What kind of marriage must be renounced?

A marriage without love must be abandoned. Because two people are together because they love each other, if both parties don't have love as a foundation, it's really making do with life. After a long time, I will feel very bored, and there is no fun in my daily life, so what are we doing together?

Once you encounter a relationship that has broken down, as long as you give up, you may be happier.

In a family, if the woman's status in the family is humble, the man belongs to machismo, and the woman has no right to speak, she can only silently do the same housework every day, serving the family, I think as a woman, why should she live so aggrieved? I'm not a nanny, and I live with my head down in the whole family, so why bother!

I also don't like the men in the family to be lazy and lazy, if the man is lazy to do, stay at home every day and don't do anything, everything has to be handled by the woman, the woman makes money to support the family, and the woman does housework, then the other party is a complete waste, there is no most basic sense of responsibility in a family, isn't it tired to live together, it is not easy for a woman to work hard outside, and to serve him like a young master, like this kind of marriage, there is no need to insist on giving up early and getting rid early. Don't be so stupid to suffer so much for each other.

If the other party is a prodigal son type and has not maintained it, generally such a man likes to find a bunch of mistresses outside even if he is married, he will think that he is attractive when he does this, there are so many women who like him, how far this kind of man really is, there is a bottom line in marriage, and if this bottom line is broken, it is basically useless to keep it.

There is no affection for both parties, and marriages that treat each other as strangers must be abandoned. If you are in a marriage with each other, and some of them are only suffering and suffering and unhappy, then why not give up in style? There was a time when you were with him and you wanted him to be better off than you was, and you felt that you could live for him, even against the world.

But if that day comes and you find that you were so stupid, those vows can already be fed to the dogs.

At present, if he hates the other person quite a bit, his every move will disgust him. Even what he did was to anger you, and you no longer have any feelings to speak of. I think then both parties should let go of each other, stop torturing each other, and file for divorce with the court on the grounds of relationship breakdown, which may be the best explanation for fate and relief.

Suspicion of both parties, a marriage without any trust at all must be abandoned. You think you still love him, but his every move is worth doubting, and when you trust him quite a bit, you feel that you are very stupid. I live in a fight or cold violence every day, and I have become accustomed to this bad problem.

I think there is no reason for this marriage to continue, because it is really too tiring to live, he is tired of you, and maybe you can meet better people.

Marriages that are only for the benefit of money must be renounced. If the only thing that maintains your relationship is money and interests, you feel that you can't feel any love in him, and his dedication to you is also very hypocritical. Then give up as soon as possible, you may really not fit each other.

We all need feelings to fill the loneliness and emptiness in our hearts, not a false love to wrap in.

There is no marriage to give up, only those who give up marriage!

Marriage is yearning and beautiful for many single people, but for young couples who enter marriage, marriage is terrifying and unknown, and some people even say that they regret getting married. Marriage is one of the major life events for both men and women. There are only three major events in life, getting married, having children, and starting a business.

The first place is marriage, so what kind of marriage will be happy, and what kind of marriage needs to stop the loss in time?

First: a marriage full of calculations

In the era of rampant materialism, unhappy marriages are almost equal to assets. Money is not everything, but a marriage without money is definitely a chicken feather. Now, with the promulgation of various new types of "Civil Codes", the boundaries of property before and after marriage have begun to be clear, and many people have begun to worry about marriage.

In the past, as long as the husband and wife got married, the house owned by the husband and wife was the joint property of the husband and wife. It is now stipulated that if the other party owns the assets alone before the marriage, no matter what happens after the marriage, they will still belong to themselves.

In the face of such regulations, many male friends started to make small calculations, and bought a car and a house with all their money before marriage. Even if the wife has children after marriage, life has nothing to do with her. Moreover, many people think that it is also a bad custom for a woman to ask for a bride price, and a woman who asks for a bride price is not worth marrying.

The subconscious mind is the white wolf with empty gloves, although this is not good, the actual meaning is so.

There is no dime relationship between the property and the woman before marriage, and after marriage, women have to have children and run the family, and some families will require women to have their own children, and there is no bride price protection before marriage. If it is such a marriage, the woman must stop the loss in time

Two: the marriage of the wrong household

The door is not the right account here, not only in terms of assets. It refers more to the fit of the family living environment, assets can be changed through acquired efforts, and innate insight and upbringing cannot be changed. For example, the most terrifying kind of person for girls, the phoenix man; Such men are generally high-level intellectuals, and they are also outstanding in terms of assets.

But the insight and upbringing behind him can't match the real intellectual family, and when he meets the marriage of a phoenix man, he will basically not be happy.

Love and marriage are two concepts, you can only look at one person in love, and marriage is two families, or even two families. A sensible marriage adds points to later life, and a sensual marriage adds to the later life

1. The first manifestation is that he does not return home at night, his heart is always floating outside, yearning for the life outside, naturally he does not want to go home, even when it is time to sleep, he still does not want to go home.

2. The second manifestation is that no matter what he does, he is a person, and he never thinks about being with the people in the family, he feels that the family is a burden, and it will only add trouble to himself.

3. Except for the topic of children, there is no communication between the husband and wife at all. In addition to discussing things related to children, the husband and wife basically never communicate or discuss other things. Maybe it's not that the two people don't want to divorce, but they are afraid that the family will be broken, which will affect the growth of the children.

4. When a person has fallen in love with another person, you don't need to redeem it, when he finds a better love again, any effort you make is useless, it is in vain.

Even if you really succeed in redeeming it by unscrupulous means, then your family will never be happy, a marriage that will not be happy, no one will be happy, it is a harm to yourself, your lover and your family, it is better to let go.

Here are three I would recommend giving up:

In real life, a considerable number of people enter the palace of marriage, not because of love, but because of other reasons, such as reaching the marriageable age, urging by parents, unable to stand the same gaze from everyone, and in order to get out of the emotional trauma ......as soon as possibleSo find a random person to marry yourself, although this kind of marriage can last for a long time, but after a long time, fierce conflicts will erupt. The two quarreled more and more, and they didn't know how to tolerate and understand each other, blindly accusing and abusing each other, until their marriage became a pool of stagnant water. If both spouses are not interested in each other and the relationship foundation is too poor, then do not let yourself endure this pain and consider divorce.

So I want to tell women who are not yet married, no matter how late, to marry love.

2. Domestic violence or abusive tendencies

The vast majority of marriages that end in divorce are characterized by domestic violence. This kind of marriage is a more complex and necessary psychological process for victims of domestic violence. The best way to ensure is that it is difficult to ensure her own safety before the woman files for separation or divorce.

3. Frequent quarrels over trivial matters

The vast majority of divorcees reflect that constant quarrels are the main reason for the breakdown of their marriage and their parting ways with their ex. Emotional experts say that frequent arguments that are fruitless can only cause great damage to a couple's relationship. One of the main reasons for endless quarrels is a lack of mutual understanding, appreciation or empathy between couples.

Once one partner begins to objectively look at and understand the different points of view of the lover, the conjugal conflict cools down and the problem is often easier to resolve.

But as a person who has come over, I still suggest that you carefully consider divorce, don't be carried away by impulse, divorce is more expensive for women than men, I suggest that you look for marriage guidance before divorce, and try to redeem as much as possible, there are many mature theories abroad that can be referenced, such as the University of Minnesota's "Oak Marriage Quality Assessment", he believes that the quality of marriage is the result of the following eleven aspects, and the problems of marriage can be divided into "conflict resolution, financial management, marital expectations, sex life, Personality compatibility, sharing and communication, leisure activities, family and friend relationships, role equality, religious beliefs, children's education", one of which can lead to the breakdown of a marriage, where should we start with the problem in front of us? How do I get started? He will give you the answer to what can be quickly improved and save your marriage.

Marriage breakdown: What kind of marriage must be abandoned.

If marriage becomes a torture, it must be abandoned. For example, some marriages do not have a little temperature, and both parties are like fulfilling the procedure, so there is no point.

Two people who often quarrel, marriages with domestic violence problems, and marriages that have been separated for a long time are not long-term and unhappy, so they should be let go in time.

The future life is full of unknown confusion, and the husband and wife often talk about divorce and the like. Neither husband nor wife had much hope for the future.

Long-term strong, insulting each other, and feel that they are right and unrepentant marriages must be abandoned, the other party is not doing business, eating, drinking, prostituting and gambling and unrepentant must give up, many marriages can be harmonious with each other as long as both parties take a step back.

It's the kind of unconscious person who drinks every day and every time, and then the kind of domestic violence that beats people at every turn, and finally there are other people who need to be separated, so you can't stand it.

Hello, marriage is because two people are happier together than one person, if you feel that two people are miserable together, and it is not as good as one person, then the marriage has lost its meaning and it is time to give up.