I spent 3,000 yuan on my boyfriend stealing, and I was found out, and now I want to break up with me

Updated on society 2024-05-18
58 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    First, you should recognize your mistake and apologize to your boyfriend. You should be honest with him about your behavior and apologize for your behavior.

    If your boyfriend has already decided that he wants to break up with you, then you need to respect his decision and try to accept it. You can try to communicate with him, understand his thoughts and feelings, and try to find a peaceful solution.

    If you're feeling very sad and can't accept the breakup, you can try seeking support and help. You can find a friend, family member, or a professional counsellor to help you deal with your emotions and emotions.

    Most importantly, you should learn from this experience, learn to respect the rights and property of others, and avoid making the same mistakes again.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Forehead... First of all, I want to say. How my mom taught me that!

    If you want money to earn yourself, you want to make your own living! Your attitude should be borrowed, and I will give it back to you. You're not stealing flowers!

    Call the thief! You're not officially married, you're just boyfriend and girlfriend, and it's theft legally! First of all, you have to understand your own problems.

    What's next? I'll pay you back the money, break up! Women say that the breakup is just for the man's more concern.

    The man said that he broke up... It's basically a hard heart. Because I never say that I will break up these two self easily.

    It's not easy.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Then separate, why didn't you ask him at the time, although you didn't do well, but the boys who generally like themselves will definitely forgive you.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    People change with the change of society, environment and even growth, and the so-called time and the so-called past do not mean that the whole life remains unchanged. If it's not your own problem, your boyfriend must have his reasons for breaking up with him, and at this point, you are unilaterally persistent, unilaterally insisting, I think it's useless, it's the so-called barely happy! The old will not come if the old does not go to the new, there will be gains if you lose, maybe in the future you will meet and find a better other half than him.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If you don't break up, you won't grow, and if you break up, you will meet a better one.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I don't know how long you've known it, some boys often pursue girls on impulse, but after a while, he began to fade his enthusiasm, calm down, and then rationally look at the girls he pursued before, and found that many places do not meet his realistic mate selection standards, because of a lack of security. Therefore, it begins to be lukewarm. At this time, don't quarrel with him right away, if you really like it, try to be patient and then show your strengths.

    Don't let him feel insecure, get through this period, and the two will gradually get to know each other.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It used to be before.,I hope the landlord won't be so serious.,Can't get along with yourself.,I hope to let go.。

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Now that you have explained that you are "iron-hearted", you should expect the result, the twisted melon is not sweet, and it may appear again in the future; All you have to do now is to relax your mind, adjust yourself, and tomorrow will be better.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If you love deeply, try to redeem it, people always grow up in stumbles, and this trip can't reach the end, then get off quickly! Find your next port.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    When a man proposes to break up with love, it is almost impossible to redeem it! Even if it is barely recovered, it will not be able to return to the original! Men are rational and don't come up with a breakup easily without much deliberation!

    When he brings it up, you must have touched his bottom line or he has despaired of you and doesn't want to continue! To warm a pair of hands, it's okay to roast them over fire, but it's hard to warm up a cold heart again! Instead of struggling to keep it, it's better to face it calmly!

    Leave him alone, you're both good!

    The reasons for this are as follows:

    People say that there is something in the eyes of a lover. He has lost love to you, then what he thinks in his heart and sees your shortcomings in his eyes, in this case, even if you are the reincarnation of Xi Shi, he can't see that you are a beauty. You don't have the slightest attraction to him, can you win him back?

    Second, love is a matter of two people, he doesn't love you, you love him and love him to die and live can't move him at all, it's useless to do anything for him, but it makes him feel that you are stalking him and disgusted with him. He avoided you like a warm epidemic, and you couldn't avoid it, and you saved his heart, which is simply a fool's dream.

    3. Even if he relents for a while and agrees to continue to be with you, he will not be able to return to the sweet emotional state of you and me in the past. Because a broken mirror has cracks no matter how well it is glued, it is not a complete mirror.

    Let's imagine that if you win back your heartless boyfriend, no matter what the reason is for him to "change his mind", it will be you who will make sacrifices and concessions. The weakness of human nature is reflected in your boyfriend at the moment, it is you who stick upside down, pestering him, and his bottom line is clear to him. Your boyfriend can't see your affection in his eyes, but he despises your cheapness in his heart.

    People never cherish cheap things, and throw them away when they are bad. In a relationship, what is more likely to be staged in the future is the coldness and ruthlessness of the other party, or even stepping on a few boats, and the spare tire forever.

    Your boyfriend has reached the point of despair, and you have reached the last step of letting go, whether you are reluctant to give up this person or reluctant to pay for this relationship, it's time to stop the loss. Your boyfriend's heart is dead to you, and any kindness you do to him will turn into a meat bun and beat a dog, and in the end, your boyfriend will be unharmed, and you will be empty after all, and you may be left with the sequelae of love incompetence. Girl, you don't feel sorry for yourself, how can you expect others.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    You said that your boyfriend is hard-hearted and wants to break up with you, what can you do, you said so, then you can only adjust your mood by yourself, just adjust your mood slowly.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I was reluctant to ask a question, I loved him very much, and he resolutely refused to give me a chance, saying that he didn't like me anymore, thinking that I had a bad temper and exhausted his love for me.

    I don't want to ask questions, I love him very much, this is my first love, I don't want to give up, what should I do.

    It's good to ask him, this time I did something wrong, I really have a bad temper, what should I do, how can I get it back.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Your boyfriend is determined to break up with you, and at this time, the girl will not be reserved if she keeps it, and your future relationship will be very passive.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If a boy is determined to break up with you because of a small matter, then you agree to his request, and sooner or later you will feel very tired and unreasonable to get along with such a man.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If you want to save your relationship, you have to take action, take care of your boyfriend when he is sick, give him care and warmth, men are sometimes more fragile than women and have no sense of security.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Your boyfriend may just be unhappy because of a momentary emotion, so he wants to break up with you, give him a little time, don't chase too much, he may regret it.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If your boyfriend is determined to break up with you, I don't think this relationship is worth keeping so affectionately, because the relationship must be consensual, not unrequited.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Your boyfriend is determined to break up with you, and I think you have to break up and not die with him, because it will hurt you.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Falling in love with someone doesn't tell you how it turned out, it just says that you felt the feeling.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    What can you do if a man is determined to break up with you? Then it's just one for each other. Have a perfect impression and let it go.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If you can't let go of the other party, then of course you have to send a message to the other party, saying that you care about the other party, and hope that the two of you will communicate again. Be considerate of each other.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Why do you have the heart to drink with me? What should I do? Then I think she is hard-hearted, and there is no way, since this is the case, it proves that the two of you are destined to be together.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    If your boyfriend is determined to break up with you, it's definitely a breakup. You don't have to redeem it.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    You should try to redeem it, if it is still irreparable in the end. You should just think, learn to let go.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Then you can apologize to him and buy him some gifts to make him happy.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    If the other party has made clear his attitude, then at this time, he must focus on reality and choose reality rationally, which is the most correct.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    I feel that he is too materialistic, if you don't give it to him, he will entangle you, and give it to him to boost his prestige.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    If there's material stuff, leave the rest to hell with the.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    It should be given to you, which is obviously a pit of money.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Give it to him, isn't it just that little money, and besides, after a few months, why do you spend other people's money.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Of course you don't have to give it to him! You ask him how much you should pay for him.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    If you don't like it, don't spend other people's money.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    No, he's happy to make friends.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Such a man can only be said to be a scumbag.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Depend on. There's still something to go back to.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Is he a man? Or you're not a girl.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Definitely going to pay it back. Think about it from a different perspective.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Return the items you bought to him, and forget about what you eat!

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    This kind of thing should also be asked here

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Then give it to others, after all, it is for you to spend.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Such a man: Oh, a.

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    He is not the only man in the sky, is it possible that you can't get married without him? It's not like this society can't live without any man.

    The man doesn't like you anymore, in addition to the fact that you yourself are not liked, maybe this man has long liked the new and hated the old, and he has changed his mind, so he will break up with you with an iron heart. In this case, you will follow him with the money, and he will only abandon you after spending the money.

    So it's better to give yourself a little dignity as a human being. Leave a man who won't cherish you and find a man who understands you and loves you. It's still a good thing for you.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    Divide it, otherwise it will delay each other.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    Think about it, if 5000 is important to you, he just spends it regardless of your opinion. I just don't care about you. If you are angry and want to break up with him, you can go to the police.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    It's just a boyfriend, just using money like this, can you still deal with it in the future?? Your boyfriend has a big personality problem, so it's better to turn him into an ex-boyfriend as soon as possible. This kind of scumbag can't be wanted. I don't know how much it will cost you in the future!!

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    First of all, this is not right, even if you have a hard time, you have to say it, even if it is to tell you afterwards. Look at your problem, you should have discovered it yourself after the fact, if not, then the following analysis would not be valid. In summary, there are three points:

    First, where did he spend his money? Second, it is not advisable for him to take the money and delete the records. Thirdly, it is difficult for him to do so without doubting his feelings for himself.

    You have three choices now: first, ask him seriously where the money was spent and why he wants to hide it from you, to see if it is worth forgiving. Second:

    Don't ask, don't think, don't make trouble, don't doubt, be honest with him, just let go of the 5,000 yuan thing. Third, break up directly. Personal opinion, I hope it can help you a little.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    Dizzy, such a filthy person, you can delete him.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    If it were my boyfriend, I would ask him about it.

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    It's normal for the two to be noisy together, if he loves you deeply, it won't really be a breakup, but now I'm very angry and can't control my emotions, and it's okay after two days. Don't try to persuade him first, let others persuade him, give him some time to calm down, maybe tomorrow will be fine.

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    Personal advice: Separate for a month and let both parties think calmly about their respective problems. If he still decides to break up after a month, then divide it, and the more you want to get something, the faster you lose it.

  51. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    Normal, someone controls their emotions, someone is controlled by emotions. Maybe it wasn't right in the first place, and separation was the best ending.

  52. Anonymous users2023-12-21

    She's green, can you not want to divide it?

  53. Anonymous users2023-12-20

    Then divide, the twisted melon is not sweet, and only if you find someone who loves you can be happy.

  54. Anonymous users2023-12-19

    The universal version? Computer.

  55. Anonymous users2023-12-18

    Are you **, you have done something sorry for him, just communicate well.

  56. Anonymous users2023-12-17

    The answer is yes, compare the heart to the heart. Not all women who hate men think this way to the extreme, and of course, there are some cynical young men who love to attack you women. are all equal and relative.

    I hope you can meet him sooner The answer is yes, heart to heart. Not all women who hate men think this way to the extreme, and of course, there are some cynical young men who love to attack you women. are all equal and relative.

    Hope you can meet him sooner.

  57. Anonymous users2023-12-16

    To be honest, it's not good to want! Unless he has a conscience.

  58. Anonymous users2023-12-15

    Let's see if we can come back. Find a way to get back.

    I think you can talk to your ex about repaying the money, after all, it is very normal to repay debts, not to mention that the two of you have broken up, even if you are still a couple, you still need to repay the money! In my opinion, money is inevitable when men and women get along. Men and women who are in love borrow money from each other because they feel that the other party is trusted.

    However, money transactions are necessarily sensitive, and in general, there are two types of money transactions between men and women, one is a gift and the other is a loan.

    In my opinion, even the most intimate relationship, such as blood relatives, should be repaid once they borrow money. Anyone's money doesn't fall from the sky, it's all hard-earned, and couples should be more considerate of their other half. In fact, if there is "borrowing", there is the responsibility to "repay", and the relationship between the two people does not explain anything.

    No matter who it is, lend you money. You don't need to be reminded by others, you should prepare an IOU, and give it to others while getting the money, which is a kind of integrity and a kind of self-protection.

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