Broke his heart, did I do the right thing??

Updated on educate 2024-05-23
16 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Did you notice that? The feeling of love is always very sweet at the beginning, and I always feel that there is one more person to accompany you, and one more person to help you share, and you are finally no longer alone. Because at least one person thinks of you and loves you, no matter what you do, as long as you can be together, it's good.

    But slowly, as you get to know each other better, you begin to find each other's shortcomings, so problems happen one after another, you begin to be annoyed, tired, and even want to escape, some people say that love is like picking up stones, always want to pick up a suitable one, but how do you know when you can pick it up? She suits you, so are you suited to her?

    In fact, love should be like a grinding stone, maybe when you first picked it up, you are not so satisfied, but remember that people are flexible, many things can be changed, as long as you have the heart and courage, instead of picking up stones everywhere, it is better to polish the stones you already have.

    Many people think that it is because the relationship is weak, so people will become lazy, in fact, people want to be conquered by laziness, so the relationship will become weak, no wonder more and more people just want to fall in love for a lifetime, but they are reluctant to enter into marriage, because marriage is easy to make people lazy.

    If everyone is too lazy to speak, too lazy to listen, too lazy to create surprises, too lazy to be gentle and considerate, then how can a husband and wife or a lover not drift apart and become silent? So remember: a vibrant love needs to be properly irrigated.

    We always say: "I want to find someone who loves very much, will fall in love" but when the other party asks you, how to be very loved, you can't her, because you don't know yourself, only know that you are looking for a feeling for each other, but when you love someone, love to eight points is absolutely just right, all expectations and hopes are only seven or eight points, the remaining two or three points love yourself, if you continue to love each other a lot, it is likely to put a lot of pressure on each other to breathe for each other, completely lose the fun of love.

    So we should remember not to drink more than six points to be drunk, not to eat more than seven points full, and not to love someone more than eight points. If you are also confused about love, perhaps the following passage can give you some inspiration: To love someone, you must understand and understand; To apologize and to thank you; We must admit our mistakes and correct them; Be considerate and considerate; It is to accept rather than endure; It is tolerance rather than connivance; It is support rather than domination, condolences rather than questioning; It is a confession, not an accusation; It is memorable rather than forgotten; It is to communicate with each other rather than to explain everything; It is to pray silently for the other person, not to ask for many things from the other person; It can be romantic but not wasteful; Don't just hold hands, and don't let go casually.

    Don't be so selfish, what do you think you're doing this way to be good for him, what would you do if he did it? Tell him that because two people love each other, they should share each other's pain and happiness. You need him in reality, don't you?

    Silly girl, than think of real love as a romance drama.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Let him know why.

    You are not doing this to him. If he loves you, you should bear it together, no matter what the outcome.

    Don't be afraid. I'm sure you'll all be fine.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I think you're right to do this, it's better to have a long pain than a short one. The fact that you are so considerate of your boyfriend shows that you are very understanding. You should know that sometimes rejection is also a beauty.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    What a kind girl! I believe that the boy must have died happily!

    I think you should still tell him the truth, let him choose for himself, it can be regarded as a test of your love, if he really loves you, he will not dislike you, then you should use your life to love him well! If he chooses to give up, then don't want such a man! There's nothing to be nostalgic about.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    You're kind, and now there aren't many girls like you.

    Hope you are healthy.

    Happiness

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    ……Then it's up to you to see if you mean to.

    If you do it unintentionally, (you treat him as a friend or something) then you should apologize to him and explain to him clearly, unclear ambiguity is the most hurtful, although it will hurt at the time, but it doesn't need to be delayed for a long time, it's good for both of you.

    If it's intentional, (you treat him as a friend, he treats you as a lover) I think it's better for you to stay away. Maybe you have some unavoidable hardship for hurting him, but if you hurt him, you are hurt, and even if you can go back to the past, there is still a scar between the two of you, reminding both parties.

    If you still love him, and he still has feelings for you, then you will work hard to prove your love, and slowly use time to add your love for him is his wound slowly fades, maybe it will not disappear, but the existence of the wound will be more vigilant to each other, and work harder for each other.

    If you love him and he is no longer on you, then you can't be a burden to him, you can first care for him as a friend, take care of him, slowly put his heart together that was hurt by you, do your best, if it still doesn't work in the end, then you can also become a "familiar" good friend, and you can always support ......

    Anyway, don't think that breaking his heart is a trivial matter, sometimes, a boy's heart is more fragile than a girl's, so you must think about what you need to do in the future and work hard to ......

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Everyone is in a different environment, looking at problems from different angles, and having different needs, since they are sad! Go on. If it's a good friend, it's useless to explain, and if it's a general relationship, you don't need to explain.

    Next time you deal with such a problem, you can politely say hello in advance and try not to do things in a desperate way.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Don't do anything and live your life well.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I don't know how to evaluate your uncomplaining love at that time. However, in today's world, where women also have their own day, I can only say: your world can't just revolve around him.

    The children between you must have been the fruit of love for each other at that time. However, if the child can be sensitive to your unhappiness or even depression, or the quarrels between parents from time to time. So, why not be a harm to the child?

    If he really doesn't care about you anymore, I think it's best to leave. The outside world is very exciting, not that you have no ability at all without him.

    When you weren't with him before, didn't you go through the years of youth alone?

    Here, I hope you can be happy again!!

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Is he bad-tempered? You have paid so much for him, he should know how to cherish it. If your life continues like this, you will not feel happy.

    Doesn't he love you anymore? If he doesn't love you, you have to end all this as soon as possible, it will only increase the hurt and pain for a long time, and he will not treat your children very lovingly like this, which will also hurt your children a lot. I wish LZ happiness.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Breaking up is nothing in this era, divorce is nothing, what is a breakup, of course, you get married.

    Find a man I can only say that he is not suitable for you He is too self-conscious and doesn't know how to love you Maybe he loves you very much But he hurts you invisibly He didn't notice that he is not qualified Breaking up is the best way for you to get out of the sea of misery Maybe you will miss him But for yourself Children You need this Do you want your children to watch you quarrel every day in the future Separation?? It's better to break up early Don't give the child such a beginning It also reduces his troubles A single-parent family is nothing now Not to mention that in the future you can also find a lover who can tolerate your child Give your child fatherly love.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I recommend watching a Korean TV series called "Yellow Handkerchief", which is the same as you are now, but with the ending you want to see.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Return to your hometown, the harbor of happiness that once was, where you will heal!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Let's end your relationship early Really, it's not a matter of dragging it out.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Your dad will cry because he feels incompetent.

    Eating is for your physical health. You can be ignorant, but if your father doesn't want you to die early when you grow up, he must take care of your health.

    If it were you, you would cry knowing that your son would have a shorter and more miserable life than if he believed in someone else's behavior. It's like a family member in a hospital who secretly cries while coaxing a patient.

    And the metaphor is different. The only thing that can be done in the parable is crying. And you are not only crying, but also suffering, there is a way for you to grow up healthily, ensure the improvement of your body, and at the same time, let you succeed in your studies and ensure spiritual and material prosperity (that is, you can make more money).

    Crying and bitterness, the child has a snack, your dad really can't think of a solution after talking, you can play if you want to, can you take the time to eat and be full, if you want to be addicted to the computer, you can go on it, can you learn a little after you are addicted, not the first place at least that middle student, to ensure that you can't make a lot of money at least not to be reduced to asking for food.

    After thinking about what to do in the future, you go and tell your dad, it's time for you to comfort dad. If you don't want to be rich, you start with no food, and if you don't want a long life, you start with a short life. I will be better in the future.

    Let your dad look at the changes in front of you first, don't directly aim for the first perfection, father and son each make a step from mediocrity.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Answer: hurt himself

    First of all, through the comparison of Chinese and English sentences, it can be seen that the English sentences are missing"Hurt him and fight himself"The expression of the phrase"Hurt himself"The English expression is: hurt himself, and the burning and grinding expressed in the sentence is a thing of the past, so it is used in the simple past tense, so the answer is: hurt himself

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