, pure voice.

From the first year of junior high school to my senior year, the above two methods can summarize my English learning path. I feel very relaxed, I never memorize words, I don't do papers (unless it's homework), I don't participate in training, I spend half an hour every day memorizing a new concept, and nothing else.

Note: The results of my own practice are: pure pronunciation, fluent speaking, English score of 140 or above in the college entrance examination, and easy to pass the fourth and sixth levels of the university. I am preparing for IELTS now.

Good luck!