In a two child family, how to prevent the child from becoming a white eyed wolf?

It is necessary to educate and guide children correctly, so that children can understand the hard work of their parents and experience the life of their parents.

It is necessary to treat the two children with a bowl of water, and to keep their hearts fair and just, so as to prevent the children from becoming such people.

First of all, parents must be fair and just to both children. Buying toys for children is usually done in two copies, so that children do not experience psychological stress.

Now many parents know that if they want their children to be filial to themselves when they grow up, then they must pay attention to education at an early age. However, in addition to education, parents must also have a certain amount of wisdom in order to fully mobilize the enthusiasm of their children and make them understand filial piety better.

For example, in many ancient literary works, scrambling parents will "hide treasures" in advance, implying that the children themselves own a lot of possessions, so children often scramble to be the first to fulfill their filial piety. But when the old man left, he opened the family property and found that it was just some worthless tiles and so on, so he understood the old man's good intentions.

Actually, human nature is like that. When parents are old, the following two things must be carried clearly, otherwise even if their children are filial, they may become white-eyed wolves.

Don't divide the property too early, it can easily cause infighting.

There is a friendly couple of elderly people in the community, but the neighbors often find the old people sad and have never seen any of their children come to visit them. Later, I realized that the old couple went to the sea to start a business when they were young and saved several houses. Later, when the children got married, the old man allocated the house to them in advance, but the situation changed.

It turned out that the eldest son thought that the house he was assigned was not the largest, the second son thought that the house was not worth much, and the younger daughter accused the house assigned to him as the worst, so they were full of resentment towards the old man, so that they didn't even come back to visit the old man during the New Year's holiday, so why bother?

Therefore, the elderly should never allocate the house to their children in advance, which can easily cause internal conflicts. In other words, if the couple rents out these houses, the children will become very filial. First of all, they don't feel that older people are partial to themselves.

Secondly, they are still looking forward to the future, so the situation may be completely different from the current strong, diametrically opposed.

The division of property must be chosen at the right time, otherwise it will be thankless.

There is a distant relative in his hometown, Uncle Zhang, when he was young, he and his wife were better together, so when he was in his 60s, he still had no heirs and lived a life of two. But the strange thing is that despite having no children, the young people around them are very good to Uncle Zhang and his wife, even good enough to be like their own children.

It turned out that every time the younger generation went to visit Uncle Zhang, Uncle Zhang would give a certain gift and even reimburse the cost of the round-trip trip. At the same time, Uncle Zhang announced earlier that he had prepared a will, and which junior would be the best for him in the future would be allocated more property. In this way, the young people around will naturally rush to show goodwill.

Don't think that this is a philistine, human nature is like this, it will not cherish what it has acquired, but will work hard for what it wants. If parents can choose the right time to distribute their property and make full use of their children's mentality, they will have a happy old age.

Do you think that the children in their later years are not filial, and the old people themselves are the big ones?