Is it a mental illness to keep achieving and then giving up?

Like me, when there is a certain achievement, I want to maintain or even improve, but because this achievement is not ordinary, and the people around me have been paying attention to me, I am even more afraid that I will not do well in the future and be laughed at by everyone, and the achievement will be blown away by the wind, so I have the idea of quitting.

I can tell you for sure, this is not good, if you are always like this, your life will never enter a higher realm, you have the ability, but your psychological quality limits the development of your ability, you should find a way to solve this problem, unfortunately, I can only help you raise the problem now, but not help you solve the problem.

You may not be confident enough and afraid that you won't be able to keep up your success!

Or maybe your accomplishments mean just relatively small accomplishments!

You can set a big goal:

For example, being a vice president in a company.

Hehe. Words like this.

You won't leave so easily.

You are very strong, and you are psychologically looking for a sense of conquest and achievement. But there is a difference in age, with a family, we must be more practical, and stability can have a better environment for development. Since you like a challenge, this transition can be considered a challenge.

Loves a challenge, but is afraid to take responsibility.

It's not a disease. But the impact on your life path is real.

As the saying goes: perseverance, everything will be done. I understand your mood very well and tell you that this is not a mental illness, psychologically speaking.

People who belong to the closed personality are most afraid of dealing with people. When talking to others, they dare not look at each other, and the words they speak are unusually short and dull. I never participate in any group activities, and I don't even have a friend to talk to.

When you are in someone's place, you feel that the eyes of others are watching you so tightly that you are so nervous that your whole body trembles, and your only desire is to quickly escape from the family background that does not encourage your children to engage in social interaction and does not pay attention to the cultivation of non-intellectual factors, which is often the most important factor in this type of character. Children who grow up in this environment of lack of interpersonal communication, whose life circle is confined to school and home, and often know nothing about general social skills, which makes them overwhelmed and frustrated once they step into the outside world, so that they retreat into their own personal small world, and cut off their attempts and efforts to communicate with others. So, how can you use mental training methods to help yourself overcome this closed personality?

Please follow the following training steps: 1. At the beginning, after getting off work every day, don't rush home immediately, but first go to department stores, farmers' markets and other places to stay for a period of time to guide yourself to be interested in the people and things in your surroundings, and then go home and record everything you observe. The purpose of this mental training is to pull you out of your personal little world and put you in an environment that you were previously unwilling to be afraid to stay in.

If you're afraid of too many people at first, start in an environment where there are few or no people. In addition, the duration of stay outside the country should also be based on the principle of short to long. 2. Medium-term Read some books and articles on basic communication skills, such as how to greet people, how to start a conversation with people, and how to talk politely.

Go to a market and ask for a vegetable. Asking strangers for directions on the road, which includes asking older, younger, and younger people of the same and opposite sex. In particular, it is necessary to complete a request for directions to a young, handsome and beautiful person of the opposite sex and a request for directions to someone who does not seem to be kind.

Buy an item and return it. It doesn't matter if you don't make a refund, what matters is that you dare and be able to state your reasons to the store.

Oh, yes.. That's how people are. Never satisfied. Always greedy. When you see a better one, you give up what you already have. And to chase those who may not be able to have. Maybe in the end, nothing.

Wrong... With constant choices comes constant responsibility... People can't keep giving up... So what's the difference in giving up on yourself?

You've got to look at it from a different angle! People are always moving forward, always striving for greater progress. We are choosing the right path and letting go of the past of failure!

Life is a process of constant choice and constant abandonment. Only by giving up can the limited life release the maximum energy. Without courageous abandonment, there will be no tenacious persistence. Renunciation is a spiritual awakening, one.

Good to listen to is serious, a bit of an obsessive-compulsive tendency.

Hello, after reading your description, I think your literary skills are very good. Most of us have encountered these problems, but people approach them differently. Some people encounter these things and take them as a life experience, while others miss them, not only blaming themselves but also feeling tired, just like your friends.

In fact, you really don't have to care too much about these things, everyone will encounter some embarrassing things in life, these are inevitable, otherwise how can there be a saying that you will live to learn all the time, remember the phrase "eat a trench and grow a wisdom", as the saying goes: get up from where you fall!

From your description, it can be seen that you are too demanding of yourself, lower it appropriately, maybe you will find your strengths, forget the past, from now on, believe that you are the best!

Analysis:

Suggestions: Hello, this situation of yours is that you can't get over it with yourself. If you understand it yourself, it means that you can also get out of this situation on your own. In fact, it's very simple, relax your heart, as long as you do your best, you can do it, and you don't have to be strict about whether you can succeed.

No one thinks about the past every day, we should look forward, so that we can live a relaxed life and learn happily.

Let go and be motivated by your own struggle is the best.

No, pursuing someone doesn't have to be pleased, and begging for love isn't necessarily happy.

You can change yourself, but you can't lose yourself, you have to put yourself first. The criterion for judging whether something is done right or not should be whether you can make yourself happier, happier, and more at ease.

Everyone grows in giving.

Well said, I don't want to give it up, but I can't let it go.