The woman is too fat and says she has no sense of security, and she is afraid that the man will leav

Each has his own love, and it doesn't have to be like this

What's yours is yours, what's not yours isn't yours, no matter what's yours.

Women are insecure, and I think both women and men will support this. Women often ask men, "Do you love me?"

If I fell into the water at the same time as your mother, who would you save first? ”。

Why are women insecure?

The human brain is mainly divided into two ways of thinking: sensual and rational, with men dominating rationality and women dominating sensibility. Rationality depends on logical judgment, and sensibility depends on sensory experience. Because of the sensibility, so**.

Because of sensibility, women will rely on intuition when judging things, and it is precisely because of this that women are more sensitive to pictures, colors, **, language, etc. However, women generally don't say why.

When judging things by emotion, if you want to achieve a level of safety, you will need to be able to achieve a level of safety in all aspects, otherwise, as long as there is a slight mistake in one aspect, the woman will have a sense of crisis, and then enter a state of total denial.

It is precisely because of this that everything changes in the eyes of women, including women themselves. Of course, things that are changing will give people a feeling that they are not easy to grasp and understand, and it is indeed difficult to grasp in fact. How can women have a sense of security about things that are difficult to grasp?

What is the manifestation of a woman's insecurity?

Generally speaking, insecure people are prone to anxiety, unnecessary over-worrying about things, lack of self-confidence, care too much about what others think of them, always want to rely on others at critical moments, hope that others can help them, at the same time, deep down in their hearts, they don't trust themselves and others enough, they are always skeptical about the people and things around them, and some people always feel that they are sick and are afraid of death.

Are you insecure?

1.Sleep with the lights on.

2.Sleep habits with something in your arms or curled up to sleep.

3.Don't believe in love.

4.Eat a lot or nothing.

5.Nostalgia, arms hugging, fear of the dark, inexplicable loneliness.

6.An irresistible sense of fear.

7.Prefer clothes with pockets.

8.Wear clothes without pockets and don't know where to put your hands.

9.Doesn't like to talk or is very talkative.

10.Curled up.

11.Loved the corners and windows.

12.Go to bed late.

13.Read.

14.Writing and smiling innocently.

15.Put your heart in the most tender place in your heart and live in your own world!

16.Likes to hug or shake hands, this kind of physical contact.

I love you too much, I care about you too much, so I'm afraid you'll leave.

Of course, I hope that boys can take out their shoulders and be a solid harbor for girls! So at this time, you have to be bold and proactive!

Of course, I want to find a boy with a sense of security as a strong backing.

I want a man to be by her side.

The lack of that boy gives her a sense of security.

You still don't understand that? Pursue it!

Very independent, good at work, has a lot of friends of the opposite sex, and will often go out to play with friends. The most fundamental thing is that a woman who lives a wonderful life without this man will make a man insecure, and it doesn't have that much to do with how beautiful this woman is.

I'm a little suspicious that your colleague is fooling you Just kidding you Not every girl likes chubby, and I haven't heard that chubby people have a sense of security.

Personally, it doesn't mean that I still like to be tall.

What's done is done? Men cook women, and it's not normal for women to cook men, right?

It's normal for men and women to quarrel together, after all, you are not the same body, and you are often together, and it is inevitable that some friction will occur.

But why are you over-the-top, serious and not serious?

I think you should talk about it anyway. Two people need a tacit understanding when they are together! Get to know each other better, so that there will be fewer disputes together in the future!

Sometimes a man's heart is also very fragile, and even a word from you may have a big blow to him, so get to know him more!

I wish you all happiness....

Don't think so much and be so complicated! The original meaning of this I say to my boyfriend is to say, you don't care enough about me! Be attentive and considerate, and be more caring. There will be a sense of security.

He wants the woman to care more about him

I'm afraid if I have a beloved girl! It is estimated that you have a conflict, you are more attentive, the girl must have someone to accompany her sincerely and care for her, not only her boyfriend, but also the most intimate friend of the opposite sex! Come on, I wish you happiness!

If you don't have maturity, will you find a girlfriend when you are mature? Not late.

If you want to be handsome, brave, and there will be no girl who wants to say to you and will leave you.

My woman likes men to care or talk gently! It's a lot if it's not boring.

Because you love him so much at the moment, you are afraid of losing his thoughts! I hope you treat her well! Good work! Be yourself and be sensible! No problem, you will be happy forever! Bless you!

Maybe it's that girl who fascinates you, and you can't bear to give up.

Normal, have faith in yourself! I thought this way when I was with my girlfriend.

If you care too much, you'll naturally think about it.

This is a normal emotional behavior, which shows that you are sincere about your girlfriend.

You're too introverted, man.

Grew up in a single-parent family, right?!

No, you have to regain your self-confidence, men don't care too much about gains and losses

It's just that you lack protection and security.

It's because you're not confident enough, or you don't trust your girlfriend enough.

It belongs to those who don't want to change and are afraid of change.

No, because I care, because I love you.

I've never been afraid of my girlfriend leaving? Let him go.