Do you have a moment when you want to give up on yourself? And what kept you going?

I don't know how many times the word self-defeating comes to mind. I have also wandered when the suffering and pain and some road that does not know the end is in front of me, and I have also wanted to give up and fall. Because I think that's good, it's a lifetime, and I don't have to work hard to get applause from others.

But after all, because of my persistence, I struggled all the way to the end and accompanied me through one difficult juncture after another.

I've never been the kind of person who can fight until I see the light of day, how wonderful the outside world is, and I will still be attracted by it with a little wind and grass. Let's talk about the college entrance examination, my family is not very rich, the private high school I went to is so expensive, and my parents don't have much time to spend with me. The most important thing is that I don't know if I can carry the college entrance examination, and I have been studying hard for ten years for it, but if I fail, no one knows.

I once told myself that I should just do it, give up on myself once, take care of his college entrance examination, indulge once, and do whatever I want if I don't study, because I am really tired, I can't persevere, not many people understand my suffering, and there is no one to accompany me. I think it's good for a person to give up secretly, and then just come out and work at that time to live a life like this. But the will told me that it could not be so.

My dream has always reminded me that I must grit my teeth and get through this juncture, my ability is stronger than I imagined, and many people are still looking forward to my success. In fact, because I am a human being, I always feel that as long as I want a lot of things, I can still do it, because there is love, because there are dreams, as long as I am strong enough, I can support us.

So don't let yourself make a mistake again, you can choose to succeed.

My answer is simple and straightforward – because of the most painful experience of failure"!

Most of our upbringing was to go to kindergarten, then receive nine years of compulsory education, go to high school, take the college entrance examination, go to university, and work. During this period, there have been too many failures, and most of them have been gradually forgotten by us, after all, life still has to go on, but there will always be an unforgettable failure experience!

Speaking for myself, I once prepared for an exam for a year, but when it came to preparation, I didn't devote myself wholeheartedly, I didn't study with all my strength, and I would find some time to play games and read idle books every day. But when it came time to take the exam, I really panicked when I saw the questions I couldn't know. In the end, it is natural that you will not be able to make the list, and you will be very frustrated, especially when you see that your friends who were preparing for the exam with you back then got good results.

Since then, whenever I do something, of course, if I stick to it, it will have a good result, and I will definitely stick to it, because I know that the taste of failure is very uncomfortable, especially because I don't work hard and don't persevere.

At that time, under great pressure, I insisted on reviewing for another year and successfully passed the exam. After that, I started working out again, and it was painful at first, but I've stuck with it until now. So, I persevered because of the pain of failure.

I once had such a period of time in the second semester of my sophomore year of high school.

At that time, I thought that my academic performance was so bad now, so I would find an opportunity to take the second year of high school again.

In that way, you can start all over again and study hard at the beginning.

That's why I don't listen well in class and don't do my homework after class.

No matter what the teacher tells me to do, I respond negatively. <>

Especially in an exam, I basically didn't answer the questions well, and I didn't even finish the Chinese composition.

As a result, I finished fifth from the bottom of my class.

I think it's good that I have a reason to do it all over again.

As a result, the teacher called me to the office to talk.

He asked me why my grades were so poor.

I told him what I thought, and he told me that it wasn't as simple as I thought.

Let's not talk about whether I can do it again, even if I can do it again, I graduated from college a year later than others, and in a year, although it doesn't seem like a long time, there will be a lot of changes.

And if I go back to the second year of high school, I will change classes.

It takes time and energy to adapt to life with your classmates.

At that time, you may encounter new problems that will cause you to be annoyed.

Instead of hoping for a new one, it's better to start working on it now.

The teacher gave me a lot of serious analysis, and also made me understand the truth that the opportunity cannot be lost, and the loss will not come again.

Then I started to study hard.

Yes, it took a lot of effort to take the college entrance examination that year, and I worked so hard to review at that time, but I ended up with a score of 6 points different from the first line, and I was instantly discouraged at that time. But then I thought that instead of complaining, it was better to go with the flow, and the reality could not be changed anyway, so I persevered.

Yes I would love to give up everything, no matter what, but my parents still need me to take care of them, and I can't give up.

Yes, I failed the college entrance examination at that time, and I felt that my life was over, because my parents' encouragement made me understand that the college entrance examination was just a turning point, and I could still fight for my dreams.

Cheer up the boy, a bright future is in front of you, and there is no hurdle that you can't pass.

Don't give up easily, just believe that there is nothing you can't do!

Man's biggest opponent is himself!

If you can't die, you live, and if you can't live well, you can live.

I also experienced the moment when I wanted to give up on myself, but when I calmed down, I realized that my thinking was very wrong, so I went back to the old state and went back to normal life.

At that moment I cried, I didn't want to take the college entrance examination anymore, I wanted to give up, I wanted to run out of the campus, there was no one to cry when I spoke. At that moment, I really didn't know what was going on in my head, my mind went blank. After I cried, I realized that my thinking was very incorrect, and when I returned to calm, I thought about it carefully, and it was not a big deal.

The college entrance examination is a process that I have to go through. I still have dreams, I have to stick to my dreams, I can't let everyone down. At that moment, there was no house, and the thing of hugging also understood the true meaning of our college entrance examination!

Looking back carefully, the experience of that day was really magical, and I felt very relieved when I think back to that moment in the days to come. In addition, I finally learned to calm down and think about the problem, instead of talking about things in a hot voice. Now that I think about it, it is also the expectation of my dream in my heart, so I persevered!

I had a lot of self-defeating moments.

For example, when the teacher asks me to complete a task. I'm actually very lazy, and I don't have solid knowledge. When the teacher asked me to do a task, I was struggling at first and didn't know how to do it.

Actually, I'm also trying my heart, but because I can't do it and I'm impatient, I can't do it well. At the end of the day, when I was in a hurry, I still didn't finish it, and that's when I gave up on myself. I thought I couldn't do it so hard, so I gave up.

But in the end, I persevered in completing the task assigned by the teacher. Because I know that if I don't do it, the task will never be completed, and it will be difficult to explain it when the time comes. Losing your temper there, doing nothing is not good, nothing will help you.

If you want to do well, you still have to stick to it.

At that time, my mind was full of these bad thoughts, and I wanted to give up everything. But just thinking about it is gone. Because I know in my heart that I don't want to be so bad, and I have this impulse in my heart, but I know more about what I want to do.

It's okay to vent your thoughts for a while, but you can't change anything at the time, and we still have to move on with our lives.

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I can't accept the huge gap, but I can't help it. I started to take the exam in the later stage, I was really a little panicked, I wanted to give up, I didn't do it, I looked at the people behind me, played with my mobile phone every day, made jokes, slept and slept, I was really envious, but when I thought about it, I felt that I couldn't go, I couldn't give up, this is not what I wanted. gritted his teeth and continued to persevere.

Looking at the people in front of me, I really envy their good places in the future, I think about giving up, don't do it, I can't change anything, it's already like this, but life goes on, so I'm still the same as usual.

I think, maybe it's me, I decide myself, I think of their future position, and then I think of my mediocrity, and then I want to give up, I have always been a kind of mentality of not fighting or grabbing, regretting that I couldn't rush up.

Therefore, the fear of confusion made me instinctively move forward and dare not give up. There are too many people who say that they don't know what to do, when they are confused, I just want to take every step and the next step.

Life will always experience ups and downs and twists and turns, some things we can laugh through, and some things, have reached the limit of what we can bear, it is inevitable to feel that the world is unfair to themselves, why is it always themselves who are hurt, I want to find a quiet place to end all this, but every time I think of my mother, all the grievances and pains have been reduced a lot, if something happens to herself, what should she do?

The unhappiness of the work, the betrayal of the lover. There is basically no way to tell anyone about these things, so you can only put them in the deepest part of your heart, find a place, and quietly heal the pain by yourself. I remember that time, the department received a task directly from the boss, which was a big challenge for our team ability at that time, and the supervisor was very impatient, for this matter, all the people were chased and jumped, and the pressure was so great that I wanted to leave the company, yes, that's right, just don't leave the company with salary.

The house leak happened to rain overnight, and when this job upset me, my girlfriend broke up with me on the grounds that her mother did not agree. Really, it was like a bolt from the blue at that time, the girlfriend who had been talking for nearly two years was planning to get married, and because of her mother's opposition, she had to break up, and she was disheartened at that time, smoking and drinking alone, and she was about to vomit.

I feel so uncomfortable, I suddenly thought of my mother who was thousands of miles away, and called her **, of course, reporting good news and not bad news, this is the consistent style of the wanderer who is splashing outside, ** over there, my mother kept saying that I should pay attention to my body, work hard, said a lot, and told me that the recent situation at home is very good, so that I can work with peace of mind.

Thinking of all these years, my mother has paid too much for me to go to school, if I give up on myself, how can I be worthy of her? If you don't have a good job, you can work hard to do it slowly, your girlfriend wants to break up, and there is no result after working hard, so you can only say that we are fated to be inseparable. So, every time I encounter ups and downs, I think of my mother's face, and then I move forward strongly.

Thanks to the fact that my high school homeroom teacher was a good teacher, he would not let any student give up on himself like this, so he talked to me and asked me what I thought. The teacher said, "What do you think is the meaning of life?"

I shook my head. He continued: "Maybe you think that life is like this now, but when you become an adult, you will know how much you want your children to have a happy life and live every day meaningfully."

So you have to do it not only for yourself, but also for your parents. "I thought that no matter how hard my mother worked, she would cook a good meal for me, just to make me study hard, so I also cheered up and had a new motivation.

I believe that everyone will have a moment, sometimes, nothing happens, but I will be very uncomfortable suddenly, I feel that I can't do this, I can't do that, I feel that I am not as good as others, in fact, I am a very optimistic person, most of the time I am very optimistic, but I can't control this feeling suddenly, it is very uncomfortable, and even tears.

Every time I have this kind of thought, I will call my mother a **, it should be in the last week, after a sleep, it is very uncomfortable, there is an urge to cry, when my mother asks me what happened, I really can't answer, because I really don't know why I'm uncomfortable, maybe this is self-defeating, not confident feeling.

I'll be much better after every time I give my mom **, after all, parents are experienced people, as for why we have this idea, I think it should be that our vision is too short-sighted, we can't see our own point, we can't see the place in the world that needs us, in fact, there are many companies, or somewhere that needs us, we are not useless, but we have not found it.

Parents must have a wider vision than us, every time I listen to my mother after giving me a reason, I will be very confident, those so-called shortcomings of you, in the eyes of adults are really small things, but we care too much, for example, you are short, because of the shortness of this shortness you are rejected by the opposite sex, you will care about this shortcoming, and even think about it every day, but is this shortcoming really as big as you think? Of course not, there are more people shorter than you, and there are more people who are married.

So don't care too much about your shortcomings, but make yourself better in other aspects!