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The former is unwilling to change his ways, while the latter can be changed for the better in a certain period of time.
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What are the standards for "scumbags", just look here, it's very accurate!
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A man who easily gives you promises but never keeps them is not worth your wait for him.
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1 scumbag wants to flirt when he sees a girl, 2 most scumbags are relatively handsome 3 ugly people can't get up if they want to be a scumbag 4 If you want to find someone who is not a scumbag, don't look for someone you love, you have to find someone who loves you.
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If you have the energy to talk to you every day, you will gain something if you put your energy into **, but feelings are not like this.
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The scumbag has an obvious characteristic, that is, he is not dedicated to his feelings, and when he has a girlfriend, he will be ambiguous with other members of the opposite sex, and there is no bottom line.
Such men are generally very good at talking, and will use rhetoric to amuse girls, but in fact they don't do anything practical.
When a girl is hurt and sad, he will immediately care and make himself look good.
is very distressed, so that the girl has feelings for him. He wants to use his gentle side to melt a woman's heart.
Scumbags are used to using sweet words to capture girls' hearts, but if you want to talk to him about the future, he will always avoid talking or divert the topic, and he doesn't want to be serious with you. He will not be responsible for his feelings at all, and he will not really care about every ambiguous object.
This kind of man is often very good at using his thoughtfulness and gentleness to hunt women's hearts. Most of the women he came into contact with would like him, but his feelings were full of uncertainty. When the girl decides to give up, he comes back to you, and when the girl is very serious, he is ambiguous and tormented.
He just has a playful mentality when he falls in love, and he doesn't really take it seriously.
If you meet this kind of man, you must stay away because they are unprincipled and irresponsible for love in doing so.
In love life, scumbags will only ask for each other, but they have no bottom line. It is what the old man Min Cheng often said, "Only the state officials are allowed to set fires, and the people are not allowed to light lamps."
He doesn't look at many things from his own side, doesn't find reasons from himself, but only blindly thinks about making the other party change, and is unwilling to pay for the other party in his love life.
Such men are often very selfish because they only ask the other person to make changes for themselves. But he doesn't want to do anything, he expects that in love, the other party will give everything for himself, and the other party will revolve around him.
And in the process, he gets a lot of satisfaction, and if his needs are not met, then they turn away. He won't care about the feelings between you at all, and he won't feel the slightest sadness even if they break up.
And a man with principles and a bottom line will think about each other in everything. A woman who will take care of herself within the scope of her ability, and will not be a person who is untrustworthy. I will also change in my relationship, become a better person, and show my love for you with practical actions.
Such a man is a person with a sense of responsibility and responsibility.
Girls must know that some men are just nice to you on the surface, but in fact, you don't know what they are thinking in their hearts.
So you must find someone who has a bottom line and will make changes for you, not those men who have no sense of responsibility and blindly demand from others.
The reason why many scumbags are called scumbags is because he always treats women very roughly.
If you meet a man who can't control his emotions and will yell at you at every turn, or even beat you, then you must get out of this unhealthy relationship as soon as possible.
When he is happy, he speaks sweetly.
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1. **Air conditioning.
Is it a warm man or a scumbag? He can talk to many girls, he is very heterosexual, and he is very gentle and caring for every girl.
Proper care and greetings are called warm men, and don't ask what should be asked and what shouldn't be asked. Everywhere releases warmth and releases charm, the message board on QQ on WeChat is full of girls' messages, and it blooms directly, scumbag.
2. Hypocrisy. Pretending to be busy and knowing everything, it's actually half a bucket of water. often says that he is very busy, and pretends to be very popular.
3. Cowardice. Scumbags are generally very cowardly, pretending to be very confident and powerful, but in fact, they are timid and afraid, as soon as you scare him, he can only coax you or take advantage of your weaknesses and attack you.
4. It's all you who is wrong.
No matter what happens to such a man, even if it is his own fault, he will blame others, and I can also find an excuse to explain, breaking up with a lot of words like not not loving you but not wanting to delay you.
You don't want to delay her, so why do you have to talk to her? There are some fallacies and heresies in the mouth, and some of them are not. What's even more terrifying is that the other party will still believe his defense, think that he did the right thing, and be moved, isn't it terrible.
5. Eccentric temper.
When he gets angry, he will lose his temper, he will throw things, he will take his temper out on you.
6. Spend women's money.
I don't even want to spend money to have a meal with you or go out to play.
7. Be careful.
I can't see a lot of things, and it's easy to get over sensitive things, so I quarrel with you.
8. Irresponsible.
This is the point that can best tell whether he is a scumbag or not, a scumbag will have no guilt and guilt about everything he does, and it is impossible to expect him to be responsible for you.
Scumbags fall in love only for themselves, and the ultimate goal is also for their own interests. He just enjoys the feeling that you like him and that you pay for him.
9. People who make you give up your interest.
He doesn't like your interests, he will try his best to discourage you from giving up, and he will want you to give up on the grounds that it takes up your time, and then you will have more time together.
10. Selfishness.
This kind of person only thinks about his own interests, is very generous to himself, and will buy himself a lot of high-end things, but he is very critical of you, and will always refuse your request for various reasons, and is not willing to spend money on you.
11. Strong vanity.
He doesn't like you, he just likes to be liked by you, and occasionally shows favor to you, just afraid that you don't like him, afraid of losing the vanity that you love, just like a pet runs away, the owner will call its name.
12. Hot and cold.
Such boys are the most scheming, like to be smart, think they have high emotional intelligence, and know how to affect your emotions and hang your curiosity and appetite.
And the scumbag will carry out this feeling more thoroughly, making you feel that he is capricious. Such a man still advises you to stay away from him, it is easy to get injured by mistake.
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