How can I forget her and change myself? Thank you.

Updated on psychology 2024-05-23
8 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Four people encountered in a person's life.

    The first is yourself, the second is the person you love the most, the third is the person who loves you the most, and the fourth is the person you spend your life with. First of all, you will meet the person you love the most, and then experience the feeling of love, because you understand the feeling of being loved, so you can find the person who loves you the most, when you have experienced loving and being loved, and learned to love, you will know what you need, and you will find the most suitable person for you, who can get along for a lifetime, but very sadly, in real life, these three people are usually not the same person, the one you love the most, often does not choose you, and the one who loves you the most is often not your favorite, the longest, It's not the one you love the most or the one who loves you the most, it's just the person who appeared at the most suitable time. How many people will you be in someone else's life?

    No one deliberately wants to change his mind, he really loves you when he loves you, but he really doesn't love you when he doesn't love you, he can't pretend not to love you when he loves you, and similarly, he can't pretend to love you when he doesn't love you.

    When a person doesn't love you and wants to leave you, you have to ask yourself if you still love him, if you don't love him anymore, don't refuse to leave for the sake of poor self-esteem, if you still love him, you should want him to live happily, hope that he can be with the person he really loves, and will never stop him, if you prevent him from getting real happiness, it means that you don't love him anymore, and if you don't love him anymore, what right do you have to accuse him of changing his mind?

    Love is not possession, you like the moon, it is impossible to take the moon down and put it in the basin, but the light of the moon can still shine into your room.

    In other words, if you love someone, you can also have it in another way, so that the lover becomes your eternal memory of life.

    If you really love someone, you have to love him as he is, love his good and his bad, love his good and love his shortcomings.

    You must not want him to become what you want to be because you love him, if you can't change it, you won't love him, you can't tell the reason for really loving someone, you just know that no matter when and where, good or bad, you want this person to accompany you, the real feeling is that the two can stay together in the most difficult time, that is, there is no slightest requirement.

    After all, feelings must be given, not only obtained, separation is an inevitable test, if your relationship is not stable enough, you have to admit defeat, true love will not turn into resentment.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    I think you can go to a psychiatrist! In fact, there are bad women, and there are good women!

    It's normal for you to care about this relationship because you love! If you don't love, you won't be in the mood now!

    If people are in contact with negative things when they are negative, then you will be more negative!

    It is recommended that you travel, exercise, especially communicate with people and go out with your friends!

    I think you'll be fine!

    God will bless you with a good woman!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    The fact that you can say it proves that you can. Believe in yourself. I'm sure you can be good friends with her.

    That way you can quickly forget that she hurt you. But I'm sure you won't forget that you loved her. Because I believe you are a very emotional person.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Meeting the right person at the right time is a lifetime of happiness. Meeting the wrong person at the right time is a momentary trick. Meeting the wrong person at the wrong time is a ridiculous thing. Meeting the right person at the wrong time is a sigh.

    Believe in time. ,

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Hey, the world is actually very exciting, just ignore me, have you heard? I also like Zheng Zhihua very much I have only recently become obsessed with him He is really a friend and sang out my heart I have the same experience as you Although I look down on the world and let go of everything I only believe in my parents But I think very openly I don't have any troubles I am so happy I recommend it.

    Game of the world. rm This ** song listens to three changes and compares it with Zheng Zhihua's game world.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Men always have to take some damage, and if you have been defeated by these damages, can you still be called a man!!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Why is it so similar to my life, change the name, that's what I want to say, I'm more depressed than you, I live on drugs!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    We are so connected by the same fate ... I want to get out of it too!

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