Faced with such a situation, how would you choose 20

Choose what you love, love what you choose.

But there are limits to sacrifice, so why not try what it's like to be with someone else?

You started with ifs, how many ifs can be realized? Capable people must not treat anyone like that! Unless he has an idea.

It's better to ask him directly if he has a good impression of you, and being responsible for her is also responsible for yourself, after all, it's not a matter of a day or two for you to get in touch, and you should ask clearly.

Let's go. It's not very realistic, maybe you will find that he is not what you like. It's better to be realistic.

If the geographical factor cannot be solved, it is advisable to let it go. I can't delay myself!

I will continue because I believe that one day he or she will be moved.

You like and love him (her) so much, although he (she) does not hate you, as long as you have perseverance, I believe that one day you will move him (her) and let him (her) know that you are sincere and love him (her) for her, until he (she) sees and hears....Then you will be happy and happy together...Until permanently.

Distance is an issue. If it's too hard, don't force and grieve yourself.

I had the same experience as you, but as a result, she chose to stay away from me.

If he doesn't love you, there should be little hope for the distance.

If you like her very much, and she doesn't have a partner, then keep chasing! Unless she says that she won't like you, as long as she has a sincere heart to pursue, instead of trickery, and insists on using sincerity, maybe she will impress her. As long as there is sincerity, distance is not a problem.

I wish you a speedy search for your significant other!

Then forget it and be friends.

I don't think I would mind if I really liked him.

If you love him, don't hesitate.

If you don't love him very much, you can ask your parents for advice. Looking back, think about the "love and hate" between you and him. How do you feel when he's doing these things? It's uncomfortable, but it's still forgivable.

In short, you put your feelings first.

If this is me, I have already chosen, because I have similar things, but I chose it myself, separate, find someone who loves you, you will not be so tired, four people in life, only those who love you are relied on in this life.

Let's talk about meeting first, after all, this is the most real, and no one can predict what will happen after the meeting.

Maybe he'll fall in love with you.

Maybe you don't love him anymore.

Perhaps. The answer will only be known after getting along.

Influence him with action, let's take a look at the success of the bright girl played by Zhang Nara!

It's complicated. You must be living a very tired life. If you think it's your true love and love, then pursue it bravely.

Everyone has countless choices in their lives, and when we are faced with a choice, we have a book in our hearts, and the choice we choose that has the greatest benefit to us is the one with the greatest opportunity cost in the words of economics. "You can't have it both ways."

Having a choice means losing something, and giving it to gain something. Once we have chosen, we should not suffer from gains and losses. If you don't have the heart to do what you've chosen, it won't lead you to a good outcome. Letting go is also a success.

Sometimes, our choice is greater than the effort because you have chosen the right direction to bring you closer to success. And even if you work hard, but you choose the wrong direction, then the effort is in vain, and it will affect your psychology, spirit and confidence in life. A good choice is greater than unremitting efforts, only the combination of the two to create a successful you.

Life has made us go through countless choices, but it does not give us the answer of how to choose the right one, however, time gives us the answer. After countless choices, we still sometimes make the wrong choice, life gives us experience, we can only choose by our own experience, and as a result, we can only leave it to time.

Faced with a choice, after careful consideration, we must give ourselves a definite choice, no matter what the future outcome is, we are certain in our hearts. If you are still hesitating when you are about to choose, the result will be: even if you choose, you will have no choice psychologically, and you will suffer from gains and losses.

For a decider, it is not a wise move. So, the choice is the final word. Fixed, determined, and determined.

Those who don't change too!

When there are so many options in front of you, it may be simple; When there are only two options in front of you, it can be difficult. Different people will choose different answers, because different lives determine different needs, so the final answer is what you need most! Suddenly, it was like breaking through the clouds that had surrounded me for a long time, and I felt that the sky was still so blue, and the sea was still closely connected to the sky.

What doesn't change may never change, but what often changes is on the other side of the sea, and the people who stay for this have changed! In our eyes, the clouds do not exist every day, but the clouds float every day, and they do not stand still because of the sunlight, because they have their own sky! Remembered the phrase:

Perhaps only when you are the farthest away can you see the most true and clear view of the days you have passed!! Maybe many times for something, the moment of understanding is in that moment! Maybe you understand what you really need.

Maybe when I fell, the wound bleed, but I would only look at the deep wound, look at the blood that kept flowing out of the wound, and stand in place and dare not take that step, for fear of falling again, and slowly wait for the wound to heal. And I don't know when I stop, time is draining, and the pain is increasing! But I forgot that there are still things I should do, and there are still many things waiting for me to accomplish Every year, there is a change of spring, summer, autumn and winter, but human life is only once.

We must not allow this only one to be wasted in pain. Nowadays it has become a material society, a material people, but there are many things that are priceless. A lot of questions have been answered, and what is disrupting it all!

When faced with a choice to make a decision, your own decision is to choose happiness! It turns out that sometimes happiness is simple! When I look back on the past, I find that the memories have filled my brain, and I am tormented from time to time because of the pain, and I know what I need most at this time, that is, happiness!

Find a reason to be happy and have a happy mood! Perhaps there is one thing that is missing in my life, and that is words. I remember my mother used to say that it is important to have a good book!

But I didn't read books since I was a child, and I even fell asleep when I read a book. When I was looking for this so-called good book, I bought a book called "What to Irrigate the Soul with", just hoping that I could fill in some gaps with words. "The heart represents the inner world of a person, and people have always lived in two worlds, one is the world of external work, and the other is the inner world.

The external world requires a person's functions and roles, which can be promoted and developed, and eventually retire; And the inner world belongs to oneself and will never retire Yes, the love in life can fade, but your inner world has been active! Maybe at night, when everything is quiet, I will see my own inner world.

When you are faced with a choice, what is your state of mind?

People are greedy and want to have everything, and I am the same myself, but I can't have it both ways. When we put our hearts on it, when we don't face up to our place, when we are still selfless and intoxicated with ourselves, everything we need around us is far away from our ......

When you really experience it, you already feel lonely, and that's what I have summed up from talking to my friends......

What do you really want? I've thought about it seriously, yes, I need too much, but I can't be satisfied with everything.

A friend once said to me a sentence that I adapted: people can't have a heart higher than the sky, they must watch and measure themselves, and think about what they really want. It's really difficult to choose, when you're young, everyone has to fall a few times, when you're covered with thorns, when you're calloused for years, you'll see ...... clearly

Don't hesitate, don't look at a mountain high, and dig carefully, you will find that God is a very fair ......

Hello, people will make many choices in their lives, undoubtedly the most important choice is the choice of school when you go to school and the choice of work and family in the future, from your expression, your parents really want you to be able to enter the private company, but you yourself do not want to go against your parents.

I think the world is changing very quickly, according to what you say, first of all, health is not well guaranteed, often staying up late is more serious for people with high blood pressure, long-term high-intensity work will make your spirit in a tense state, plus it seems that the salary is not optimistic, less than 100,000 yuan in savings in two to three years, this number is almost a drop in the bucket in big cities, not to mention that in the end you also said, your father is just a driver, whether it can be done is still unknown, so in my opinion, If I had made this decision, I would have no hesitation in resigning and changing careers. Rather than losing my health and energy, or running for an unknown, I would not hesitate to choose to break into the next world on my own.

Now that she has changed her mind, she will never come back.