My parents are always worried that I am not safe outside, how can I address my parents concerns?

Updated on technology 2024-05-05
7 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Listen to your parents as much as you can. If you can go home more, you can go home more often to spend time with your parents.

    In fact, when we grow up, especially during the rebellious period.

    When I am most likely to be rebellious, I am very annoyed when I hear my parents speak, and the children in the rebellious period are the most difficult to manage, and I can't listen to anything, I always feel that my parents seem to be harming myself, like this kind of child is out of the house, it is normal for parents to worry, because I also came from the rebellious period, I have never done it before, my parents don't understand, and now I am a mother, I can understand the difficulty of parents.

    In fact, it is normal for parents to worry about us, we should not be disgusted with parents' worries, there is no parent who does not care about their children, if you are really a sensible child, in order to make your parents not worry about you, you should make a very sensible appearance, so that parents feel that you can take responsibility for yourself outside, and you don't need to let them take care of you.

    Just like when I was in junior high school before, I was particularly rebellious at that time mobile phones were very uncommon, even if I saw the mobile phone, it was a button mobile phone, and I was not playing WeChat, only QQ, since I learned to play QQ, I never listened to the lecture in class, and when I was fine, I went to the Internet café with them, and it became worse and worse, but I never told my parents about these things, and finally my parents understood that I was changing little by little, and began to give me a thought lesson, but I didn't want to listen to them at all, Eventually, I dropped out of school and went to work.

    Parents will play a few ** almost every day, every time I hit ** will say that I don't go out with strangers when I get off work, don't always go out to surf the Internet, stay in the factory well, at that time I was really annoyed with them, they hit ** I almost don't pick up, tomorrow morning to give them back, I said that I fell asleep at night, and then, very sloppy chat a few words on hanging**.

    After I became a parent, I felt how difficult it was for my parents to take care of us, and it was not easy for them to take care of us, I was very young and ignorant at that time, and I did a lot of things that hurt my parents' hearts, and now I am a parent, I am sensible a lot, and I know how to share some things for them, so those children who are not parents, if your parents are worried about you, you can go home, try to accompany your parents as much as possible, you must go home more, or well, give your parents a reassuring pill, let him feel, even if you are outside, I didn't forget my parents either.

    If your parents often greet you, don't be annoyed, gently explain to them what you have done outside to make them worry and guess at home, what you are doing outside, but not telling them, saving them from thinking about it often, being anxious every day, and having a lot of gray hair.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    The so-called worries of the mother of a thousand miles, the person who worries you the most about you in the field must be your parents, they want to control everything you have, and they also want to bear all the hardships you have suffered, and the love from your parents is the most precious thing in this life. However, often parents love their children too much, worry about their children's safety, and want to take care of everything for their children, thinking that only children can be safe under the wings of their parents.

    To dispel parents' concerns about our safety, we need to address the psychological aspects of our parents, so that they can let go of their uneasy hearts in their hearts. First of all, you should try to read the articles that your parents often send to you on WeChat to pay attention to safety, so that they know that you are also thinking about your own safety, and you agree with their ideas. Also pay attention to the number of times you play ** with your parents, you can choose to play three or four times a week, and in the process of communicating with your parents, they can perceive how you are living now, and you can also let them relax their hearts a little.

    Also remember to send the mobile phone numbers of your friends to your parents when you are away, once your parents can't contact you, they can find you through your friends, and they will worry a little less about you. Although we always report good news and not bad news, a simple ** can bring great comfort to parents.

    Don't feel that your parents will nag when they worry about your safety, they are more of a love for you, and you should have more understanding of your parents for giving you this kind of love. Parents will give you the best, this selfless love transcends all feelings, we should be grateful to our parents, they brought us to this world, gave us a warm home. Parents don't care if you're out there or not, they're just worried about you.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Parents are always worried that you are not safe outside, but also for your own consideration, but also for your personal safety, maybe sometimes parents speak in the wrong tone, but it cannot be denied that parents care about you, they just want you to be good, don't want to let things happen, but also out of protection for you. So we should also take a little action so that parents don't worry so much about us anymore.

    We go out to play as early as possible, don't get late every time, parents are very worried, to keep calling you **, let you go home early, maybe you will be particularly disgusted, and parents quarrel, but in retrospect it is a very small thing, if you go home early for a while, it will not be so that your parents will give you a long time to call, so you have to learn to arrange your time reasonably.

    You have to learn to grow, you have experienced something, you will always become very mature, you will always learn from something, because life will always teach you something. So you have to protect yourself, society is very complicated, people's hearts are sinister, so you have to remember for a long time, not everyone is particularly kind, and there are still many people with bad hearts.

    Think about yourself from the perspective of your parents, what would you do if you were a parent? You have to know what your parents are worried about, you have to understand your parents' inner feelings, and in order not to worry your parents, you should also behave well.

    We should communicate more with our parents, because communication is to build a bridge between people, it can make you more close the distance between you and your parents, and communication can solve many problems, so you should talk to your parents more, so that your parents can also understand your inner thoughts.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Talk to your parents first, say what you think, and then be able to report your whereabouts to your parents at a fixed time during the outing, so that they can rest assured.

    I think the best way is to calm down and talk to your parents, first show that you can understand their worries, and then say what you think, enlighten them to feel that you are away from home, and don't be petty and willful to your parents. Personal experience tells you that when you and your parents think differently, you must adopt a tactful and soft policy, persuade your parents with attitude and sincerity, and you must not lose your temper, and the consequences of willfulness are still to give in to yourself.

    Then I promise my parents that I am not alone, and I will definitely pay attention to safety, and give them an analysis of the safety of your surroundings so that they can rest assured, and then I will report my whereabouts to my parents at a fixed point, which will make them more assured. Let your parents know that you have grown up, you can take care of yourself, and you are safe and sound when you are alone, give them a full sense of security, don't feel that it is very troublesome to report your whereabouts, and it will be more reassuring to know what you are doing in the eyes of your parents.

    I'm studying far away from home now, so every time I have a holiday, it's supposed to be a good time to travel, but every time I tell my parents that I'm going to hang out with my classmates, they object, say it's not safe, let me stay in school, once or twice later, I'm very angry, every time I talk about this topic, I'm very unhappy to recall, my parents don't agree, I just play a little temper, but it turns out that it's useless to play a little temper, and in the end it's myself who gives in.

    Later, I decided to have a good talk with my parents, and then I talked to them a lot, explained all my opinions, and they were a little loose, and then I repeatedly promised that I would pay attention to safety, told them who they were going to play with, and also analyzed the safety of the environment after the tour, and explained at which point in time they would give them a **, and then they agreed.

    Therefore, in order to dispel their worries, it is necessary to reassure them in action.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Most parents in the world are very concerned about their children, but sometimes this kind of concern will be too much, there is a feeling of unfounded worry, just like parents are always worried about what you will encounter when you go out, it is normal to have this kind of worry, which proves that your parents care about you very much, but sometimes this worry of parents will make you very helpless, and may make you feel at ease when you go out. So we still have to find a way to let parents eliminate their concerns.

    Because many news reports that many students are missing or missing when they go out, many parents may be worried that their children will have accidents when they go out, so when you go out, you must report to your parents what you are going to do and what you are going to do, and try not to do dangerous things, and it is best to have someone accompany you to go, so that parents will not worry too much about your insecurity outside. It's like going out for a walk, shopping, playing with classmates, ......In this kind of place close to home, as long as you don't do anything too dangerous, your parents will definitely not worry too much. And you can usually talk more about how to avoid all kinds of dangers in front of your parents, what to do when you encounter danger, as long as you have a sense of safety and don't do dangerous things, your parents will be very relieved that you go out.

    You should also bring your mobile phone when you go out, so that your parents will not be in a hurry if you can't contact them, and you can call your parents as soon as you have anything.

    If you are going to some places far away from home, you must discuss with your parents, and you must say exactly what you are going to do, how to go, and when you will come back, these must be confessed to your parents, as long as what you say makes your parents feel that there is no danger, your parents will generally let you go, and you will not worry too much about going out.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    No matter which child goes out of the house, parents are always the most worried, especially girls. Girls are in a vulnerable state in society, and the chances of encountering dangerous situations are even greater, and those news reports on TV and the frightening ones seen by parents will naturally associate them with their children. If, just if such an unfortunate thing happens to your own children, the saddest thing is to be parents.

    Think about it from another perspective, if I become a parent, I will always worry about my child and not let him leave my side.

    As children, it is necessary for us to be high-speed parents who have more experience than us, know more, and have a stronger ability to deal with things. We don't want to tell our parents about our sadness and sadness, for fear that they will be worried, but you have to know that the more you pretend that you are okay outside and that nothing is going on, the more they will worry about you, because they know that you may be hiding from them, and they will be anxious to guess what you have experienced. Therefore, telling them the truth about your current situation is the best option.

    Give them a ** from time to time. Nowadays, young people may be busy working outside, and when they have a little time to spare, they will only think about how to rest, go for recreation, and will not say that they haven't fought with their parents for a long time, and find a time to talk to them. What you don't know is that maybe your parents are on the other side of **, worrying every day about whether you are safe, whether you have enough to eat, and whether you are tired.

    So, let's hit **, just two sentences will put them at ease.

    It is normal for parents to have concerns, because we are just children in their eyes, and there are many things that we don't understand and can't solve in good condition. Therefore, when you are still with them yet, you should show them your ability, let them know that you have the ability to ensure their safety outside, and let them see your sense of self-protection, so that they can also feel at ease with you, and their worries will naturally be reduced.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    There is no parent in the world who does not love their children, we are the hope of parents from beginning to end, after having children, almost all parents are filled with children in their hearts, parents work hard for us to make money to support the family, raise us to grow up, for us to study, our bits and pieces will affect their hearts, they can do everything for us, can let go of all their dignity....The love of parents for their children is estimated to be the deepest love in the world. So whenever we might be in danger, if there is something we can't solve, or when we encounter an injury, our parents will always worry about us.

    We grew up with our parents, around them, and one day we will grow up, we will go farther away to study, we will go to work somewhere else, we will no longer be around them, but every time we go out to school or go to work, we have their prayers and blessings for us. We always think that we can grow up and be independent, and we can think and deal with problems on our own, but we are always hurt and hit after being self-righteous. No matter how old we are, we are still a child in the eyes of our parents, so they are always worried about us, in fact, many times the way we deal with problems is not comprehensive, parents are people who have experienced years of tempering, they always think more comprehensively than us, we need to communicate with them many times, tell them their ideas, and do better with their guidance, don't think that parents are old, their diplomas are high, and they feel that their parents are not as good as themselves, A lot of times we don't do as well as they do.

    If your parents are always worried that you are not safe outside, don't think they are annoying, don't feel that they are always nagging you, it is because they care about you, they want to know if you are doing well, you can usually contact them more, fight with them more, talk to them more, talk to them more, they are always worried that you are not safe because they miss you, and you have too little contact with them, they don't know what you are doing, they don't know if you are okay, so they are even more worried. For example, if you are too busy with something, they have been unable to call you, and they will continue to call or can't get through, I believe that we will also be worried and anxious about such a thing, but if you can keep in touch with them at any time, they will know that you are safe at all times, then they will not worry so much about you.

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