Do you hate people you ve ever been with?

I can say very clearly that I once hated, but then, I didn't hate. In this world, there is no love for no reason, and there is no hate for no reason. If you hate him, it means that you still have feelings for that person.

When I first started separating from that person, I did feel like I hated that person so much. Hate his departure, hate his cruelty, hate him for keeping the two of us together. I used to be so close to happiness, but I was still ruined by that person, ruined by the person who once said he wanted to give me happiness, and I was completely wiped out, and there was nothing left.

At that time, it was really like tears, I washed my face with tears every day, I wanted to control myself, not to think about the previous things, but how can the heart obey the control of the brain? The most uncontrollable thing in the world is the human heart. I didn't want to admit that I still loved him, but I couldn't help but feel a cramp in my heart when I heard his name.

Maybe it's really uncomfortable.

But all the pain will be healed by time. Later, I had no love or hatred for him, just faint. I don't know if I've let it go, but it's not like it used to be, and I don't have too many mood swings in the face of him.

If there is no love and no hate, then it proves that I have no feelings for him. I'm glad I was able to deal with the past that we once remembered so calmly. Maybe for me, the past is really the past, and the beauty of the past will always remain in the memory.

People who have been together have loved and hated as much as they have been, but in the end, there is nothing left. Then let go of each other, let go of yourself, and start your own life again!

I myself will not, for people who have been together, the mentality that there will be should be a mentality of cherishing each other and never interacting again.

Because it's someone I once liked, even if the relationship between two people is gone, I think people who once had good memories shouldn't be a relationship of mutual resentment. This can also be said to be a recognition of the feelings that I have paid, every object of interaction is our own choice, even if we are not together, this past is indelible for us, so I think instead of resentment, it is better to be relieved.

Fix the past on the things that make you happy and have less negative emotions. For the past, the most hurtful thing is actually when you appear in front of me again, I have forgotten what kind of identity you are in my memory.

I think couples will break up, in fact, there are many factors, before we start dating, many things are not found by us, when we start dating, we find more and more inappropriate, resulting in discord between the two and finally break up, it can only be said that we are not the most suitable person for each other, not necessarily without love can only use hate.

Although I don't think two people should continue to be friends after breaking up, it doesn't mean that I agree that couples must be hostile people after breaking up, and forgetting each other is a way that I can accept. So I don't have hatred for my ex, but more about forgetting.

Some couples break up may be because of the boy's split, then I think there is no need for girls to resent boys, hating a person is much more tiring than liking a person, rather than having such energy to hate a person, it is better to use this energy to make yourself a better person.

Won't hate. Why hate? After all, didn't you love each other once?

Even if they don't come together in the end, they shouldn't be hated. Isn't it too selfish? There is no right or wrong in love.

It's also normal to be inappropriately separated. So we should look at this issue positively. And not hate.

I've had two girlfriends, the first one for one year and the second for three years. Of course, it all ends with me being abandoned. Isn't it quite decaying? That's why people often say that I'm frustrated in love and proud in the casino. Although every time it is broken up. But I've never blamed anyone else?

Because I always believed that if I was good enough, they wouldn't leave. If they love me enough. Nor will it leave.

And they left because they didn't love enough. Do you hate others because they don't love you? Isn't that unreasonable?

If you're good enough, how can others not love you. Since others don't love you anymore, it means that you are still not good enough and are not worthy of being loved.

So what you should do after a breakup is not to hate others. If you hate someone, you'll be like that for the rest of your life. What you should do after a breakup is to reflect on yourself.

Why do others break up with you, it must be that you are not good enough. Find out what your problems are and correct them. That's how you can grow.

If you break up, you will complain about others, and hate others. Is that really right? I think that's something that people don't want to do if they don't want to get it.

I can't do it anyway. Such people do not deserve love. When others love you, they can do anything, and when they don't love you, they hate you in all kinds of ways.

It's a character problem.

There will be two scenarios for this answer, the first is yes.

Absolutely! will hate the person who has been together, which proves that he once loved so deeply. And the other situation is not hate, then he means that he has never loved, of course, that is from an objective point of view.

This kind of problem will also vary from person to person, because each of us has a different personality!

It's like I have a neighbor who has a couple and they've been married for seven years, which is probably what people call the seven-year itch! There was a crack in their marriage, every day I could hear the sound of quarrels, and one day after that, the wife suddenly left with the child, I was curious, so I asked another neighbor, and the other neighbor said that they were divorced, and the child court awarded it to the wife, so the wife took the child and left, less than half a month, something amazing happened, the wife married another man, and the life was happier than before, they lived opposite the man, and life was very good, And the wife's husband has also found a new partner, and they have to get together with the two families on the weekend, which is something that shocks many people, and our neighbors are talking about it all the time.

But on the other hand, I don't think it's completely impossible, two people can be friends after they don't love, there is no problem of embarrassment or embarrassment, this kind of person is the kind of person who has a bigger heart, in fact, I want to think that life should be more open, bigger, tolerate all things, don't hate, love life with a new attitude, and feel life.

So I don't think it's a question of hate, it's just that it varies from person to person, and some things don't really look at the hurdle in your heart that you can't pass, life is so beautiful, why hate this and hate.

Hate, because of love, hate disappears in an instant, but countless times, every moment I think of.

I have never hated a person in a daze, even if I hated, now I feel that it is just an emotional vent, and it has only lasted for a few days, how can this be called hate?

Hate, there are no boundaries, no scope. The cause of hatred may only take a trivial thing to cause. So I thought:

The reasons for hating are so ridiculous, and sometimes ridiculous. It's really simple to create hate, and it can be said that it's as easy as a snap; However, it will be troublesome to get rid of hatred, and it will probably be more difficult than ascending to the sky.

Hate can sometimes make people work hard and fight bravely, but even so, the final result of hate is unimaginable. The consequences will have a direct impact on your surroundings and even your own life later in life. Hate, although people may not be able to control it, but we can challenge it.

Hate, can it make you happy? If you can't, not only can't, but you will also show your most cowardly and pitiful side without reservation. If you feel happy, it's just because you think you're happy to make the other person miserable, and it's just an illusion of living in unreality.

Because you are sad and sad, do you hate? However, hatred is only a manifestation of one's own trampling on one's last dignity in sorrow. It's very sad to do that.

All in all, the feeling of hatred is too uncomfortable. Everyone will have a feeling of hate, not that you should never hate, but even if you want to hate, you must hate for a reason and meaningfully.

I haven't hated anyone yet, if I really hate, it also means that I loved each other deeply before hating.

Hate. Because the other party is very strange and hates it for a week.

There are too many people who have hated. But I won't hate it for too long, because I don't think it's worth it.

Hate because he stole my favorite thing, hate it for a year.

hate, because he betrayed the relationship between us, and he will continue to hate for a long time.

I didn't hate, it was like my life was too dull and there weren't so many stories.

I used to hate my tablemate because he was against me at every turn, but now I'm relieved.

Hate, because she abandoned me, hate her until she finds a new love.

I hated my first love, and it took me two years to get out of the pain of a breakup! Others say that first love is the best memory, and it is the happiest to be able to enter the palace of marriage with your first love! But I am the one who was hurt the most by my first love!

If two people get along and break up peacefully because of inappropriate personalities, this is acceptable to me, but my first love got involved with me and my best friend behind my back, stepping on two boats, a proper scumbag! When I questioned him at that time, he still refused to admit his mistake, and firmly believed that it was because of our different places that the relationship had weakened! Still chasing me for a breakup fee!

That's right, a guy asked me for a breakup fee because he felt like he had given me a lot of gifts during the relationship! Why didn't he want to think about the fact that I had sent him so many gifts! It can be said that this first love really gave me a big shadow, and I didn't dare to contact the opposite sex for a long time!

I hated one and gave up a lot of things for him, but it was best that he gave up on me.

I hated, I couldn't do it because of love, I hated it all the time, and I haven't let it go.

It feels really a pity, after all, two people have loved each other before, and then all of a sudden the relationship is very bad like an enemy, how embarrassing. I can't describe that feeling, but I feel that it is a pity that it is very special. Even if two people can't be lovers, they can be friends, why bother to become enemies.

Do you think back to how good you used to be to your lover, and you feel that you are particularly slapped in the face, how can you like such a person? <>

In real life, I haven't seen a few couples who became enemies after breaking up, but there are many celebrity couples in the entertainment industry who used to love each other very much, but unfortunately in the end they really became enemies, and they are the kind of enemies who are unwilling to forgive for several lifetimes. But if you feel like this, this person will leave a deeper imprint in your heart, then you won't remember him for the rest of your life. Compared with He Jie and He Ziming, I didn't hear the news that He Jie was married at the beginning, and she was married to such an unknown man.

It wasn't until I watched a variety show that the couple participated in, anyway, I felt that He Ziming really loved He Jie at that time, and the relationship between the two of them.

I remember very clearly, once when I was home from vacation, I saw He Jie and He Ziming on Weibo on the hot search. I was curious at the time, but what I didn't expect was that they actually divorced. I don't particularly understand why they divorced, and you said that you would leave, He Ziming was really funny and began to scold He Jie frantically on Weibo, lest the world be chaotic, and I don't know what An's heart is.

I think it's really embarrassing for husband and wife to make a fuss like this, and it's okay to not get along with each other in the future, and they have to become enemies.

can't be said to be the most hated, but it's also the person who is the least to see now.

It's been a long time since we broke up, but he is still in my life, and his ghost is still lingering. Now that we think about it, it was a peaceful breakup, and he did a fill-in-the-blank choice than me, and that topic was one-on-one without a choice. We, the text message content is only two words.

I replied to him with one more symbol, break up? Like an innocuous topic, I started to shed tears when I put down my phone, pretending to be peaceful on the surface, but I was hysterical in my heart, and if it wasn't for the support of daily life, everyone would be sad. <>

Before the exam question came out, he had already done a good job of foreshadowing, and he didn't reply to the usual text messages at first, without one after another, without those warm little love words, and without deliberately creating a chance encounter, so I didn't have to choose. I hate him, he drove me to peace quietly, I hate him for asserting himself in a few words, I hate him in my best first love, silent as gold, I hate him, run away from me....I hate him for hurting me because of that special girlfriend, I hate him for not knowing right and wrong, I hate him for asking me to meet because of his girlfriend's pranks, I hate him for breaking up and coming back to bother me, I hate him for flickering in my life. What I hate more about him is that he didn't take care of himself and stayed away from me.

I think most of the topics are what to do if your boyfriend has an ex who is impressive, and have you ever asked your ex what he thinks. I'm his ex, I can only ask them, the quarrel is because the relationship is not solid, don't have anything to do with me, I'm not happy about it, after the breakup, I deleted his QQ, and the mobile phone number was also deleted, although I remember it badly, but I never dialed it again.

If you can't stay together, don't disturb each other's lives anymore.