Is it right to be bullied and choose not to care about being yourself?

Updated on educate 2024-05-18
19 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    This kind of thinking is not right, although there is no need to give him a heavy counterattack when everyone bullies you, that can't be bearable, you should shoot when you should shoot, and you can't let others be soft persimmons. If you don't fight back after a long time, not only will you not get the result you originally wanted, but you may also be bullied by more and more people.

    If this person is indeed a little bit of a brain abnormal, then you can ignore him at all, and just take advantage of yourself.

    There used to be a child in our class, maybe it was a lack of brains, chasing a girl, and then the girl of course didn't agree, and it didn't take long to find a partner, also a class, the not very normal guy scolded the girl's boyfriend in the group in our class, but, the boy did not have the slightest intention of fighting back, felt that he might have a little problem, and didn't want to meet him in general.

    After thinking about it, he actually did the right thing, even if two people fight, what can he do, his thinking is different from ordinary people's thinking, there is no need to be so serious, the two of them just need to be happy, why care about other people's opinions.

    Nowadays, many people are bullying people, relying on a little position in the school to do nonsense, and they don't take ordinary people in their eyes at all, but there is a saying that water can carry a boat and can overturn a boat, and they don't feel it at all, others just don't want to pay attention to them, but they think how powerful they are and how scary they are.

    When you meet these people, they bully you, don't be afraid, sometimes people who are completely reasonable are not good, let them see that you also have a temper, maybe you will not bully people at will in the future.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    First of all, I think it depends on the kind of bullying, if it's the kind of bullying that is particularly excessive, I don't think you need to blindly tolerate it, because if you just blindly tolerate it and don't make any resistance, others will think that you are a good bully, or even more excessively, they will bully you even more, because they think that you are easy to bully anyway and will not make any resistance.

    Secondly, I think you don't need to care if it's someone else's gossip, because how much power you have means how much pressure you have to bear. Capable people are able to get the attention of others. It is precisely because you have the ability and ability to have the kind of people who can't eat grapes and say that grapes are sour, if you keep every word of the person in mind, no matter what kind of person you are, then how much space does your heart have to hold those beautiful things?

    So sometimes there is no such thing as bullying, it's just that you care too much about what others think or what others say about you and what others think of you. In fact, all you have to do is to be yourself, what others say is his business. And you never know how unbearable you are in other people's mouths, and you won't know how many different you are in the eyes of others.

    So a lot of things are serious and you lose.

    The most important thing is that I think you should look at it a little bit, what you have to do is not to complain about why others bully you, but to make yourself stronger, so that those who have bullied you before are speechless. So what you have to do is to be the best version of yourself and prove that you are excellent with your own practical actions. There is no need to take many things to heart at all, those unbearable things will make him a thing of the past, and you have to try to look forward.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    We people are divided into several levels of status in society, so there are many of them, wearing colored glasses to see people. We are all the same, working hard for life, but some people, who think that they are superior, will always like to suppress some people around them who think they can eat. Often these people are not how good or strong they are, but because their own quality is too poor!

    There are several kinds of people who are often bullied, some because they are born with a timid and cowardly nature, and some because of their family background, poor background, or lack of self-confidence and low work ability, but also because those who love to bully people in this area lack basic upbringing. Being bullied is not necessary to care, it is to be yourself, but you must improve your ability to protect yourself, only when you are confident and strong, others will not dare to act recklessly. Therefore, for the sake of yourself and your family, you must work hard to improve yourself and be a person who lives with all your might.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    This kind of thinking is correct, because you have to endure humiliation and seek justice, and when you are not strong, no one will listen to what you say, as long as you become strong enough, others will not bully you.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Yes, because life is all about being yourself, although you will be wronged, but it is understandable.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I feel that being bullied, but choosing not to care, to be yourself, this kind of thinking is particularly pathological, if you are bullied, you should find a way to make yourself stronger, and then others can no longer bully you. That's the right idea.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Yes, don't care too much about anything, it's best to keep a carefree heart.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Only you know what kind of road you take, and only you know what to do and how to do it.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It's a bit false to say that you don't care, but you just don't care too much about that, or you're too tired, not to mention that people don't live for others, they live for themselves, so people have to live their own lives, don't care too much about other people's eyes, and prove that I'm good with my own practical actions

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    No people's nonsense is all in the way of your progress, be yourself.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It depends on what it is, we live in a group society, if others say that you have a reason, you have to learn with an open mind, the ancients said: Threesomes must have my teacher!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Yes, I don't live for them. Caring about other people's eyes will only make you more tired.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I don't think the subject needs an answer here; The other person mentioned by the subject should be a person who is more familiar with the answer within a person who is directly in contact or indirectly apart, and we usually choose to ignore all the eyes and treat it as if it does not exist, which is a superficial effort to do; What you have to do in your heart, firmly believe that you are right, encourage yourself, and use facts to prove that if you do something wrong that is embarrassing, it's okay! To err is human? On Victoria's Secret, Xi Mengyao has fallen, not to mention the mistakes of ordinary people?

    Hear from an expert; When someone makes a mistake, the person who humiliates others in public or indirectly is the one who lives at the bottom of the social bias. Bear the eyes of others and do things, it is obvious that you are many times stronger than those who give you eyes, and in the face of the eyes of people who are weaker than you in your heart, you will not care what they think of you.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    That makes sense, but most people probably wouldn't be in such a situation if they did.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Wonderful discourse. I did a good job, I was upright, and I didn't care what others said.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Yes, life is only a finger in the world, how can there be so much effort to care about that.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    But be a kind person and don't get lost.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Do your own thing, go your own way, and let others do the talking!

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    That's right! But that's easier said than done

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