How to tell if a man has betrayed him

Let's see if he's dodging every day.

1. Don't look at people with your eyes, because it's easy to wander, and don't listen with your ears, because it may be a lie. Feel it with your heart, it is really never fake, and it is absolutely impossible to be fake.

2. The person who is most likely to betray you is often the person who blows the pat on you; The person who hurts you the most must be the person you love the most. The person who really wants you to make progress will not pat you on the back, and he will kindly point out your problems, even if he knows that you will feel uncomfortable because of it. A person can hurt you to the bone, the premise must be with your permission, you love him, you have a special affection for him, so he will make a mess of your life, if you don't nod, no one can get in.

3. In this life, there are three bowls of unpalatable noodles: human noodles, scenes, and feelings. Can't be too much, and can't lose grace, it's really difficult to get it just right, we are all slowly groping in life.

4. In the end, all emotions are just value exchanges. Once it is not possible to provide value to each other. Two people will break up and divorce. When the value of one party is higher than that of the other party, the high value will look down on the low value, and the other party has not betrayed you, but you are not worthy.

5. If you are one point higher than others, others will be jealous of you. If you are five points higher than others, others will envy you. You are ten points taller than others, and others will respect you.

1. Work is suddenly busy, go home late every day, if it is an ordinary person, our working hours are almost fixed, even if we suddenly work overtime, it is impossible to work overtime every day, even if the programmer is not able to work every day. If he is suddenly busy now, always talking to you about working overtime and working overtime, otherwise the leader values him and takes him out to socialize, and the time to come back is getting later and later, at this time you should really pay attention, he may just use work as an excuse and start to linger outside the flowers, not knowing which gentle township to immerse himself in. 2. If a man suddenly no longer shushes you as before, but looks at you coldly, and has nothing to say, it can only mean that he may have betrayed you, or no longer loves you.

Because a good relationship requires both to give to each other, if you suddenly don't get any attention from him, it can only mean that there is really a rift between you, of course, the mistake cannot be caused by one party, it may be because of you, or because of him. 3. A man suddenly likes to dress up and look at the people around us, if he has no object, you can see that he will not dress up in any way, which is like a woman who has no one to pursue, and can not find the person he likes is the same reason, you carefully observe the man around you, if he from a sloppy image, suddenly came a 180-degree change, dressed himself up very handsome. In the past, every time you asked him to clean up, he always complained to you, but now he doesn't need you to say anything, he takes the initiative to dress up, and his whole body is meticulous.

When faced with a person who betrays me in my life, I will depend on the situation, because trusting a person tends to believe in all of him. If this betrayal is well-intentioned, or if there are some ulterior reasons, then go and find out more. If you judge that the person is not half-hearted about himself, then of course he can be forgiven.

If the opposite is the case, and the person is just disguising his usual behavior and has been brewing in his heart how to betray you, then this betrayal is not worthy of forgiveness.

The ancient Greek philosopher Heraclitus said, "It is impossible for a man to step into the same river twice" is justified. This means that people cannot make the same mistakes, and if a person betrays you out of malice, then you cannot forgive him, otherwise he will repeat the mistake again and again.

What's worse is that he sees your kindness as weak, even crushed, and will cause you more damage.

Sometimes, people who are too honest tend to be taken advantage of by others. Being too honest is stupid, and being too kind is considered weak. After all, in this era of fierce competition, many times honest people are tolerant and humble, he doesn't seem to have any opinions, and he doesn't know how to refuse, so he is at the mercy of others.

So, when necessary, you have to show your personality and guts. There are often such things in life, when you kindly forgive the person who betrayed you, forgive him for the first time, he will cry with gratitude and be good to you; But the second time, he would only faintly say thank you; After many times, he will not hesitate to think that you should forgive him, otherwise he will think that you are too stingy.

This is the so-called grievance, such a person cannot forgive him in the first place, let alone give him a chance to hurt you again. You should wipe him out of your circle and stop talking to him.

There are people who are close to you, not because they respect you or see you as a friend, they just treat you as a step, step on your head if necessary, and betray you at any time.

Some people have softer hearts. When others beg him, he thinks about others and makes some unrealistic fantasies, even thinking that the other party will be lost, know that he is wrong, and never do it again. This psychology belongs to the likable character.

Over time, your kindness may not be exchanged for the sincerity of others, but it may be exchanged for the contempt of others. Your forgiveness may not be reciprocated, but it may hurt. Your kindness ends up hurting yourself, but your tolerance turns into indulgence.

So, once you don't think the other person deserves to be forgiven, then you can express your feelings directly.

Some people just like to bully people, and when you learn to retaliate, they will respect you and even fear you.

The more I experience, the more I believe this sentence, and there is nothing wrong with being ruthless. As the saying goes, no one shall offend me, I shall not offend anyone, and I shall not tolerate anyone who offends me.

If a man betrays his marriage and transfers all the common property in the marriage, the man must not be of the same mind as you. I think the bottom stupid friend line in the relationship is the strap and the betrayal.

It depends on whether the other party can still take on its due responsibility. It depends on whether the other party can give in terms of money.

It can be seen from all aspects of daily life, to see if he often goes to Guan Xinyou, whether he is stupid to check whether he deliberately brings pure awareness of his mistakes, whether he will feel that he is a victim.

If you pretended to be slow because Qi Zao was forced by external pressure to get married instead of because of mutual affection, this kind of emotional foundation is very thin and can't withstand the wind and rain, and the relationship between the two people always stays in a state of business, without deep emotional interaction.

When a boy chooses to betray, he often makes countless excuses for his betrayal, and even blames the other party for the reason, as if this is the only way to make himself feel at ease.

When the word betrayal appears, it means that the relationship between the two has already had problems, and the best way to deal with a man's betrayal is not to choose revenge, if you take revenge, in the end, you will not get anything, but waste your precious time.

Of course, when a man betrays, the anger in a woman's heart will accumulate over time, and in this process of revenge, it is always herself who suffers the most.

The best way to treat the person you hate is to prove that you are living well, and you may occasionally think about it with a little hatred and regret, but these will eventually become passers-by in life, face each day positively and optimistically, and one day you will find a better person.

There is only one and countless betrayals, in fact, betrayal is the same as domestic violence, when a man chooses to betray, the explanation given may be hot-headed, drinking and mistaking things, these excuses are about to be said to be rotten, but once there is betrayal, the trust and sense of security between the two have long been destroyed, and these explanations have become meaningless.

After being betrayed, forgiveness or revenge is not actually the best policy, it is difficult to stay sane when something happens to you, at this time forgiveness can't get over this pimple in your heart, and revenge hurts yourself.

The best way is to calm yourself down, and sort out the relationship, and finally leave decisively, if you have made up your mind not to forgive, don't be overly entangled with the other party, end the relationship directly, turn around and leave, chic, and live beautifully.

No matter what way you choose in the end, you still have to devote yourself to life, it is useless to be sad in the past, it is better to keep yourself busy, after all, life has to go on.

You can find someone who is better than the other party, so that the other party will regret it very much, and you will also feel that you have not recognized yourself in life. thinks that this is the right approach, or it may be that the other party is particularly bad, so they will break up in this way, and they will also force the other party to break up in this way.

I think the best way is to be yourself, look for evidence at the right time, and hit him; I don't think they usually realize their mistakes, and if they do, they don't.