I ve had a crush on him for three years, but I haven t dared to talk to him

Updated on society 2024-05-26
32 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    My God, since it's seen through, it means that he knows all this, or at least he knows that you like him, at this time, if you really want to be with him, then find a chance to confess to him and see how he reacts. If you hesitate, maybe you will miss it in this life... Come on, it's very simple, maybe he's just a friend, if you can't let it go, then go and move him, it's going to be very hard.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    It's up to you. Say, there are two paths, one is success, but what's the use of success, having a boyfriend and girlfriend? If the time is not ripe, it is still useless.

    The second is failure, after failure, the relationship may fall into the ice, and there will be no return to the original.

    Don't say it, I still can't let go of it in my heart.

    It's up to you how to do it, and I hope it helps you. — Advice from those who have come before.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    You really like him, you really like him, ask him out on vacation, and then confess.

    Why does he tell your best friend that he only treats you as a friend?

    I know you, I've had that, too.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Then you have no hope ... Maybe he likes your girlfriend. Maybe your best friend likes him, he likes your best friend, your best friend lied to you, I told the truth.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Then you can go straight to the quilt, and the reverse is fine.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Confession, women chase men into yarns, and there are no regrets after speaking.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    This sister, love is spoken out loud.

    It is better to find someone who loves you than to find someone you love him.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Confess, I'd rather he say that he doesn't like you than waste the opportunity.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    1.Before confessing, be mentally prepared.

    If you have a crush on the right person, it is easy to make a confession. If you have a crush on the wrong person, rejection is a common occurrence. Confession is accepted, no matter what, it is a small happiness. The point here is that when you decide to confess, prepare for the worst – rejection.

    Affection. It's hard to say, if you are really rejected, what can you do, you can be sad, but not too long, you can go drinking, but you can't indulge yourself, in short, you have to face the consequences of rejection calmly.

    2.Whether you want to prepare a small gift.

    Not all people like gifts, not all confessors bring gifts to confess, you must be clear about this. It is necessary to carefully analyze the personality and hobbies of the other party before making a decision. If you think it's more appropriate to bring a gift, whether it's flowers, chocolates, or something else, you have to think about it.

    You have to remember that this is related to your own happiness, and if you don't think about it yourself, how can happiness fall from the sky?

    3.Precautions for girls to confess to their crushes.

    Many girls are more reserved, and even if they have a crush, they don't dare to confess easily, and there are only a few. This part of the girls is brave and willing to work hard for their own happiness. Whether they succeed or fail is something to be recognized. I watched the movie "To Youth".

    people have feelings, "Youth is used to remember." "A person who doesn't even dare to confess his crush, when you recall your youth, is this "nostalgia" to be discounted?

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    You have a crush on someone who has been in love for three years, and you have never dared to talk to him, the other party should know, but you are afraid that you will be rejected by the other party if you say it, in fact, this is a very normal psychology, after all, you are going to enter high school, and falling in love will definitely affect your studies, plus you are indeed young to some states, and the crush is the most beautiful at that stage, and you can put this feeling in your own psychology.

    Of course, you can also tell her secretly, let him know that there is such a thing, and when you are older, in college, if you still like him, you can try to be together, but fate is not easy to say, but that state must be very beautiful.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Speaking of which, the three-year crush should have been confessed a long time ago. It's much better to be rejected, but it's also refreshing, and it's much better to be secretly hanging.

    But given that you haven't even been in high school yet, this puppy love doesn't make sense. So you might as well confess to her, it's better to be rejected.

    In any case, you should keep in touch. If you go to college and go to the same school, then you can be in a serious relationship.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    You have a crush on someone who has been in love for three years, and you have been afraid to talk to her, and she should also know that you are afraid that you will lose her if you talk to her and be rejected. In fact, you didn't tell her, you didn't lose her the same. You have been secretly in love with her for three years, you should be brave enough to confess to her, even if you fail, you have already tried, if you don't confess to her, she will have her own boyfriend in the future, you will not lose her.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I still keep my crush when I was a student, and it's definitely a good memory when I grow up.

    Objectively speaking, the relationship between men and women in school is only a role of hormones, and there are no social factors. But people are social, so putting aside sociality and pursuing it as you like is very likely to fall to pieces.

    Most of the results of immature romances on both sides are hurtful for both parties.

    When you grow up, you will naturally have more mature ideas, and you will be responsible for both parties when you fall in love at this time.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Time is the solution to everything. Maybe meet a better girl in the future. Since you can't open your mouth, let's let time solve it. If there is fate, we will meet later. Personal opinion, for reference only.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Let's be brave and say that maybe at this moment you will feel very worried about the other person's attitude, but if you think about how long life is, there are too many forks in the road, and now is only one of your life choices, just don't let yourself regret it.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I suggest you study hard, it's only junior high school now, it should be the age to learn knowledge, and you will meet the girl you like in the future, and now you are ignorant, and it is not necessarily true love, so it is still important to focus on academics.

    I remember that when I was in junior high school, I focused on my studies, so I think you should still focus on your studies, don't affect your future because of the opposite sex you like, and the second thing I want to advise you is that if you have a crush or something like that in the future, you must have the courage to confess, no matter whether you succeed or not, you will not regret it, I personally believe in the truth that if you don't confess, the success rate is 0%. But if you confess, your success rate will rise to 50%, so when I like girls, I don't have to solve it with a crush, I use a confession.

    Finally, I want to say that in fact, life cannot be smooth sailing, and the success rate of confession is not successful every time, after all, you like each other, and the other party may not like you, so you must have enough ability to bear it.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    is about to enter high school, and if you don't seize the opportunity, then she may never know, so instead of being afraid of losing her, it is better to take the initiative to confess to her.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Hello, because you're about to reach high school, don't confess your crush, you can confess to him when you finish high school. Academics in high school are very important, so you should focus on your studies.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    You don't have confidence in yourself, you like him, if you don't talk about it, then it will always be a crush on you, and there is a 50% chance of success when you say it, why not try it.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    This matter is not something that can be solved in a hurry. Should you check what is the cause and whose reason is it? This is clear, purposeful to go**.

    so as not to be blindly anxious. Then it is possible to solve the problem substantively. If there are always headless flies running around.

    It's just physically and mentally exhausting.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    As a person who has come over, I want to persuade you, you are still a child, there is no need to be entangled, study hard. Wouldn't it be better to go to the same university?

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    It's better to pluck up the courage to say it, if you don't say that you will definitely lose it, maybe it's still possible.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    If you don't try, she's someone else's.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    That's because you're still in the tangle, you like him, but you don't think you like it too much.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    In a man's heart, the most beautiful existence, or the most obsessed existence, is first love.

    And many years later, the first love has weathered into a monument in the long river of memory, which is the mark of youth and the nostalgia of a lifetime.

    After many years, the first love has even become a yardstick in the emotional world to measure all the love in the following years. The first love is the eternal enemy of the successor.

    In your youth, she was the first protagonist in your life, and once dominated the dreams of your youth. , simply like or love her as a person. It has nothing to do with her and her family background. I contact you out of the blue, and confess to you.

    Perhaps, when people reach middle age, each other's marriages are already in a state of exhaustion.

    Her life is not all smooth sailing, and perhaps her husband and family are not what she would have idealized.

    She thinks of the old love, or the kindness of you again. Subconsciously compare you to her man.

    Most men in marriage don't know romance or amorousness, or rather, it's not that they don't understand, but they don't talk about romance and amorous things with their wives.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Hahahaha, it's more than 20 years, how old are you, maybe you're used to him sending messages.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Summary. Hello, I'm glad to answer for you, you have an emotional question. You have liked him for 3 years, and a few days can make you figure out that you are only friends, then you must think carefully about whether you really like him and what you like about him.

    If it's a good thing to be friends with, you should just explain it to the other person.

    I've liked a person for 3 years, but I haven't spoken to him, and he doesn't know, and then I added him to confess to him, he didn't agree or refuse, and then we became friends, and he would reply to my messages, and he would reply to me when playing games, just a few days ago, I figured it out, and told him very politely that I didn't like him anymore, and I could be friends, but he never replied to me.

    Hello, I'm glad to answer for you, you have an emotional question. You have liked him for 3 years, and a few days can make you figure out that you are only friends, then you must think carefully about whether you really like him and what you like about him. If it's a good thing to be friends with, you should just explain it to the other person.

    I explained, but he wouldn't reply to me.

    I don't understand why he shouldn't reply to me.

    He may be angry if he doesn't reply to you, or he may feel that his behavior is incomprehensible to him, so he ignores you. Then you have to figure out for yourself why you feel like you can only be friends after only a few days. After thinking clearly, go to him and ask him not to get angry and show your attitude.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    First of all, you need to think about your own feelings and attitudes. If you really like this guy and want to pursue him, then you need to do some preparation:

    1.Understand his current relationship status: Before pursuing a partner, you need to know his current relationship status. If he already has a girlfriend, then you should respect their relationship and not try to get involved.

    2.Make connections: If you decide to pursue the guy, then you need to start connecting with him, which can be done through social**, friend introductions, etc.

    3.Let him get to know you: After making a connection, it's very important for the guy to get to know you. You can chat with him, share anecdotes from Ran's life, etc., so that he can get to know you better.

    4.Respect his choice: If the guy already has a girlfriend and is not interesting to you, then you should respect his choice and not try to ruin the existing relationship.

    In addition, Pi Wei, before pursuing this boy, it is best to give yourself some time to think clearly about your thoughts and mentality. If the guy already has a girlfriend and is not interesting to you, then we should accept this fact and find our own happiness.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    I'm sorry that you're in such a situation, but you need to think carefully, in this case, you should consider his reality, and if he has a partner, you should respect his choice, don't spoil his feelings, and don't cause unnecessary trouble to yourself. If you have had a crush before, you can consider sliding the draft to communicate with him, but you should also pay attention to the distance between the two people, don't cross the line, and express your emotions and thoughts correctly, so as not to affect their love life.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    In any case, don't be a brother and judge a third party, such as Bichen Jianguo, a boy who has a repentant object, and others can't get together in the end, then you can find him! If people can finally come together, then there is no point in what you toss!

    In the process of waiting, you don't take any action, and see how long your love for him can last!

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    If the other party has a partner, then as an upright person, you shouldn't get involved too much in his life, but I can pay attention to when he breaks up, such as the tomato fruit he has a crush on you, then your chances of success are still very high.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Summary. Hello dear.

    A senior who once had a crush on me. I haven't seen each other for five years, but I got in touch recently. He said that he used to care about me very much, and now he still cares about me after so many years.

    He likes to tell me about his work experience or life views, and he also likes to say or do things to see if I will be jealous to test whether I like him or not. But he doesn't like to reply to my messages. Delete it at every turn.

    He also used the trumpet to test whether I liked him or not. If he couldn't find out, he deleted me from the trumpet and blocked me from the trumpet. Before blocking me, he also told me that he didn't want to talk to me, and it was really hard to talk to me.

    What does he mean? I often like to send me messages, "It's true to say that licking a dog until the end is gone." He also said that he is now a heartless person.

    Hello dear. If this senior treats you like this, then I don't think there is any need for us to continue pursuing, he doesn't know that he will abandon you <> cherish it in the future

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