My boyfriend came back from being a soldier and didn t contact me anymore, what s going on?

Maybe it's busy. If you think about it, your boyfriend should be very homesick when he comes back from the army. Let's go back and ask about the house, and then look for friends and relatives to get together. So time is tight, you have to understand him.

I'm in the same situation as you, I went to the army at the age of 18, and my wife is also 18 waiting for me at home, I'm a little worried. It would be nice if he could wait as patiently as you do

So in a word, don't think about it, it must be a long time to come back, miss your parents, you wait, maybe he will look for you in the next few days. I wish you and your boyfriend happiness together. Hehe.

The blind date is gone! I don't understand this!

We're all like that.

As soon as I got home, the family was full of photo objects, and there were several people every day, so I was busy! --I finally went home, and it was all like this!

Of course, I won't let you know, let alone tell you.

When you just come back, everyone must look for him and get together with him. You communicate with him every day, and others don't have this blessing to contact him every day. So come back now and make up those friends. It doesn't mean I don't value you. Give him some time.

Wait for two or three days to see it, but there is not much hope, after all, no matter how busy a person is, he will not be busy and have no time to eat.

Maybe it's because I've been busy lately, and if I haven't contacted you for many days.........You should know what's going on.

Just came back and had to give some time.

It's normal for a soldier to not be able to hold a mobile phone every day like we do, and maybe he is not allowed to play with his mobile phone during training.

I don't want to pay attention to you, for no reason.

You must have said something or acted to her, and she doesn't want to explain it to you, so you can ask her the reason after a while.

If you have any urgent tasks, rest assured, if you are really anxious, he will call you as soon as he is done.

Don't pay attention to him in the future, and when others come to you, you don't pay attention to him. It's not terrible to quarrel, it's terrible to ignore it.

Personal opinion: In the face of love, you must also have self-esteem! If you don't take yourself seriously, others won't care about you!

Proposal: Let's go in style!

Wish: Be yourself again! All the best!

You first have to find out why he's like this, if there's something you're her off. Be patient, play a few more **, and say a few more nice words to coax her. If it really doesn't work, if you're in a city, go see her, pick her up from work, or go downstairs to her house and wait for her.

I'm in a similar situation to your girlfriend, I've been ignoring my boyfriend for almost a month, just because we separate the number of times he comes to see me, and he spends so little time with me, I don't think he values me at all. So you must not cause unnecessary misunderstandings like us, what is there to communicate well, tell her that you care, come on!

Maybe you're busy, you can send a message to say, don't be busy and reply to **. If you don't reply, take the initiative to call him, and if you don't answer, forget it, you don't pay attention to him, don't give him too much face.

People annoy you.

If it's not your thing, then give up love. Go find your own food, go see his grandmother, after all, they're all dying, go with your boyfriend.

First of all, it is a very honorable thing for your boyfriend to choose to join the army and serve the country. So if you really love him, you should support him. Instead of being at a loss, or even dragging him back.

Secondly, not seeing each other for two years is indeed a bit painful for a couple in love. But you should believe that true love should stand the test of time! On the other hand, if you are not in love, then even if you stick together all day, nothing will come of it.

Third, even if he goes to the army, the two of you can still keep in touch. And as long as you can keep in touch, this relationship between the two of you can be maintained. In short, you don't think of "being a soldier" as a "chasm" between the two of you, and the problem can be alleviated and solved.

On the other hand, if you have to drill the horns, the gods can't help you! ~

First of all, for the sake of your future, if you are not forced to do so, of course, it is better to solve the problem of long-distance relationship as soon as possible.

After all, when he was in the army, you were in a different place, and if you were still in a different place after retiring from work, it would be very detrimental to the development of your relationship.

One is all kinds of insecurity and suspicion caused by long-distance relationships, and the other is accustomed to long-term long-distance status, which is not conducive to the development of the relationship between the two.

After all, connecting online and seeing each other once in a while does not allow you to really get to know each other, and there is a lack of a process of running in with each other.

Waiting until you get married to start living together can easily lead to conflicts.

As for how to choose the future work location, Mr. Hai Ge suggests that you start from reality and make an objective and rational choice.

If you are planning to get married, where are you going to settle after you get married, and if you have already decided on a place to settle, then it is best to work in the place of settlement.

If you have not yet decided, but you are considering getting married, then you can discuss which side of the future settlement is more advantageous, compare each other's job prospects, buy a house, children's education and other aspects, and choose the location that is most conducive to each other's future development to work and settle.

Of course, the most important thing is to think about whether you are sure that he is your future, and how you can choose what is best for each other.

Some people may say, of course, it is the woman who compromises, after all, it is you who marry, not him who marries, even if it is a career, you must put the man first, after all, men are more competitive in the workplace.

Summary. Since your boyfriend wants to go to the army, I think you should support his choice. And he is also consulting your opinion, it can be seen that he still attaches great importance to your opinion and respects you, so you should support him even more, and the two people can understand and support each other in order to go further.

My boyfriend asked me if he was going to be a soldier, and I wouldn't run.

Since your boyfriend wants to go to the army, I think you should support his choice. And he is also consulting your opinion, it can be seen that he still attaches great importance to your opinion and respects you, so you should support him even more, and the two people can understand and support each other in order to go further.

No. He asked me if I would run away with someone else if he was going to join the army.

How can I prove it to him.

Your actions will prove that you and he will use my actions to prove that I will always love you.

Support his dream of becoming a soldier.

No. 5 years is too long. Too much has changed. Unable to ** with control.

In love, mutual respect between the two is the first premise in any social relationship, and without respect there is nothing. Respect is the foundation, and love is the superstructure on which it is built. Love without respect is unequal and will not be true love.

Absolute loyalty does not mean loving only one in your life, but loving with all your heart when you love one.

Love is selfish, this is the law of nature, and no one wants to see their lover and someone else have intimate behavior. In life, you must know that you are already a lover, pay attention to your words and deeds, boys should be steady, girls should be reserved, and don't let the other half be jealous, which will hurt each other.

Caring for each other cannot be said to be about love is to let someone take care of whom, but to let two people take care of each other. Love is different from friendship and affection, and love is a more intimate emotion than other emotions.

When two people are together, there is no loneliness, emptiness and coldness, and there is motivation and meaning in life. Therefore, lovers should love each other, care for each other, selfless dedication, and support each other in the warmth given to each other.

Tolerate each other, two people together, it is not possible to have smooth sailing, there will also be contradictions and misunderstandings. Everyone is not perfect, and to love someone is to love both his strengths and his shortcomings. And I have to try my best to correct my shortcomings for the sake of each other, so that the love between two people is better.

Hesitating? This is the time for true love to be tested. It's a matter of being able to do each other and not being alone. No one can guarantee it. You believe in him and you have a 50 chance, and he believes you have a 50 chance. You have to decide your own love.

It depends on whether he really loves you, how much you love him, and is he worth your wait? If the two are happy, it's fine. But in today's society, it's hard to say, you still have to be cautious.

How old are you now? Five years is too long, two years are a problem, let it be, don't report too much hope, you have your own life, or work hard to perfect yourself, there will be a better future boyfriend waiting for you.

You can see that you love him very much, and he loves you very much. Many times vows are pale in the face of reality. A lot of people have lost to reality. Maybe he has unspeakable hardships, because there are too many uncertainties, he doesn't want to delay your time, I hope you have a better life.

If he really loves you, he is straight to you, wait, if he doesn't love you, you have to learn to let go, love is for two people, do you believe him? If you believe in him, a soldier is honest and gives a love than this.

How do you make it to part with life and death, yes. Before, I had a classmate's boyfriend who was going to be a soldier, and I would call her ** when I had time, and the relationship has always been very good, and now I'm about to get married.

It's a little dangerous, but it's up to you.

I feel that he loves you very much, and if you love him too, just wait for him silently.

Now you can have a mobile phone as a soldier, and you often keep in touch, but it's not easy to talk about emotional matters, and it depends on your fate in the end.

Didn't I tell you everything?? Don't wait stupidly???

Mother Jia - a historian from the four major families, an old lady from Jiafu, and a grandmother of Baoyu. In the Jia family, he started from his great-granddaughter-in-law until he had a great-granddaughter-in-law. With her shrewdness and ability, she was able to secure the position of the head of the Jia family.

The two of you have a good relationship, and I will look for you in ten years.

As long as you are willing to wait, he will definitely come back to you with his will for you.