Is it difficult for everyone to be with the person they like and go further and further in real life

Yes. It's really hard to find the right fate. Everyone will go through a lot of wrong feelings and finally find the right one, so that you will cherish it more. Maybe this is just the creation of people. There are some things that cannot be changed by man, so let it be.

As long as you are happy, don't think too much, love someone to be good to him, like a person to be his friend first, understand him, walk together will be better, do not ask to be as good as you want all the time, but to be worthy of my heart. Be worthy of your conscience, sometimes being together is not so important.

Yes, yes. Heaven is often unfair, people who deserve to make you cry will not make you cry, but people who are not worthy of making you cry can make you cry, God is not especially human, God often arranges it like this, always let you pass by!

I also said that the people you like may not be able to live together.

Reality is reality.

The person you like is not necessarily suitable for you to live with.

It's hard to do both.

Yes. After a long time, the love fades, and the people who love each other will disperse.

The so-called alliance is just a passing thing.

It should be... Things can't go as they should.

I have to adjust my mentality if I like it or not

It's up to people. There's nothing you can't do.

That being said, there is so much to face for two people! A lot of times it's not two people who have the final say!

According to philosophical principles, this is the universal law of things, and only when there are contradictions can there be development, right?

Yes So don't hope too much for love, or else.

Just a personal opinion, you can think whatever you want

By the time you ask this question, your favorite person may no longer be with you, or she may have left you to find someone else. From the perspective of human nature, the easier it is to get, the less it is cherished, so there is what Zhang Ailing said, the white moonlight has become the rice on the cheongsam, and the red rose has become the mosquito blood on the mosquito net. You can like her very much, but you have to show it to a degree:

Afford it, put it down. If you show that I love you and I would die without you, then you are more dangerous, because once people have no worries, they will behave very presumptuously.

Let's talk about my experience, my first boyfriend was my high school classmate, of course I didn't be with him in high school, just having a crush on him, it took me three whole years, and I didn't dare to confess to him until college, and then he also found out that I had a crush on him for three years. I'm a face-loving person, and I don't want him to talk about this often, but he often shows off this to others, and makes fun of me, which makes me very unhappy. And he has a very bad temper with me, and often loses his temper with me at every turn.

Later, after another fierce quarrel, he had a relationship with another girl with a vengeance, and he was recruited, and he was promoted to father, and after he got married, he sometimes called me **, and his tone was very gentle, but I didn't pay much attention to him, and occasionally only said some irrelevant topics. The main reason why he started to lose his temper with me unscrupulously was that he felt that I loved him and couldn't live without him. I got married and spoke softly because I had lost me, and I regretted it.

Now I am with my husband, he is a very humorous, funny person, he is very good to me, he does all the housework, I go to ** is also to give me a good job in the morning, drive me, or buy a good ticket, I will buy whatever I want to eat, and take it with me. But he never said anything like what I would do if you left me, he said I love you, and I will be sad if you leave me, but I won't beg you. One time we had a fight and I ran out, and I got on the train and immediately remembered how good he was and came back.

Generally speaking, the favorite person is not suitable for being a couple, and the most suitable person is right. People also know how to cherish after experiencing loss, and I wish the subject happiness.