My boyfriend is very good to his girlfriend, how can I tell if he has changed his mind?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-17
13 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    The boyfriend is very good to his girlfriend, which is beyond the care and care of the opposite sex for ordinary friends. Do you still remember Tang Jing and Luo Zijun in "The First Half of My Life"? Tang Jing has been in love with her boyfriend for ten years, and finally empathized and fell in love with her good friend Luo Zijun.

    How can you tell if your boyfriend has changed his mind? Just look at these behaviors of his:

    1. The way your boyfriend looks at her best friend. If you like someone, no matter how much he hides it, his eyes can't deceive people. still remembers that before Lu Han and Guan Xiaotong were made public, **, Lu Han's eyes were full of love when he looked at Guan Xiaotong.

    So, you can observe the way your boyfriend usually looks at his girlfriend and then judge whether he has changed his mind.

    2. Look at how good your boyfriend is to your girlfriend. Sometimes your boyfriend is good to his girlfriend, maybe it's because for your sake, because he loves you, so he even takes care of your friends with you. However, if your boyfriend cares about his girlfriend's big things in addition to his girlfriend's big things, he also cares about his girlfriend's family or other small things in life, then you have to pay attention.

    still remembers that in order to send Ping'er to Hangzhou to celebrate Luo Zijun's birthday, he lost the core figure of the company, and it can be seen from that that He Han likes Luo Zijun. Otherwise, how can a person who puts interests first waste time meddling in things?

    3. Look at your boyfriend's attitude towards you. If a boy changes his mind, he will be a little weak and evasive about his girlfriend, and he doesn't care about his own things as much as before, at this time, you can feel whether he has changed his mind. I still remember the scene when Tang Jing proposed to the congratulatory letter after surgery in the hospital, and the congratulatory letter was shaking at that time, and the mood was heavy, not joyful.

    That expression, that attitude is enough to show that the congratulatory letter doesn't love Tang Jing.

    For boys, no matter how good the relationship between his girlfriend and girlfriend is, he should keep his distance from his girlfriend and girlfriend and not cross the line. For girls, they should also handle the relationship between their girlfriends and boyfriends correctly, and don't often push their boyfriends to their girlfriends and ask him to help.

    Above, I hope it will be helpful to you.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    In life, women in love will have a famous saying, which is fire prevention, theft prevention and girlfriend prevention. But because girlfriends are very important friends in their lives, when determining a new relationship, they usually bring their boyfriends to their girlfriends for a while, or formally introduce each other to each other.

    Because all the sweetness can't help but be shared with others. Therefore, it is impossible for people who have a boyfriend to hide or hide their boyfriend. As his closest friend, his girlfriend is unlikely to avoid talking about his boyfriend.

    Therefore, in daily life, we often see many girlfriends breaking up or even breaking up because of boyfriend problems. How to tell if your boyfriend is in love with your girlfriend requires you to pay more attention to their communication and your boyfriend's unusual behavior in daily life.

    Let's say you hang out together, and your boyfriend cares more about you or her. If the weather is cold, he is worried that your girlfriend is frozen, not that he cares about you. Or walk to a very steep place, and he subconsciously helps your best friend, not you.

    In a crowded place, he worries that it is your best friend who is being squeezed, not you. At that time, the alarm bell in your heart will ring immediately.

    Also, you have to pay more attention to their private contacts. If your girlfriends often ask your boyfriend in your absence, then you have to ask them clearly, don't be stupidly kept in the dark, and don't trust any of them too much.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Isn't the hit drama "The First Half of My Life" a realistic version of the story of a boyfriend falling in love with his best friend?

    Your boyfriend is very good to your girlfriend, and some may be just because she is your best friend and wants to please you, so she is also very good to your girlfriend. There is also a possibility that in the process of getting along with my girlfriend for a long time, I came and went, moved my true feelings for my girlfriend, and fell in love with her.

    How can you tell if your boyfriend is only good to her for the sake of your girlfriend, or if he is really in love with his girlfriend? Just take a look at these points:

    I am especially concerned about the affairs of my girlfriends

    As an average friend, it is normal to stand up when you encounter difficulties, not to mention that she is your best friend, and your boyfriend will please your friends around you in order to please you. But if you pay too much attention to her, you have to pay attention. Xiaoli's boyfriend often helps his girlfriend with some small favors, and Xiaoli is also very happy, because his girlfriend also praises his boyfriend, which makes Xiaoli very face-saving.

    But recently I found out that something was wrong, the light bulb at my best friend's house was broken, my boyfriend skipped work to help change, my best friend's friend came to her city for a tour, and my boyfriend was a free driver to the tour guide to receive the whole process. is more concerned about her best friend's affairs than hers, and sure enough, the two of them have already had ambiguous signs.

    I always want to find out about my girlfriends

    If you like someone, you will deliberately inquire about her news, and Sasha's boyfriend is very curious about a good sister of herself, and wants to ask everything, is there a boyfriend? Working in**? Why haven't I posted messages in the circle of friends recently, is there something wrong?

    There's a good chance that too much probing like this is a change of heart. Don't care about a person who doesn't care about other people's lives at all.

    Go to ** and call your girlfriends

    Originally, the two people who were good traveled to the next level, and the boyfriend said that they called their girlfriends, and the three of them were lively together, and they could also take pictures of them. went to eat delicious food, watched a movie and called his girlfriend, isn't he just falling in love with his girlfriend?

    Smart women know that they must not let their boyfriends and girlfriends get too close, on one side is the man they love, and on the other hand is their good sisters. Be sure to come out and deal with the relationship well.

    I am an emotional expert cantaloupe Zhu girl, I never disdain to boil chicken soup, if you want to boil, I will boil the Jianghu Huanglian soup with a clear mouth and a clear heart.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Your boyfriend is not only good to you, but also to his friends, and it's normal for your friends to be good, don't make a fuss.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Although I have heard a lot of examples of boyfriends hooking up with girlfriends and committing adultery.

    But there are also a lot of people who just love the house and the Wu, and hope to get along with the people around you.

    So I think it's okay to care as long as it's a normal relationship.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    You can see what he usually talks about, if there are more emotional things, it may be that he has changed his mind.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I think it's good. He also knows you better, so there's nothing wrong with that.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Before my first love, she was my girlfriend's best friend and often hung out together. It happened out of the blue at a weekend party. While we were chatting, I noticed a detail that I liked about her, and was stunned, after all, she had always been just friends, and I would betray my girlfriend.

    After calming down, I decided not to do anything. I can't betray so many years of affection and integrity, my girlfriend is so good to me, I can't hurt her. I also understand that she is the best friend, and their relationship is not only an ordinary friendship, but also a friendship between girlfriends, and this friendship cannot be ignored.

    I realized that this impulsive feeling didn't mean that I was truly in love with her.

    I need to deal with this feeling, though.

    First of all, I chose to talk to my friend in detail, and found a buddy who understood me very well, and I confided in him all about it, and told him that I wanted to maintain the existing relationship, and my purpose was not to destroy anyone's friendship or relationship.

    I hope that I can downplay these feelings and thoughts and keep these relationships precious and stable.

    While preventing unnecessary problems from arising, I also realized that emotional intuition should be respected and seriously considered.

    Some issues that are close to personal emotions require special attention and cannot be easily omitted or ignored. I chose to have an honest conversation with my girlfriend about how I felt about her friend and what I would do in this situation.

    My girlfriend gratefully accepted my honest conversation and even gave me a lot of support and advice.

    She told me that our relationship is based on trust and respect, and that there is not the slightest sense of distance between us because of this little secret.

    In the end, we decided to understand the situation from a deeper perspective and wanted to keep the love and friendship between us.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Normal. 1.When falling in love, you will unconsciously form an inferiority complex and feel that you are not worthy of each other, which is a normal phenomenon, and at the same time, the advantages of girlfriends are shining in their own eyes, and they will be a little worried when they usually get together to play.

    2.The deep worry of love, this is a sign that you care about your boyfriend, and appropriate coquettishness can enhance your relationship.

    3.At the same time, your boyfriend should give you a sense of security and trust each other.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    This situation is normal, you can tell him that if he really loves you, he will not like someone else, if he really loves you, he will be wholeheartedly with you and will not get together with your girlfriend, so you have to believe in your boyfriend, but also believe in yourself, no matter what happens, you will always be together, all you have to do is to give your boyfriend enough confidence to make him believe that you will always live happily, so that your boyfriend will feel at ease and will love you more.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Normal. Fire prevention, anti-theft and anti-girlfriend are not nonsense.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Is it normal for a friend to like a girlfriend? I think there is such a concern.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    There is no pure friendship between men and women, unless the other party is gay, like your girlfriend's male girlfriend, if the sexual orientation is normal, and there has been no girlfriend, it is estimated that it is difficult for them to have pure friendship, not to destroy your relationship, just to warn you with practical examples in life.

    My good friend also used to have a male girlfriend, and he also has a normal sexual orientation, the two of them met during college, and it is a very good one, I heard that when I was in college, he was secretly in love with my good friend, but she has always said that she is only friendly to him, and it can even be family affection, but it is not love, because she has always regarded him as her brother.

    From then on, he became my best friend's boyfriend, the kind of guy who didn't talk about anything, and my good friend told him all the secrets, and even some quarrels with his boyfriend, just hoping to get some comfort. For she knew that he would not be angry with his whining, nor would he leave because of his vexatious or crying, that he was like a big white, warm and comfortable, wide and most of all, my good friend was used to confiding in him.

    Later, my good friend changed several boyfriends, but each time it was not very smooth, nor very successful, and even again, the reason why the other party broke up was that she didn't love herself, because the person she has always loved is a male girlfriend, and the male girlfriend is also the man who loves her the most. She really couldn't cry or laugh when she heard it, because she didn't realize that she really liked male girlfriends. It wasn't until later, when my boyfriend disappeared for a while, that my good friend felt that losing him was more difficult and helpless than losing love.

    In fact, many times, love is around us, but we don't know, she has broken up many times because of this male girlfriend next to her, and he is the man who has always guarded her, but he doesn't want to cause trouble to his beloved, so he has never confessed, because he just wants to see her laugh and doesn't want to see her embarrassed. Don't you see such a man who loves my best friend the most? No matter what you do, the first thing you think about is whether it will be good for her or not, and whether it will affect her happiness and joy.

    At the end of the story, the two of them are together and soon get married. So you also need to be careful, after all, your Zheng Jing girlfriend has such a male girlfriend with a normal sexual orientation, and she doesn't have a girlfriend yet, and the two of them often go shopping and watch movies together, and Yanran is the standard for a boyfriend. You can try to introduce the girl to the other party, if he refuses them all, it is estimated that he really likes your female ticket, then it is not pure friendship.

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