Should a marriage without feelings be maintained?

Updated on society 2024-05-18
13 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    This still depends on your own heart, there is no absolute right or wrong in this kind of thing, if you think your relationship can be eased, then you can try, if you feel tired, it is better to let each other live.

    It is said that becoming a husband and wife is a blessing that has been cultivated for several lifetimes, yes, becoming a family is how much effort it takes each other to become like this, so as long as there is a slight opportunity to repair, don't give up.

    You have a child, if you want to divorce because you are tired, this is extremely irresponsible behavior, marriage is not child's play, how can you say don't want it, not to mention what adults will face in the future. What a blow the child's young mind would have suffered. Of course, it is not necessary to force a lifetime together, at least to work hard for this marriage.

    You can see if you are busy with work and have no time to accompany your husband to snub him, after all, a man must want his wife to be considerate with him, in fact, it is understandable that his wife does not accompany him when he comes back from work, and over time, he will feel that such a life is meaningless. The idea of divorce was germinated. At this time, finding your own flaws can still make up for the marriage that has been cracked.

    If it's really not your own reason, or your husband feels that you are together and makes him feel a trace of love, you can also sit down and talk, there is nothing that can't be discussed, let alone between husband and wife. In this way, the final result is unsatisfactory, but you have worked hard, and it is not unfounded.

    But if you are together and only two people quarrel endlessly, even if you are together, there is no point, not to mention, if this may have a greater impact on the children, it is better to divorce and find their own love.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    If there is really no need to continue to maintain, then don't maintain it anymore, if you take into account the child, then turn a blind eye and go on slowly, if you feel that it doesn't matter anymore, then leave!

    A marriage without feelings is like drinking a bowl of boiled water, which is indifferent and tasteless. But many people can't be truly free and easy, and are still struggling in this city of marriage.

    Some are because they are used to the life of being raised, to put it bluntly, they have no independent economic ability, once they divorce, the focus of their lives will collapse, and they will lose all the rich life they once enjoyed, and they can only barely maintain this marriage that has long existed in name.

    And some people are afraid of hurting their children because of their children, so they can only painstakingly manage this emotionless marriage, but this kind of marriage continues to maintain only as you personally think, you can give your children a home, but this is not necessarily what the children want.

    What children want is a family that loves each other, not just to maintain the illusion that it seems to be complete but is actually fragmented. True love for a child is not to give him an unhappy home, but to love him very much even if his parents are separated, so that he understands that he has not abandoned him because of the separation of his parents.

    Maybe this is the best love for children, in reality, how many couples have no feelings, but they barely maintain this home for the sake of their children, but in the end there are only quarrels and children's cries left in the house.

    On the contrary, those couples who separated peacefully because they didn't love each other ended up speaking calmly for the sake of their children, and their children became happier and happier.

    This marriage has no feelings, so there is really no meaning to exist, just like a pool of stagnant water without waves.

    Of course, some people can do it, even if they don't have feelings, they can still respect each other and live this life, then this situation can only be another matter.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    You have to think about it, after all, divorce hurts the whole family, if you already have children, you must think more about your children, don't divorce easily.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If it were me, I would talk to him, how can I not be tired, in order to regain my feelings, if he really doesn't want to regain my feelings, then I will choose to leave!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Then let yourself have family affection, every marriage is not easy, you can't expect only love, you should be responsible for marriage.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Sissy. You should look at this problem with a normal heart, the benevolent see the benevolent, the wise see the wise, in fact, it is a very happy thing to love someone! Since love, each other's sincerity is the most important, sincerity for sincerity, love has a home, a family is happy, a happy and perfect family is the most beautiful destination for a woman, is a safe harbor, men should take on the responsibility of the family, this, to give themselves a sense of security to the woman who attacked this, for men, the most important thing is responsibility, more important is responsibility, emotional marriage life is happy or not, but in the marriage of the two people The life of the servant should be based on mutual trust and understanding, after marriage.

    There are so many trivial things that out of sight are clean.

    When you see it, you can't help but nag a few words, between husband and wife.

    Be more considerate, be more humble.

    As the saying goes, "a hundred years of repair in the same boat, a thousand years of cultivation to sleep together", feelings need two people to tolerate and understand each other, marriage needs two people to take care of each other, this may be your "past life, this life continues"! Love what you love, no regrets, friends cherish the people around you who love you or you love!

    I wish you happiness; Sweet feelings, harmonious families, and happy marriages 0

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    1. How long can a marriage without love last 1. According to our ancient Chinese tradition, the first sentence must be persuaded and not persuaded to leave two people, even if there is no feeling, as long as both people are normal people and have not done something that violates public order and good morality, it is still recommended that you two argue and lead your personal serious cultivation of feelings, because two people have come together and become a person in a family, don't have different hearts all day long, both people are working hard for their families, and they can cultivate feelings. 2. But if two people have also tried to cultivate a relationship, and there is really no affection for each other, in this case, if the two people have the same idea, they can also choose to divorce. Let each other go, and at the same time give yourself a chance to find happiness that belongs to you, because even if two people are not divorced, even if they don't leave today, they may face divorce tomorrow, so it's better to let go early.

    To sum up, the above is the introduction of the relevant content about how long a marriage without love can last, I hope it will be helpful to everyone, if you have more good suggestions, please leave a message in the comment area below. Second, to what extent should the marriage be divorced 1, the first is a marriage in which two people do not love each other, we also said above, if there is no way to make two people closer by cultivating feelings, then this kind of marriage is in name only, and there is basically no need to maintain it anymore. 2. The second is sexless marriage, many people are difficult to talk about the sex life of couples, but if they are really facing sexless marriage, it is very torturous for both people, because a large part of the relationship between husband and wife is because of sex, so love will be warmed up.

    3. The third is the family that quarrels constantly, the personalities of two people are difficult to run into, and meeting is quarreling, such a family has a very big impact on the child, and if the child is older, even hope that the two of you will divorce, and do not want your family to be full of quarrels.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If everything makes Bi Yun emotional, and there are often contradictions and disputes between husband and wife, and they have not been able to mediate, and the family life is like a year, then it is better to let go of divorce, which is a relief for both husband and wife.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    First of all, marriages without love do exist. Sometimes, marriage is not based on love, but on other factors such as economy, social status, family background, and so on. In some cultural contexts, including some social environments in the past, parental arrangements, social pressures, etc., can lead to loveless marriages.

    In these cases, couples may not go through the romantic phase of love between them, but they can establish a marital relationship through other factors and in some cases successfully maintain the marriage.

    However, for most people, marriage is built on love.

    Love is one of the cornerstones of marriage, and it can inspire mutual care and respect between both parties, thereby enhancing the stability and happiness of the marriage. When love disappears, many factors in the marriage can be affected, such as communication, interaction, sex life, and many more. If there is not enough trust, respect, and understanding between couples, then the marriage may face a crisis.

    Therefore, the maintenance of a loveless marriage depends on many factors.

    Some people may find other ways to meet their needs in a loveless marriage, such as cooperation, shared interests, a sense of responsibility, and more. However, for others, a loveless marriage can bring many problems like dissatisfaction, loneliness, stress, and many more. In addition, many people find that even if they no longer love each other, they can maintain their marriage through hard work and compromise, and in some cases find years of happiness and fulfillment.

    To sum up, a loveless marriage can be sustained, but it requires both spouses to work together and establish other factors to maintain the marital relationship. However, despite the possible existence of certain success stories, maintaining a loveless marriage is still a complex task that requires both spouses to work together and compromise, and may require constant adjustment and adaptation.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I feel that there is no need to continue walking, so that I will be very tired and will never be happy.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I believe that each of us wants to have a good marriage, especially when we meet someone we like, then many people want to be able to marry someone they like, so they like you after they meet you. Then they will care more about each other and love each other, because they believe that through their own care and love, they will definitely be able to marry the person they like.

    We see that most people get married because two people like each other, and it is precisely because they have feelings that they can be better together, and in the end, it is precisely because two people have feelings that their marriages will be happier, but there are also some people who may not have feelings in their marriages, so I want to know now, marriages without feelings. Do we need to sustain it?

    Maybe for a small number of people, especially some girls now, they are very realistic. They think that as long as their material needs can be satisfied, even in marriage, there is no love affair, and they think that there is nothing. Even they feel that as long as their material conditions can be met, then he will definitely let such a marriage continue.

    But we see that for most people, they know that in order to have a marriage, two people must have a relationship, because only two people can have a relationship, so that they can have a better marriage. So it is precisely because of their mutual care and love that their feelings are deeper, and only so. It can also make their relationship better maintained.

    So we see a lot of people wanting to be able to have a marriage. Most people's marriages are very emotional. So I'm wondering now, do emotionless marriages still need to be maintained?

    Maybe for a small number of people, especially some girls now. They think that as long as they can meet their material conditions, then even if they have feelings in marriage, they will maintain it well.

    But we see that for most people, they know that if there is no affection in the marriage, it will be difficult to hold on. Because we see that in marriage, only two people can better care for each other and love each other, so that they can get along better together, and it is precisely because in marriage that two people can have feelings so that they can better cherish each other, and ultimately make their marriage more happy and beautiful.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It depends on your specific situation and requirements, if you are a couple with children, and you don't want your children to be hurt, then you can choose to maintain the marriage and be a couple who exist in name only.

    However, if you all feel that the world is so bad that you will be together again, it will be more uncomfortable than dying, and there will be no need to maintain it any longer. That's when it would be wise to separate, right?

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Does a marriage without affection still need to be maintained?

    Hello. A marriage without affection does not need to be maintained, and there is no need to maintain a marriage without feelings. If you don't have children, you may not be able to maintain the relationship between two people.

    If you can't live together, there is no need to force each other to live according to their own way of life, even if two people barely get by, it is very unsatisfactory. This shows that two people are really not suitable, and they should find someone who suits them.

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