What is it about being indifferent to the people or things around you?

Some people are naturally cold, as if nothing can arouse their passion; Some people may be so disappointed in the world that they gradually become less smiling, and they are scornful and indifferent to everything around them. I don't think it's easy to blame a person for being so cold, there's a reason for that.

First of all, the first, of course, experienced infinite disappointment. This disappointment may be an imbalance in the bottom of my heart, as if I feel that I am the only one who is unlucky in the world, no matter how hard I work, it is impossible to have such glorious achievements to be praised by others. In fact, I think many people maintain their enthusiasm for the world at the beginning, but it is indeed because of the disappointment that blows again and again, making themselves feel:

It's okay for others to experience a little pain, and there's nothing to sympathize with others, so they gradually become that indifferent self.

The second is the feeling of warmth and coldness of human feelings, what human nature is sometimes really incomprehensible, and even after experiencing some unbearable things in life, we begin to doubt life. I feel that sometimes the great love in the world and the fraternity in the world that others preach are fake. I watched others being robbed, but passers-by looked like they didn't care about themselves.

In fact, this has become a kind of pathology of things, we can't change it, so we can only feel the disappointment in the world from the bottom of our hearts, and we can't be so enthusiastic anymore!

Finally, it may be due to some of its own reasons. Family relationships.

Not getting along, not getting along with friends, often experiencing breakups, and so on. I always make myself feel very lonely, and this loneliness is precisely the direct guiding factor that causes indifference to others, and it may have become my own heart disease. Finish.

Some people are because of low self-esteem, some people may have low emotional intelligence, and some people are born cold-hearted.

I've been indifferent to things around me since I was a child, which may have something to do with my experiences since I was a child. Because my parents were not around when I was a child, I was more withdrawn and rarely communicated with others, and over time I formed a habit. Even though my parents came back to me, I was still like that, and I didn't care much about my parents or relatives, even though I was happy every day and greeted them with warmth.

But only I know that this is my disguise, in fact, I have no interest in anything, everything I do is just a task. I have always felt that I am very indifferent and cold-blooded, but in fact, it is not, because every time I see some poor children, people with disabilities, and other people in need, I feel very distressed and want to cry. <>

In fact, there are times when I want to care about the people around me, but I don't know how to express it, how to get along with them, and over time, I become more and more indifferent to the people or things around me. So many times he is very indifferent to the people or things around him, not because he thinks like that, but because he has a relatively low emotional intelligence and doesn't know how to get along with people, some of them are because they have low self-esteem and dare not get along with others, while very few people are born with cold feelings.

When a person suddenly looks down on the things around him, then he must have experienced something.

Some people experience a serious illness and break free from death. At this time, they usually no longer value the things they used to value, and they don't pay attention to the things outside the body.

And some people have realized the philosophy of life through thinking or a certain thing, and they are like being enlightened.

Unfortunately, not many people have made it this far.