Do you think that comfort and encouragement can be regarded as flattery? 50

No, it's two meanings at all, how can there be comfort in the last two sentences to become flattery, comfort is people's instinctive reaction to the weak, patting the sycophant is done deliberately by oneself, after thinking about the brain, so it's completely different.

The comfort and encouragement between relatives is not considered to be a slippery slap and a flattery. Loved ones themselves are very close family members. When I am in trouble or in a bad mood, I will stretch out my hands to help the people around me.

Such people are called relatives. From your description, it can be seen that your husband is also a straight man with cancer. People who don't know how to make sycophants, he doesn't talk politely to you, which means that he is also a straightforward person.

Adjust your mindset. When your mind relaxes, things become smaller.

I don't think. 1.The use cases are different.

Comfort and encouragement is when a person is disappointed, desperate, and wants to give up and is powerless, he needs external forces to give him confidence and play a positive motivational effect; And flattery is when a person is successful, others see your success and come to please you.

2.The parts of speech are not the same. Comfort and encouragement are praise, and flattery is derogatory.

3.The two terms are not the same. Comfort and encouragement are positive, positive, and give people confidence; Flattery is selfish, selfish, and in order to achieve one's own ends, to please others.

Do you think that comfort and encouragement are malicious flattery by Liu Xu? I think of course I'm not mistaken, because the comfort is because you know that he is uncomfortable or sad, and the fact of comfort and encouragement makes him, ah, think on the good side, to develop, so to deliberately give malicious flattery. There are still certain differences.

Comfort encouragement is to help people solve problems.

For example, when an old man is old and sick, and his children do not care about it, the personnel of the neighborhood committee of the motherland community come to the door to offer condolences, clean up the door, comfort and encourage the old man, and the old man goes to the court to sue to protect his legitimate rights.

That's comfort, that's encouragement.

For example, an old man is old and sick, and his children don't care, and his neighbor's uncle and aunt say to him: Look at it, people are like this, and their children have children's jobs, so don't bother their children.

This is flattery.

What is the specific cause of your loss and sadness must be solved. If you don't solve the problem, you will be sloppy and flattering. If you can solve the problem, it is comfort and encouragement.

Not really. I think comfort is help. Comfort is to discover the merits, and slapping the horse is an exaggeration.

No, I personally think it's a genuine desire to encourage you, support you, and make you a better version of yourself.

The nature is different, completely different. The starting point is different.

Flattery: Sycophancy is to please people with nice words; Flattery: To compliment people. Stammering, flattering, and flattering.

From ancient times to the present, the so-called patting of horses refers to patting other people's ass, no matter what others say is good or bad, they will only flatter each other.

Sycophants, described as saying good things to win favor in order to win people's favor.

In fact, the word was originally composed of two words with the same meaning - "whisker" and "patting horse".

It is to use a story to tell us that we must be down-to-earth in doing things.

is to do what he likes, but as a result, Mu You guessed the minds of others and annoyed others.

It means to pat the horse, no matter whether people are good or bad, just talk about people's good.

Slapping other people's sycophants, no matter what others say is good or bad, they will only flatter each other.

It should be happy bai

Maybe just opened. Du didn't adapt to it at first, but then he gradually became proficient, and dao got used to it. Then go deep into the bone marrow. In the end, it became his own outlook on life and values.

People who do not slip around and flatter have their personality, dignity, and knowledge, that is, the way of a gentleman, deeply rooted in their bone marrow, so they are disgusted to watch.

Maybe, when he is already addicted to it, there may not be a question of happiness or unhappiness, at that time, it is just to get used to it, habit becomes natural, don't care, people are almost the same.

Whether the shoe fits or not, only the foot knows.

I don't know if they're happy, but you're not.

Such people are worthy of disgust.

Let's leave a piece of pure land for your soul.

Just know that's not right.

Sympathy. Good eloquence is also a skill.

Sympathy. Good eloquence is also a skill.

The answer is supplemented. Hehe. It also depends on his character.

In the Song Dynasty, Kou Zhun had a student named Ding Wei. The two ate together, Kou Zhun's beard accidentally stained a grain of rice, Ding Wei saw that he was busy stepping forward to carefully pull it down from Kou Zhun's beard and comb the teacher's beard neatly, others sneezed, and later called Ding said that this behavior was "slipping".

It is a type of person that a gentleman should stay away from.

Pat the horse: pat the horse. than bai metaphor flattery.

du。"Whiskers and horses" this.

Lick somebody's boots. Flattering and pleasing others.

Flattery: Sycophancy is to please people with nice words; Flattery: To compliment people. Stammering, flattering, and flattering.

Compliment: To praise or praise for the purpose of pleasing the other person. Also known as "Gong Wei".

Slapping the horse: a metaphor for flattery.

The meaning is generally similar.

It can only be said that the meaning is similar. Not exactly the same.

All mean the same thing, but to a slightly different extent.

Compliments are the least severe, and it's a neutral word, not a derogatory term.

Flattery and slapping are so important that they are not good words at first hearing, and of course they are derogatory.

No, flattery and smuggling are derogatory terms, and compliment is neutral.

Not to mention that you have to be valued, at least you have to work hard, in order to be valued, with your position promotion, the basic polite words to get along with people should still be learned, otherwise how to do your job well, the work of the leader is to run constantly outside. . . If you really can't learn, you can lower your expectations, be a technical talent, and rely on strength to speak.

Be your best, slap the horse, no one will pay attention to it without results.

It's good to meet a nobleman, do your own thing, and what should come will come.

Listening to the tone, the questioner's heart is not very comfortable. It doesn't matter, you know, the forest is big, and there are all kinds of birds. There are special again, such as netizens.

Answered, "It's all for the sake of life......It's not worth it". In addition, sometimes from another point of view, it is necessary to communicate with each other, and there is also a need for proper communication between subordinates and superiors, but you can't just talk about work or ask about family matters, right? On the other hand, Chinese have always paid attention to character, what does the boss use to understand the character of his subordinates?

Is it just performance? Can a boss stare at a person all day long to observe? Therefore, in addition to work, subordinates also need to take some opportunities to show and prove their character and ability.

Third, what's wrong with a little more praise in the communication between people, and win a relaxed and happy atmosphere for yourself and others? So, in my opinion, it is also important to distinguish between flattery and normal communication, and the key to the difference is mainly to look at its purpose and motivation.

These people are not all low-quality people! People have their own way of living, people have to pay attention to the way of being a man, don't blindly measure a person's quality by traditional morality!

There will be such people out there, all for life! It's just a different path! It's not worth being angry with this kind of person!