I don t like him, and I m afraid of breaking his heart, what should I do?

Let me tell you, shall you? If you don't want him to be sad, you have to be with him, because only if you are with him, he won't be sad, and you have no other choice.

If you don't like him, then tell him directly, don't procrastinate, otherwise you will be sad at that time, and he will be even more misunderstood, it is not his fault that you don't like him, but a feeling in everyone's heart, everyone's feelings are different, and I can't say it. Anyway, it's better to make things clear, otherwise you will all be miserable, and you won't even be able to be friends by then.

Think clearly, it's better to say clearly, otherwise you will regret it. That's the case for everything now.

If you don't like him, tell him, after all, if you don't say anything like that, he'll get deeper and deeper.

And then you're going to hurt him even more.

So why don't you think it through and figure out what to say.

Then tell him again. Try to say that you are not right.

He's good, but he's not good.

Otherwise, it will be easy for him to not like people in the future.

According to your situation, it is good to say.

Since you don't want to hurt him! And he really loves you, too! Why not give him a chance and give you a chance?

Let's take him! If it's not suitable, I'm sure he'll find out after you get along!

That way it won't hurt him! Your heart!

Hehe......Why drag? This feeling is not good for each other, and if you don't like it, just say it directly, if he is so stingy. I don't think friends should do it, and liking someone doesn't have to be possessive of her ......You can talk to him calmly about ......It's really stubborn, and it can only hurt him......

told him very directly and decisively that long pain is better than short pain is a relief for everyone

Long pain is better than short pain, if you really don't like him. Don't let him have any illusions or hopes about you.

If you don't like him, he won't say it, it will hurt him even more! Sooner or later, he will have to face it, but it is better to face it now, which is good for everyone. Maybe it's too late, and even friends can't do it.

If you don't like him, you should be clear with him, long pain is better than short pain, don't give him hope. I've been in this situation before.

This should be made all the more clear to him.

Don't think you're hurting him by rejecting him now.

In fact, the longer you delay, the more it hurts him.

If you don't like him at all, then you don't care if he's sad or not.

You may care about him.

Let's be clear, don't procrastinate, sadness is always inevitable.

To like this, you must be consensual, so there is a word called "two loves", but how simple is it to meet people who love each other?

Like a person, in addition to appearance, it also includes temperament, personality, education, cultural knowledge, values, thinking, ideas and concepts, etc., so it is normal for the person you like to dislike you, don't be entangled.

So what you have to do is not only to work hard, but also to know how to clean up in your daily life, make yourself look clean and tidy, have time to exercise, make people look positive, sunny and cheerful, and powerful, in addition, don't forget to read, make people look connotative and cultivated, I believe that when you become excellent, you will meet more people you like, and the probability of meeting people you like each other will be greater.

So it's normal to meet people you like and don't like you, what you have to do is make yourself look better than before!

Clause. 1. Letting go of a person does not mean forgetting everything, that is, remembering this person and what happened to you, no longer sad and tearful, or indignant, but can smile calmly and indifferently. Clause.

Second, do a job that enriches yourself and makes life busier, so that you don't have so much energy to be sad and sad. Clause.

3. Life is always slowly losing.

Then take the initiative to fight for it.

It's not your fault that you fall in love with someone you shouldn't love, but it's a sadness. If you give up, it's hard to do it, because you've fallen in love with that person, and falling in love with someone doesn't prove the outcome, it can only say that you feel that feeling. Love is an emotion that you can feel, having love is not the same as having marriage, marriage is a real life to live.

So, although you are in love with someone you shouldn't love, you have tried the taste of love, and it is your happiness to have love, and now, the only way is to bury it deep in your heart, and you have not discarded it, but just put it in the safest and most mysterious place that no one knows.

Fall in love with someone who doesn't love you. Even if there is a result, it is the other party who is moved, a person is with you, but the heart is not given to you, is it interesting?

After paying, there is no return, give up but unwilling! Since you choose to give up, you won't be heartbroken after a long time.

This question is up to me, it takes a little time to type, so please be patient.

Hello, I'm glad to answer for you, when you meet someone you like, and this person just doesn't like you, I think the best way is to turn around immediately and let go decisively, there is no need to entangle and entangle! No matter how hard you work and how infatuated you are, you are only a bear playing the piano to a cow, even if you move the whole world, it will not mean anything to them; Because in his eyes, he is disdainful of you, he can't see any of your flashes, and your infatuation can only be self-inflicted in the eyes of the other party. Even if you chase after it all the time, fight all over your body, and finally catch it in your hands, what's the point?

There are many things in life that you like that do not necessarily belong to you, there are many fates that will not bear fruit, and some things are not the only thing to have; You can't drive it away, and you can't keep it; What is yours is yours after all, and it is not your coercion that you will use. When a relationship doesn't belong to you, it's better to let go in style, give the other party a freedom, and give yourself a kind of relief. This way, you have a chance to find someone who really likes you and loves you.

Hope mine is helpful to you, thanks!

The person you like, he doesn't like you, you just like it in one direction, because it's just a person's like, there is no way, because you love the wrong person, he doesn't like you, you can only choose again, don't feel distressed, because you chose the wrong one, you shouldn't like a person who doesn't love you, since it has brought you pain, you should let it go, you shouldn't be persistent, let yourself suffer, choose someone who loves you, come on, it will bring you happiness.

There's no way around it. Although you like him very much, you can't force people to like you, feelings are reluctant, and the twisted melon is not sweet. Try to let go, two people have to like each other to be happy, but one party's liking, one party's dedication will not last long.

This thing is very normal, anyone I want to live in this life, will meet something I like and can't do it, people who like you don't like you, so there is such a saying in society called strong twisted melon is not sweet, anyone who encounters such a thing will feel distressed, but there is no way you can't force others to like you.

There is no way, everyone will face this kind of problem, the person they like very much, they don't like themselves, they have paid a lot, and others are particularly disgusted, and their hearts hurt.

I could only accept it, hide my face and sob, and leave.

If you don't do anything, just give up.

People who don't like you and don't have vision, who don't like you and don't have vision, don't deserve your liking, give up decisively. The next one is better.

Fate is a wonderful thing, not because you like people, people have to like you, the best way is to learn to let go, only let go of your heart will not hurt, and at the same time you will easily start a new relationship.

There's nothing you can do, all you can do is look at him, if someone has a partner, then you can't bother, and when you don't have an object, they don't like you, then you basically have no hope.

True love is when you can love, know how to cherish.

True love is knowing how to let go when you can't love.

Because, letting go is the ...... having everything

When you cherish it, please love it well.

When you let go, bless ...... well

No one can say anything about love, but one thing I can be sure of, because this incident is my personal experience, love can make you do anything for each other, say anything, love is to give unconditionally for each other, do anything to do meaningful things! Even one person is not lonely ..

Love is by no means looking for it when it is missing, and it is not changing it when it is tired.

What do you think love is?

A little bit of emotion, a little bit of impulse, a hug and a kiss?

Naïve people, I have watched too many Japanese and Korean dramas, and I have read too many romantic articles.

This may be a trembling basis of love, but it is definitely not the majority.

The subject of love is life, living together.

Can you accompany her to be sad for a while, but can you accompany her to withstand all the pressure?

Can you give her body temperature, but can you give her the direction of life?

Have you ever imagined that when the enthusiasm fades, hugs no longer have any attraction to you?

How do you go along?

Distance is the test of true love, and time is the answer.

For the sake of the people you love, please make some sacrifices to keep your love.

Otherwise, how can we talk about true love.

You can forget your previous vows, but remember your true heart.

Ask yourself, do you love so much?

Are you willing to hurt both?

Love is by no means looking for it when it is missing, and it is not changing it when it is tired.

Life is not a good life for one person.

It's how two people live well together.

But for some objective reasons, in reality you can't be together at the moment.

Do you just give up so easily and make compromises?

Can't you keep it for love?

Do you allow yourself to be so short-sighted and only see the joy of the chant in front of you?

Is this the end of my life?

If it is true love, it will never give up.

Rejection is inevitably a disservice, but it should not be used to discourage you. Since it is the person who is in love with you, he is very sensitive to your words and deeds. If your attitude of refusing love is not resolute enough, it is easy to cause misunderstanding of the other party, especially if the other party is in a situation where you love you deeply, and the thinking you adopt out of politeness or consideration will make the other party feel that you also love him, at least let him feel that there is hope, and in the end it often brings greater harm than refusing love.

Second, do your best to maintain the other person's self-esteem. In order to reduce the psychological damage caused by rejection to the other party and make it easier for the other party to accept, it is necessary to try to maintain the psychological balance of the other party and minimize the inner frustration of the other party. Specifically, you may wish to first praise the other person's character and talents, and then explain why you can't accept the courtship. The reasons to be said should be reasonable, and it is best to put forward favorable aspects from the other party's point of view, so that the other party feels that the rejection is also for his (her) good; If you have to explain to others, you may want to attribute the negative cause to yourself to avoid giving the impression that you simply rejected him.

This method is especially suitable for those who are psychologically fragile and can avoid some extreme phenomena.

True love is when you can love, know how to cherish.

The love of the real spring grandson is to know how to let go when you can't love.

Because, letting go is the ...... having everything

When you cherish it, please love it well.

When you let go, bless ...... well

No one can say anything about love, but one thing I can be sure of, because this incident is my personal experience, love can make you do anything for each other, say anything, love is to pay for each other without a trembling old thing, do anything to do meaningful things! Even if you don't have a person, you will be lonely ..

True love is acceptance, not endurance; It is support, not domination; It's a condolence, not a question.

True love, to thank but also apologize; Be considerate and considerate; We must admit our mistakes and correct them.

True love is not to stare at each other, but to look in the same direction together.

Perhaps, love, is not the search for a perfect person; Rather, learn to appreciate an imperfect person with a perfect eye.

If you hold hands, don't do it, just say break up.

Perhaps, love is to give willingly and share joys and sorrows.

Don't wait until you lose it to know how valuable it is; Don't wait until you're hurt to beg for forgiveness; Something is lost and will never come back.

If a person confesses to you, please cherish his love for you no matter what, even if it can only be an ordinary friend; Perhaps there will not be a second time for a person's innocent confession.

Because of kindness, so cute; Because it's cute, it's beautiful; Because of beauty, so yearning; Because of yearning, so in love.

It's not because you're lonely that you love each other, it's about making those who love each other not feel lonely.

It's love, not time, that is able to ** all the trauma.

In a person's life, there will always be a large period of blandness, interrupting unsatisfactory encounters, it is love that makes us think of beauty, and there is still hope.

With love, you don't feel that hardship is a burden.

It is far more important to cherish what you have now than to pursue what you don't have.